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Love thing.. I know 99% of you will troll but I just want to write it out.

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by ppaizon217, Mar 12, 2016.

  1. ppaizon217

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    First, even if you think it's not true for whatever reason, I don't care. Just tell me what you'd do if something similar happened to you.
    Second, my english it's not perfect.
    Now, many of you, don't even believe in a soul or even 'real love'.. And I am only 20 afterall... But well.
    I don't think to be stupid. My lifestyle is super healthy and I do make Enough to travel and live without too many limits.. But I don't want to talk about that. You must just know that I can do what I'am about to explain, and even if you don't believe, just take in account it's true or well, just answer. The truth is I don't even really want a response. It's I can't tell it to noone, even friends, and just writing to nobody seems useless to me.

    going on without losing more time on chitchats.. I have a gf, she's pretty and I love her, don't get me wrong. I'am with her from two years. We travelled in 10 states of the world during this time and almost lived togheter.. Few days ago.. I met a girl in a business env. But she lives there where the event took place, almost 3 hour train or 1 of airplane from here. She just started a business there which is B2B and atleast dor one year until it take off, she surely wont move from there/travel more than 1 month a year.
    the fact is I love her. I never felt something like it. Like, it's no love. It's different. Maybe some guy here which believes in souls, could think we knew eachother in some other life... That's what I think atleast, BECAUSE IT's SO STRANGE. It's nothing like love. and we just chit chatted about everything.. From the first minute until few minutes ago. Now... Obviously I don't know what to do. Because we could not see eachother more than two days a week.. (Even if it would still SO nice... Especially travelling anywhere near in europe.. Every weekend)... She says she feels the same thing..something really strange, and she believes too our souls met. I know now it sounds like a pewep's post... But well that's just how I descrive this unique feeling..
    What would you do? Destroy your actual life which you actually love to follow this strange awesome outworld feeling or forget her ( because there's no other way than to delete her number and fuck it within years I'll forget)? Did I mention I feel like a shit as of now as I'am almost lying to myself when I kiss my gf which I love(seriously I love her)...? Well.. Tell me what you think, or just comment. Or just laugh. I needed to tell it to someone even if it's Kiddish... I know. Whatever, I don't even know what I'am doing. Just that before my life were so clear and linear. Business, relationship....pretty much everything
    ps I typed from phone and theres many typos and its shittly formatted but well thats it.
     
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  2. SejtanovRatnik

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    You ask in wrong place. Most members on BHW have simple plan:
    1. Earn a lot of money
    2. Earn more money
    3. Buy love!
     
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  3. ppaizon217

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    I don't need a good place. I could have written it even in an abs forum if I were hanging out there from time to time. But I am not. Just here, and even if that's stupid, I were exploding telling it to noone. So even if telling it virtually, it's still something
     
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    Wow... I never knew life was so simple!

    Seriously though OP - wrong place, wrong time!

    Reddit is your friend.
     
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    One word.

    Threesom
     
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  6. Boris66

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    I would probbably give shot to unique one.
     
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    SejtanovRatnik Regular Member

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    I would go for the new girl. If you even think about being with new girl you clearly don't love your current girlfriend.


     
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    I apologize, but I find this completely false. It is normal to have a desire for other women, the thing is if you still love the one you are with. If you start looking at another woman and saying, damn, My life partner sucks, then yes you need to move on. If you look at another partner and you say, "hmm, That looks tasty, but I feel bad because I love my man/woman" then STOP! That means you probably already have something real and you should not waste that. You can date hundreds of people that you will eventually despise, but if you find yourself looking at something you want, but remembering what you have, then what you have is pretty f-ing amazing.

    You are human, you will always be tempted. You will not find someone that will make you think of all other sexual partners as bricks. You will find someone that you "love" so much that you know you still love them when tempted and that is way more powerful then anything.

    Just my 2 cents. Good luck!
     
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    thank you! You have a point because she looks like Sasha Grey...I mean the exact copy. BUT I don't think is my penis, it's just so strange, I perfectly know what's the feeling of a tasty and friendly girl
     
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    A simple skype or whatsapp bot will help you manage your girl problems.
     
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    OR simply choose one with bigger boobs.


     
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    If you choose another one can I get number of girl that looks like Sasha Grey?? :D :D

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    ppaizon217 I'm just kidding, no hard feelings
     
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  14. Omirag

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    This is a more quantitative and practical approach. I approve.
     
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    Man.. Lust.
    I don't really care, even if I die in lust. So far, I accomplished it.
     
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    That is lust..

    Just exactly what Omirage said above.

    In life is short approach, you can double date & that doesn't mean you don't love your current girlfriend.

    You can also introduce them to each other (the girls), then start having a threesome.

    Also, life is shot. You can abandon your girlfriend and lust with strange women (You might regret this & also might not regret a bit of it).

    The moral thing to do is abandon lust.

    NOW IF IT WERE ME:
    I am a bit of crazy person, especially when I know my fantasies can become reality within a few days.

    Immoral things I will do;
    - I will do is double date.
    OR
    - I will have threesome.

    Now, will you pay me $10? I am dead serious.
     
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    archon10 BANNED BANNED

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    Are you one of them alpha males.

    Mmmmmmmm alpha males. What's your stance on butt sex?
     
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    Alpha males don't ask for anything, he simple take it.

    Kingofafrica ask for 10$ so he isn't alpha :p
     
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    Zwielicht Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    Answering OP's question with OP's advice.

    I love it!
     
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