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Love your family

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by ┼blackrat┼, Mar 18, 2011.

  1. ┼blackrat┼

    ┼blackrat┼ Senior Member

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    Yesterday my dad was taken hastily to the hospital due to cardiac issues. We don´t know yet if it was a heart attack or a vein obstruction.

    He´s right now undergoing surgery, first a catheterization and then if needed they´ll put stenches or make the angioplasty. thank god he was still conscious at the moment of entry, denotes he hadn´t brain damage.

    Obviously, it shakes the whole family, all of a sudden. Only these times we tend to realize how supportive we can be to each family member. There´s no other way we gotta hold on.

    The reason why I´m posting this is b/c I have business going with some people in here, And since I´m not gonna be required to stay at all times at the hospital, I will do my best to deliver every order on schedule.

    If, by any reason, I´m unable to, I will contact each member and provide the necessary refunds. But that´s for the last instance, and as I said I will be working normally(well I´ll try) and will not dissapoint whoever put their trust on me and my services.

    Love your family.

    Many thanks.

    ┼blackrat┼
     
  2. littlewebdragon

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    Hello, I didn't done any business with you, but I would give you full support and not ask for a refund if I did. I hope people who have done business with you will be reasonable.

    I hope you'll father will get better soon.

    Be well.
     
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  3. Lex Luthor

    Lex Luthor Registered Member

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    Blackrat,

    My prayers are with you and your family in these hard times. Its very noble that you are trying to avoid letting anyone down your doing business here with on BHW, but i think people will understand if your a little off during this time.

    Thank you for bringing up the importance of family. Its easy to neglect the importance of family until something unforeseen happens.

    Keep strong, your father will make a full recovery!

    Waiting to hear your positive updates,
    -LL
     
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  4. bigfred

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    hope things are ok pal
     
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    Bless you dad. all the best!
     
  6. craigslistguy

    craigslistguy Regular Member

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    Hey man after everything youve done for me...

    if you need help or just want to talk PM me..
     
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  7. ┼blackrat┼

    ┼blackrat┼ Senior Member

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    News from the hosp:

    He went through the arterial disobstruction surgery(one of them completely obstructed). They already put in the stenches so the blood flow is getting back to normal, but he had, as the doc said, a "considerable amount of damage" in his heart. He´s now ok, talking, and I hope he´s reflecting about what caused this.

    Stress, plus bad eating habits, plus regular smoker(he quit one year ago but they were several years smoking) plus age equals that. No wonder.

    Looks like the old man got through this one. He´s recovering and it´ll shall take around 10 days till he leaves the hosp.

    When he gets back I´m gonna beat the crap out of him for being so negligent.

    And his lifestyle is gonna change drastically. No more everyday barbecue, regular exercises, I´ll make damn sure he walks the straight line from now on.

    What a scary day it was today. Thanks to everyone who posted here.
     
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  8. craigslistguy

    craigslistguy Regular Member

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    Glad he is ok,

    But what is wrong with cookin on the grill during most days of the week?
     
  9. matt32987

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    sorry to hear that...wish your dad a speedy recovery
     
  10. ┼blackrat┼

    ┼blackrat┼ Senior Member

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    Nothing, u see.

    Uhh... barbecue here in Brazil´s south are very traditional. There are these restaurants called "churrascaria"("barbequerie" idk how to call that lol, a restaurant where the main dishes are noble bovine meat parts, with all that fat and whatnot. Absolutely tasty, of course.) (edit: steak houses, with "pampas/gaucho" traditions... google images "pampas")

    If you ever come down here, don´t forget to try these.

    But in excess...

    as everything in life.

    Thanks bro.
     
  11. craigslistguy

    craigslistguy Regular Member

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    Ah,

    Kinda like eating U.S. Southeren HomeMade Fried Everything...Everyday..

    I c Now.....Well dont beat him up too badly, he did just get out of surgery lol
     
  12. BigBuddy

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    Sorry to hear this.. Wish your dad speedy recovery.

    P.S: I used his service as a review and I know his stuff. I hope members will understood the situation.
     
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    Praying for your Dad's health and well-being.

    Also, please don't be too harsh on him over his old habits when he comes home...

    God Bless your entire family.

    And as BigBuddy says, yeh, our members will co-operate fully understanding the emergency that has caused you the delays...
     
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    Really sorry for him man. Hope he gets well soon...

    And yeah love your family. When everybody leaves you in hard times, your parents are always there to help more than what they can.
    I'm a teen living with my parents but whenever I'm off the home, I really miss 'em.

    Love them people!
    Bk...
     
  15. Bryan

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    my dad didn't get the same issue your dad did but my dad was pretty damn close to death due to the way he was eating/and his addiction on pills (legally prescribed, but too much of pills, he had a lot of problems inside him - due to alcohol he used to drink everyday he stopped drinking and has been sober for 5+ years now)

    what im saying is that i know and understand how you are feeling and what you are going through and i hope nothing but the best luck and speedy recovery for your father, much love goes to you guys

    i doubt and really hope nobody asks for refund and be patience wait for blackrat to come back to his normal self, he's legit from what ive seen many people respected him and can vouch for him.

    best of luck mate hope everything goes good <3
     
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    my prays with your dad he get will soon dont warry just take care of him
     
  17. Daniel16

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    Hope your Dad will bet will soon. My prayers are with you

    I placed an order, No Probs, Will be patience, Take your own time
     
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    Damn dude sorry to hear that about your dad. I know what its like as my mum is in hospital and she is quite ill and i hope she will get better soon .

    And if i was your customer i wouldnt give a shit about the order i would care about whats worth more , Your family. But i'm sure your customers will agree with that also !!

    Anyways i hope your dad gets better.
    Dan
     
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    Michaellin888 Junior Member Premium Member

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    No. Problem. As one of your customers, I understand. Please take care and hope your dad will recover real soon.
     
  20. Choronzon

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    Hope your dad makes a full recovery mate. Don't be too harsh on him, hopefully he's thinking about changing his life style now anyway.

    It is noble that you are also trying to take care of business but remember... Family comes first, period.