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(Legal Help Needed) Girlfriend Mistreated In Hospital

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by ipodtouchhackerisher, Nov 16, 2013.

  1. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    Wednesday my girlfriend went and got her wisdom teeth removed from an Indian Hospital.
    • During this time they had told her that the procedure would start at 8 but never got her procedure started till after 12.
    • They made her walk through the hospital in a "night gown" that exposed her butt to many male doctors which made her feel exposed.
    • Strapped her to a gourney and left her in the hallway for half an hour alone.
    • When nurse arrived she needed to use the bathroom after the long wait my girlfriend had and the nurse continually complained that she was wasting their time and that she should have already went and seemed extremely inconvenienced.
    • After surgery she needed a drink of water because of cotton mouth but they refused and said she would just have to wait until they wheeled her in the next room. She asked why can I not get water now and the nurse said cause I said so. And she said well whats the difference in giving me water her or in the other room. They said nothing now shut up or we will make it where you never receive medical service here again.
    • They let me take her home and once she finally gets to bed realized they forgot to remove the IV needle from her arm. (Could easily have cause an infection, especially if it broke off in her arm)
    • We finally made it back to the hospital and they then pulled the needle out in my car. (extremely unsanitary)These are just a few of the things that happened, she said all of the doctors were extremely mean and threatened her multiple times.
    Does anyone have any experience in this and would we be able to take any legal action here as this is all unacceptable in my opinion.
    ESPECIALLY FORGETTING TO REMOVE THE FUCKING NEEDLE FROM HER ARM​
     
  2. ankee0939

    ankee0939 Junior Member

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    "Indian hospital" well there's your first mistake. Also you should be consulting a lawyer who specializes in medical malpractice, not asking for advice on a internet marketing forum, maybe a legal advice forum?
     
  3. bertbaby

    bertbaby Elite Member

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    Did you document the incident including photos and get names of all the attending doctors and nurses?
     
  4. mdsurf

    mdsurf Senior Member

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    If you're looking for legit advice your in the wrong place. Why don't you just contact a lawyer in your home town. Even if a lawyer responds here chances are they aren't going to know the laws/customs in your city of India. If you're serious, seek serious advice.
     
  5. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    Obviously it wasn't her choice to go to an Indian doctor, she is 20, her mom is dead and her dad is a dead beat father. She lives on her own paying for all her expenses and works her ass off just to survive as it is. She didn't have extra money to go to a better place as the Indian hospital did it for free. I would contact a lawyer but most are closed as its 730. Secondly I also asked this question on another forum, I just wanted some input here too as we have a bunch of really smart people.


    No we didnt report the incident she was in so much pain that she just wanted to go home. Im sure she could still go report it and get the name of all nurses there tomorrow.
     
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  6. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    I am going to tomorrow just seeing of we even have a leg to stand on, I am from oklahoma though not india.
     
  7. ayush.das

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    I am Indian, but hope you sue their asses. This is absolutely outrageous & unacceptable. Bad customer service makes my blood boil. Not sure if you can sue them for bad behavior alone, but you can definitely blog about it and spread the word. Post on twitter. Also if you have any place like a consumer-court - which won't require a lawyer - just a written complaint (we have such here in India).
     
  8. infocraze

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    The sad fact is that, when these stupid doctors realize that they are offering services to a non paying customer, they start acting in negligence. Poor her, there's no point in doing anything, just forget the whole thing and move on. Let her enjoy her privacy. However, blog about it to educate others! Wishing both you and her the very best in life...

    By the way, did it happen in the US?
     
  9. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    Yes this happened in Oklahoma, by indian I mean Native American. I cant let this go, you better believe I will ruin their Online Reputation. Simply because I am launching an ORM business next month so time to test the waters lol
     
  10. Jonny Quick

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    I think both of you ungrateful fucks ought to go back there and apologise for being such pains in the asses, and thank each of the hospital staff for their treatment.

