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Moving in with the GF

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by corrosion, Jul 29, 2009.

  1. corrosion

    corrosion Registered Member

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    I'm 20 and I met my current GF in college. Ever since we met we've spent almost every single day together so it felt like it made sense to both of us.

    We've been dating for 7 months and I'm still wondering if it's too early. When did you guys make the big move? Would you say 7 months at 20 too soon?
     
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  2. SpellZ

    SpellZ Regular Member

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    Waaaay to soon!

    You'll get the horrible diease called, ONEGINA! .. Trust me... you don't want it!
    You're 20! Make Moneh!

    Fast Money, Fast Cars, Fast Women

    Then when you're reaching your late 20s you can start settling down
     
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    SpellZ Regular Member

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    Hagiology, do you have a 'oh shit' backup plan just in case?
     
  4. monkey

    monkey Registered Member Premium Member

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    it depends on what your life goals are, if you wanna settle down and live the normal everyday life then moving in with your gf would seem fair.
    (have a backup plan!!)

    if you're into exploring with no strings, travel whenever, do whatever. then its prob not such a good idea.
     
  5. vegasvillan

    vegasvillan Regular Member

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    Dont do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  6. MuonTrail

    MuonTrail Registered Member

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    As long as you're not screwed (i.e. homeless) if you two break up. If you do move in with her, though, you'll find out real fast just how much you two like being together (or dislike being together). :)
     
  7. tygrus

    tygrus Supreme Member

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    You 20 year old swinging dicks don't know shit. You are a different person about every 10 years or so and the chances of divorce are super high for people who get married under 30. You will be giving all that blackhat money away if you make a mistake.

    Just keep dating, no rush. If she is still by your side in 3 or 4 years after she grows up, then look at it. Chicks don't want the same type of guy at 20 as they do at 30 or even 40. You will get your ass caught in the wringer if you jump too soon.
     
  8. preedge

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    It's never too soon as long as you know, and you are ready to face, the consequences of your actions.
     
  9. stinky_boy

    stinky_boy Junior Member

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    my advice: love has not one damn thing to do with logic. they are opposites. the only saving grace you have at this point is your goals and maturity. having successfully graduated from 4 marriages, i can tell you my mistakes, but I will say looking back, always have a prenuptial, and at least have your degree.
     
  10. Geetfaux

    Geetfaux Super Moderator Staff Member Moderator

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    Way too soon..don't shit on your own doorstep just yet.
    Posted via Mobile Device
     
  11. corrosion

    corrosion Registered Member

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    Thanks for all your advices. I guess I'll have to wait and see what happens. If you see another "Gf fucking crossed the line" thread, then we all know what happened lol

    Thanks again for the wise words!
     
  12. Sanitarium

    Sanitarium Regular Member

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    This reads so cute that i just imagine you hugging your keyboard just before writing this.

    Don't we have a thread about a guy who did this? Maybe it just went unnoticed and wasn't popular enough.

    But yeah, 7 months is a really short time even if you take dumps together.
    Whatever you choose, have this one on me while you two spoon:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIq9x2Cu0Cw
     
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    Noooooooooooo (slowmotion)
     
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  14. corrosion

    corrosion Registered Member

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    What about lilly and marshall? They're happily living together.
     
  15. zenerchi

    zenerchi Regular Member

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    DONT BE AN IDIOT.

    Every time you wanna make a big decision with a women always jerk off right away. right after you bust a nut listen to that choice. that is the choice of your dick not influencing you.

    Nothing in this world is better than freedom. You can have all the money in the world but if you dont have freedom its as good as shit.
     
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    I moved in with my current girlfriend about 3 months in. And been living together for the past year. I think everyone here seems to think that moving in together constitutes marriage...

    Hagiology, i think there is a bit of a difference when you say you have dated a girl for 7 years, and your only 19. You started dating her at 12? You giggling while you hold hands in the back of class doesn't really make a 7 year relationship.

    To OP. I would just do it man. To be honest i dont understand why you would want to live apart, only to move in together in a couple of years and realise it wont work out anyway. That is if you see yourself with this girl in a few years.
     
  17. heiny

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    Moving in constitutes to you not being able to bring random girls back from a night out having a laugh......................................That being said, if you see your life exciting from having same girl in bed, then go for it. Noone's stopping you.

    Good luck though.
     
  18. thehilitereel

    thehilitereel Registered Member

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    If she cooks, cleans and treats you good, go for it.

    But if she's a type of girl that doesn't do shit.. You're best off not moving in together, unless she's crazy in bed.
     
  19. gbmack

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    It all depends on the girl..
    Will she stick with you through thick and thin?
    Will she drain away your BH cash?
    Do you truly love her?

    I wouldn't listen to people here saying "no, don't do it" without any explanation.
    Like BHW, fuck the norm, do whatever YOU want.
     
  20. x-bassist

    x-bassist Junior Member

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    dont do it :D
    take lessson from ********