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My Awayness.

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by HaRRo, Nov 21, 2008.

  1. HaRRo

    HaRRo Elite Member

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    I noticed in another thread it was spoke about me being a little bit not much active lately.

    Here is why.....

    OK some of you already know in the last month lots of shit has being going on in real life, 2 family funerals, one being a car collision, life support, coma and life ended, one being old age, and those where all in the same week. Next of all was my panic attacks ( i suffer from panic disorder ) that sort of came back on full swing, and lots of other smaller stuff just all came at once.
    It was also my birthday on the 19th November so i have been a huge bit hungover for days. And if thats not bad enough i have the most killer toothache and im waiting until Monday to go see a dentist.

    So dont worry guys im around just not feeling active enough to make a usual great post or guide but gimme a week or two and ill be back in full spirit.

    Specially without the toothache :D
     
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  2. justthinking

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    Take your time Harro. We all understand. About two years ago, my sister, nephew, and g grandma died within a few weeks of each other. I am still not over it.

    Now, I thought I was going to lose my mom. Everything worked out though.
     
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    my god... i hope both of you only have good news from this moment on...

    life is so short and fragile

    i'm sorry to hear

    my condolences
     
  4. Essential Clix

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    Yeah bro, take your time, all the time you need. Sometimes we all need a break, especially with heavy situations like yours. We'll hold down the fort while you're away.

    And sorry to hear about your losses.

    PS - toothaches SUCK
     
  5. HaRRo

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    Toothache is worse than any pain you can imagine. Specially when it travels to your whole head, ears, eyes, jaws, neck, back, :S
     
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    Unfortunately, Monday is a long ways off. Take care and maybe a few brews might make you forget about it for awhile.
     
  7. Essential Clix

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    If you dont have an pain meds, rotate (2) ibuprofen (advil) every two hours with (2) extra-strength acetaminophen (tylenol) every two hours. Of course, if you're drinking heavily, this might not be a good idea... :(
     
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    IB is also an anti inflamtory which will help with the toothache . i think do not qoute me on that . Now my remedy use to be whiskey and IB but then I quit drinking *stupid me got to carried away with drinking* So I take IB when I get a toothache or any other ache and works ok enough IB knocks out any pain for a short period of time . Or so it seems .
     
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    Hey Harro,

    First off, Im sorry to hear about your losses.

    Secondly, I know all about having toothaches, I had a tooth break off about a year ago and it was some time before I could get to the dentist. To ease the pain a little, Take some BC powder and put it directly on the tooth, Put some of it on the gumline where the tooth is also. That should ease the pain quite a bit.

    Just something you might want to give a try if you havent already. And I agree about the drinking to much, It will actually irritate the tooth more.
     
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    How does anybody drink 'too much'? I have been trying but never quite get there. lol
     
  11. Chris Devon

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    I know how you're feeling. When i was 10 a speeding driver ran over my friend in front of me. He was in a coma for a month, and then they shut down the life support machines because he would be a vegetable and all his life on life support. I couldn't speak for 2 days when that happened form the shock i was in. To make thing's worse the motherfucker that ran him over was a multimillionaire and he walked out the prison in less than a day with a fucking fine of $2000. I hope he gets :crucified

    Take all the time you need Harro
     
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    Wow! Just when I was starting to feel sorry for myself. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing better.
     
  13. engine102

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    Harro, Peace be upon you and your family during your losses. Take care of yourself and take the time you need to find peace.

    Toothaches and back pain suck, I think I'd rather go through a vasectomy again without anything...well, maybe not that... ;)
     
  14. davioli

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    So there are more people with panic attacks...I know how you feel....take your time mate!.. Don't think about the panic too much...I know its hard but be in your "safe zone" for a while...make yourself comfortable and don't go out much for now.
     
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    Glad to see you around again, HaRRo. :D

    Take your time, refresh your mind, hangover with your friends, and drink a lot of alcohol ! :D

    Panic Attack, never suffered that, but that's suck for sure, oh, and toothache is totally suck! I have suffered that ache twice in my life, and my entire days ruined, LOL.
     
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    Try some hurricane gel. Its a numbing agent and works pretty well, got me through several days with a broken tooth and exposed nerve before I could get in to see the dentist.
     
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    Harro, I appreciate your sharing. Getting to know people over the internet, we lose sight that we are real and have lives that has sh!t go on. Keep on getting stronger and we will see ya when you are healed!!
     
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    Sorry for your losses, I know this must be a tough time for you

    I lost both my parents within a year of each other.
    As far as panic attacks go, I am right there with you. I have been suffering from this crap for over 15 years. I know exactly what you mean about them coming out of nowhere and deciding to kick your ass.

    Hang in there bro, let me know if I can help
     
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    I'm really sorry about your losses.

    I've sure missed you, but please take all the time you need for yourself.
     
  20. Tilt4832

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    Harro, my GF is a Registered Dental Assistant so I can tell you that if the pain gets bad and ESPECIALLY if it gets infected. Get the tooth out NOW. Dentists are on call!

    The infection would be bacteria, and it's a very short journey from your jaw to your brain. You do not want it to go septic!

    We also had I tragedy in the family, lost Kelly's youngest son, we feel for you.