    You exemplify the Entitlement Mentality. You, and that ungrateful twat you are dating should have been thrown out onto the street at the 1st sign of trouble. I'm sure there are plenty more people that could have used that free medical treatment that would have be grateful for it.

    What a couple of idiots, going out the hospital with a needle in her arm. And then, later "SURPRISE" guess what? There's a needle in my arm honey! And there's you, standing around passively watching it all happening and not saying a word. Can't be expected to even mention the fact that she's being wheeled out the door with a needle in her arm, and yet here you are on a public forum complaining about all the things that someone else didn't do for her for free.

    I think she's nothing more than a piece of ass to you. You had opportunities to help her out and you failed. And now you are butt-hurt because the hospital treated your piece of ass like YOU treat her. People like you are what's wrong with this country. They should have slave labor camps for people like you; get you up before dawn, feed you bread and water and keep you at hard labor until the sun goes down. A few years of that, and you'll have a better understanding of what work looks like, and you won't be so quick to demand that other people work while you sit around on your ass like an observer.
     
  11. TheLoneWizard

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    Seems like a fabricated story.

    What are you trying to achieve here?
     
  12. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    Fabricated.... I have no reason to fabricate a story like this, what would I achieve from that? I never released the town much less the name of the hospital it was from. If I intended to achieve something negative out of this don't you think I would be more specific in where this happened.
     
  13. Nightly

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    I assume this could fall under medical malpractice, so a medical malpractice lawyer would be your best bet. Don't think you have a case though :p

    Why are you asking this on a forum? Sure, asking for advice, but really no one Is going to be able to give you any. That's what lawyers are for, and they tend to take payment for their services.


    My advice, don't go to free medical facilities If you are looking for top notch care. Sorry for the situation though, good luck.
     
  14. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    Yeah unfortunately we do not have a viable case here, even though one side of her face seems to be infected now... Anyway I am just gonna have her post her experience on review sites to let others beware.
     
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    You don't have a case. Quit trolling.
     
  16. ceosam

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    Dude it was free. WTF do you expect???
     
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    no case, you have to prove damages. no damages and only the lawyer will win.
     
  18. funkybunker

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    First, it was FREE. Regardless how they treated you, why would you expect 5 star treatment with FREE service?

    I'm not financially loaded but when it comes to medical, I don't take my family or myself to a FREE fucking doctor, what's wrong with you? That sums up the value of your girlfriend in your eyes.

    Lastly; Why did you do nothing while all of this happened? You didn't go in and say something. Acting like that's just normal. You should be ashamed of yourself.

    I've spent the last 3 years of my life in hospitals, learn to speak up when something isn't right. It's common sense.
     
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  19. ipodtouchhackerisher

    ipodtouchhackerisher Senior Member

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    Wow everyone needs to chill out a bit.

    First of all SHE IS MY GIRLFRIEND not wife. We do not live together meaning I did not tell her to go there, I did not pick her doctor, nor was I even there for her procedure! Before you start judging me she was there for a random checkup and they told her she needed her wisdom teeth removed immediately and wanted her back there the next day. She called me that night and said she had no one to pick her up after surgery and asked if I could do it so I told her I would. I was at work and left when the nurse called and said she was done. (Not like I can just not show up to work on a days notice) One of her friends dropped her off. Secondly she was wearing a long sleeve shirt so I had no idea they left the needle inside of her, she was so far gone on medicine she couldn't feel anything in her arm much less think straight.

    And when you guys say you didn't go in and say something.... how do you think she got the needle out of her arm? I defiantly didn't do it. Again this is not like some free doctor that someone receives like a parent receives wic or food stamps on low income. She is Cherokee Indian meaning here in Oklahoma they have hospitals that they recommend all native Americans go to and this is one of them.
     
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    Having problems adding content to my above post.

    Anyway, I was only able to be there when they wheeled her out in a wheel chair and helped her into my car, I had no idea any of this went on until after the fact. Why the hell would I sat there and let all of this happen? Oh thats right I wouldn't..Why do you think I am just now taking action.