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My Approach With Women Sucks...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by coreygeer, Aug 1, 2008.

  1. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    While I can offer some good advice on getting IM Businesses started and I've made some money online, I can honestly be a guy that says.. My approach with women sucks.

    When ever I simply just say hey or how are you to get a conversation starter, they'll just ignore me or make up an excuse as to why they can't talk.

    The fair starts tomorrow and there's always a ton of women there. I'm asking for help ladies and gents.

    http://www.myspace.com/coreygeer I don't think I'm ugly.. I'm skinny.. I show confidence in what I say to women, I don't hesitate, I'm very straight forward..

    What are some dos and donts and best of all: What are some good pickup lines or things I could say to get a woman's attention and hit off a great conversation. I want to hear your advice :)
     
  2. Diabolik

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    PM me...maybe we can help each other out.
     
  3. Bastian

    Bastian Registered Member

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    haha....

    Actually PM me too...I'm actually going to be in training to become a pick-up coach.
     
  4. Bastian

    Bastian Registered Member

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    BTW: Id also take down those, "don't fuck with us" pics.
     
  5. Black Hat Seo

    Black Hat Seo BANNED BANNED

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    Listen, women are all about radar. It's a built in system wired to their brain that goes off when an acceptable man is around.

    1. Dress like a millionaire
    2. Act like you could give a fuck about the women around
    3. Be the center of attention, engage everyone around you, make them laugh etc
    4. Repeat steps 1-3 throughout the night and more and more women will be making themselves available to you.

    The other surefire method is wing bitches. Aka cute women you know who will hang with you and talk you up at the bar like "I can't believe Corey is single, hes a dot com millionaire, I hear hes phenomenal in bed, and a great time to be with"

    Trust me, women have their ears open and they will want to know more about this "fantastic" guy
     
  6. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    I probably should mention I am 20 if that helps or gives anyone an idea of the age range of women I'm working with.
     
  7. ximscreamingx

    ximscreamingx Power Member

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    Nevarc pretty much said everything you will ever need to know (coincidentally, his advice works in the business world too) . Maybe rent an Italian automobile for the weekend.
     
  8. coreygeer

    coreygeer BANNED BANNED

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    Well I drive a 1991 RS Camaro if that helps? Lol
     
  9. premiumsource

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    As a college ball player and a good looking guy I've never heard a problem with women and am able to pull any girl so take my advice. I don't ever use pick up lines cuz they are corny and it's obvious you are trying to impress them.

    Instead do this:

    Girls love attention right? Well, don't give it to them. Try to kind of ignore them and don't pay too much attention to them. Still talk to them and be polite but make it seem like your aren't too interested. This works everytime because now they will try to get you since they've lost their confidence. This works the best with hotter girls because they expect guys to be all over them. So this way they'll come to you instead of you coming to them.

    Now the next step is once you are alone to completely open up and charm them to the moon and back. Now this is completely up to you which way you want to do this, you can do this simply by just being yourself(I highly recommend it) or pull it Wedding Crashers style, I don't give a shit, it should work.

    I've been pulling that move for years now and haven't failed yet. And probably won't since I have a girl of my dreams now so I won't be trying anymore. :D

    Good luck!
     
  10. Black Hat Seo

    Black Hat Seo BANNED BANNED

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    True, sadly for a lot of guys, a slick automobile and threads are one of the easiest ways to score top level women.

    A lot of haters get pissed and call them gold diggers, but its not true. Certainly there are money grubbing whores in every scene, but what women really find sexy is a guy with his shit together, and one that can offer some level of stability.
     
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    yes thats women, but he's dealing with girls though. :D



     
  12. easymlmpro

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    With that attitude it always will. Change it. How about "My Approach With Women Gets Better With Every Woman I Speak To"

    Women are attracted to confidence. Eye contact, Eye contact, Eye contact. Don't lock in like a psycho, but don't be the first one to break it more than once or twice.

    Direct always works better than BS. Best opening line is "Hi, my name is _____". Not "Know why they call this a fly? (pointing to your zipper) Because it takes you to heaven". Sorry, been looking for an excuse to say that....

    After that, disregard every single thing in the world going on around you other than her. If you do that honestly, she will know and it makes a great first impression. If she has friends with her...completely ignore them. That gets the jealously vibe going which makes her friends try to horn in on her action which makes her more interested in you. Believe me...we're talking millions of years of genetic coding here. They can't help it.

    If you need something to say after introducing yourself, tell her whatever it was about her that honestly caught your attention (be tactful obviously) and that you would kick yourself forever if you didn't at least walk over and say hi.

    It works. I've used this approach to meet (and quickly murder) at least 116 women in the surrounding states. Just Kidding.
     
  13. kayzne

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    you worry too much.

    you need to start failing with girls more. get those rejctions, ya, i said fail. so it doesnt scare you anymore.

    life is like marketing, all in the message. except in real life women have 5 senses, so you need to send out 5 good messages. in order

    phase one

    1. sight
    2. smell
    3. hearing

    then, once you have passed those tests, move to phase two.

    4. feeling
    5: taste
     
  14. Black Hat Seo

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    theres not a 20 year old this side of jupiter who wouldnt hop into a ferrari any day of the week :)

    Ok I took the time to check the Space, pictures are no good, your showing yourself to show yourself which basically shows well nothing interesting. You want pictures that show you as the boss, having fun, people wanting to be around you.

    Beyond that, I may need to fly out and straighten you up.
     
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    You've been given good advice on the forum here but if you still need more help try this link (not an affiliate link although I did make some coin when I was an affiliate) http://www.doubleyourdating.com/m/articles/initial_conversations.asp

    He's got enough free advice to get you going in the right direction. Good luck.
    Oh, and ditch the superfly shades.:D
     
  16. premiumsource

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    Yea those are the kind of girls I'd like a few years ago but not anymore, things change and im only 23:rolleyes:

    Those kind of girlies are easy and anyone can pick those up.



     
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    Toss the shades and get rid of the photos where you are trying out for Reservoir Dogs 2. But looks like you've been given some good advice from others and you look like the type who shouldn't have a problem if you can follow directions.
     
  18. coreygeer

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    Well, the fair starts tomorrow and let's see if we can pull it off.
     
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    The most important thing is to be yourself and to relax!! Don't try too hard. Good luck!

     
  20. blanko

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    Nevarc,
    Is my pic super cool....I bet you have no idea who she is...haha

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