Hi all, Well, I'm here to ask for your advice and help. Why? My husband of 12yrs has decided that he loves me but is not "in love" with me. This is shocking to say the least. I won't go into our whole life story, but I will say that I have always been happy and I really thought we were in this forever. We have 2 young children and I never in my life thought we would end up here. He's not the most open person in the world and I do have to admit that we have grown apart emotionally. Mostly since I started my quest to earn money online. He has no interest whatsoever in what I am trying to do. He has told me in so many words that he doesn't understand it and doesn't want to understand it. Two years ago he accepted a very high stress position at work and it has been since then that we have started having problems. Financial, emotional, etc. But we always seemed to work though it. So now things are up in the air. Part of me wants to scream and holler and smack him upside the head and say "what the hell are you thinking?" and the other part of me wants to just be ok and worry about "me", mostly because I've spent the last 12 years thinking of everyone else but me. I'm tired of crying, but mostly I'm tired. I find it's always nice to hear from other people and would appriciate any advice or cheering up you wish to give. After all, you all are practically my family.