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Men are obsessed with sex, hide their emotions, and cheat

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  1. dheer

    dheer Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    what do u think?

    http://in.news.yahoo.com/139/20100401/385/ten-it-s-official-men-are-obsessed-with.html

    and the most interesting thing from that article:-

    "In case of women, foreplay is everything that happens in the 24 hours before intercourse. For men it's what happens three minutes before entry"

    "According to the book, men want an average of 14 sexual partners in their lifetime. Women want one or two."

    What do u think about both of these statements?

    My thought about first one is yes for women foreplay matters but I am not agreed with the second statement about->> "Women want one or two." :D
     
  2. Erik Creed

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    Agreed, it depends on the woman in question.

    Some women are loyal and stick to 1 man whilst others cheat. I hate women that cheat. LOL

    But truth is both men and women cheat, I can say that over 90% of my male friends cheat on their wives. So that kinda sucks.

    One thing is certain it's hard to find a perfect match these days, that's why there is so much cheating going on.

    I believe that a relationship should be based on love for one another. But today most relationships are about sex.

    I also believe that some people honestly can't see the difference between sex and love.
     
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  3. dheer

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    well I think even if we find perfect match.. after we spend some time with that partner we get bored and we need different taste.. :D

    Yeah 100% agree with you that not only some but I think majority of ppls don't differentiate sex and love. Love fails at sex lol. and it is the fact I think.

    I am living in India and here still ppls (I must say Girls only) respect culture but I think our culture is also at its peak and nowadays many unethical sexual relations happens here.
     
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    1. Women want sex just as much as men do, perv as much as men do and stare at men's crotches, etc.... it's just that society has made women talking sex "unladylike" and they do it on the sly or with other women. Men doing it openly are just being "men".

    2. Women only want one or two partners... if they can provide. Until a woman finds her "ready made man", she'll play the field just like a man. But again, it's "unladylike" to do this in the open. Which is why men can be called "players" for it and women are just whores for it.

    3. Women lie about sex. See my first two points. They will exploit "The Intercourse Loophole", though. i.e. "I've given head to 8 guys, been finger fucked by 15, eaten out by 4, and had sex with three girls. But I've only had intercourse with two guys, so I've had two sex partners."

    4. The foreplay thing is true.

    5. You cats better become affiliates of wherever and market this book, because it's gonna sell like hotcakes.
     
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  5. Nimrod

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    Personally I'm surprised it took them this long to figure this out...
     
  6. The Scarlet Pimp

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    Men are obsessed with sex, hide their emotions, and cheat

    and this is news... :confused:
     
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    I agree that woman want sex as much as men - just in a different way for different reasons.

    As far as foreplay goes, if everyone would stop watching all this fake ass porn where the girls scream and moan constantly and orgasm at the site of your c*ck, things would get better for us real girls. Licking my earlobe or softly caressing my inner thighs gets me crazy hot and bothered but, guys always want to go straight for the t*ts. Gently kiss my neck and back for ten minutes and I'm putty in your hands!

    This country was so repressed sexually for so long that now it's gone the other extreme which is just as damaging to real sexual relationships, IMHO.

    Maybe I should be blogging...lol!
     
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    yea...i agree with you, this statement is total bs, i guess a (prudish) woman wrote this article...
     
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    I call Bullshit because I want to get with damn near every girl (that looks decent) and that number is dramatically over 14.... I GUARANTEE I could go down town right now and find more than 14 girls I want in less than 14 minutes

    I love girls, girls, girls, girls
     
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    LOL thank god Tiger the Pimp and Sandra Bullock's nazi-humping husband finally exposed this horrifying new trend.
     
  11. Deviance

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    Women cheat just as much as men do, men are just more honest about *cough* too stupid to keep it a secret *cough*


    Oh and never forget fella's:



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    While this is a generalisation it is true. But you say it like its a bad thing
    (well, ok the cheating is dangerous in this day and age not to mention
    insulting). I LOVE men. The fact you think about sex so much makes my life
    and no doubt that of other women much easier.

    I can't believe someone got paid AGAIN to tell us what we already know.
     
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    woman cheat much as man, just woman are smart guys are dum so they dont keep there track clean lol my opinon
     
  14. n8800

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    Lol men don't give a shit...thats the way i see it.. :) We were born players!
     
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    Funny...i was just studying for my Comm exam...

    "29 % of college men will have 15 or more partners in their college carreer"
    "9 % of college ladies will have 15 or more partners in their college carreer"

    2/3 divorces are initiated by females...contrary to popular believe, men do not leave...
    men are 8x more likely to commit suicide after devorce...
    Married men are psychologically and physically healthier...not so for woman.
    Men will re-marry sooner:
    the longer a man spends in the devorced or widowed state:
    1.the higher his likelyhoodof developing heart or lung disease or cancer
    2.the greater his risk of high blood presure, diabetes or stroke
    3.the more difficulties he will have with mobility
    *Not so for woman...

    (Studies hard...lol)
     
  16. edvoltage1

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    Yeah I agree, we do like sex as much as men but we are not completely obsessed with it as much as they are. I do like sex a lot but I like my vibrator just as much ;) as a mans dick. I probably turn my self on more than any man ever could.

    On another note I have never had a one night stand but if I ever did I wouldn't be like those type of girls that want to stay the night and have breakfast made for them..lol Ill just leave when I was done and that is it because I was obviously there just for one thing.. Idk I guess I am not the emotional type of girl lol

    Oooo..and yes women are wayyy smarter than men when it comes to cheating.
     
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    hah! Don't tell me women don't do everything on that list as well!
     
  19. dheer

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    and in reality you just got the body of a girl not the soul. I bet a men can't beat their heart on such type of girls. No Offense to anyone. I think a women must behave like a women instead of behaving like a men to get the respect they deserve.

    Do you think you ll not get caught ever by doing this? No one in the world can hide the truth forever. Don't feel that you ll cheat forever and never get caught. and in reality guys are way smarter so they ll detect it and caught everyone cheating with them.
     
  20. edvoltage1

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    so men can behave like heartless bastards but we cant? rightttt... n I am not the type that cheats but if I did, I am pretty sure I would never get caught, unless I wanted to of course.