I wrote this guide when I was doing some yahoo answers. It turned out so good I wanted to make something more of it. Since I don't own a site in the dating niche and it soon being valentine's day and all, I just decided to post it here. Maybe it will help someone. (Method) Valentine Special-17 steps on how to get a girl so smoothly that she doesn't even notice what hit her. PHASE 1 stand extra close to her sit extra close to her spend lots of time with her look into her eyes extra long Let your bodies slightly touch for a second if you walk past or beside her mimic her body language (if she crosses her legs you do the same, if she brings her hand to the mouth you do the same, and so on) Talk about stuff she likes, and listen to what she says, the more you get her to talk the more she will like you. Give her lots of generic compliments (clothes, car, music taste and so on) Do nice things for her like give her a nonthreatening present like coffee or a piece of gum Be flirtatious but in a I'm just kidding around kind of way PHASE 2 When she has accepted you doing all of the above, continue with that and add the following 11. Start to touch her for short periods of time: grab her hand for a second or two if you want her to follow you somewhere, touch the small of her back to steer her in a certain direction. This is done to increase the body contact without her necessarily being able to accuse you of trying to seduce her and thus having a reason to back away. Your just being friendly that's all *cough*) 12. slowly start complimenting more personal things (like her smile, hair, personality traits, eyes, laughter but make sure to still keep it in the not romantical zone) 13. Make the gifts and favors you give her more personal but not obviously romantic. Don't give her a big rose and heart shaped chocolates just yet PHASE 3 14. Increase the body contact further: lure her into sitting in your lap in a fun and quirky way. Give her hugs when you meet, depart and every chance you get in between. Examine and admire her jewelry closely and thus get to touch her hand, ear/jaw, neckline. Inconspicuously brush her thigh with your hand by "mistake" PHASE 4 If she hasn't run away by now it's time to bring out the big guns. Until now you have been trying to get more and more intimate but without disclosing that you are actually want to be anything more than friends. In this final step you need to slowly make your true intentions known. If you see she is pulling away from you back up a step until she's ready. 15. Start touching her more intimately: hold her hand. Stroke her with your thumb when holding her hand. Put your hand on her thigh. Put your hand on her back and stroke her a bit. Get her to sit on your lap and be comfortable staying there. 16. Make the compliments you give her romantic and personal letting her know your feelings. 17. Now it's time for the romantic presents (Flowers, chocolate, hearts, you name it) PHASE 5 - the kiss Now you need to get that first kiss to happen, after that, you do another and another. By the fourth it is pretty much smooth sailing from there, you have landed the girl. She will at least try to get with you from here. 18. I know guys who just asked the girl if they could kiss her and she said yes, this approach is working but risky though, cause she could say no. The best thing to do is just wait for a moment when you feel there is an intimate tension between the two of you. You look into each other's eyes for a prolonged time and you can sense that spark deep inside your gut. Now here you have to man up and make the move. Close your eyes lean forward and as the crab in the little mermaid says "kiss the girl"