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Leaving apartment with girlfriend - should I take the bed?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by billyd, Jan 14, 2012.

  1. billyd

    billyd Regular Member

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    The girlfriend and I are taking a break. I am moving out and found another place. The room isn't super big so my bed will pretty much take up the whole room. But it is a nice comfy mattress. Should I take my bed with me? It seems like a cheapskate move to make - after all she offered to pay me for it. However, at the same time, not sure I want to take all the 'memories' with that bed with me. Any thoughts?
     
  2. oxonbeef

    oxonbeef BANNED BANNED

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    I bought an ex girlfriend a bed.
    When she got a new boyfriend I went round, pulled the bed into the street,
    set fire to it and told him to buy her a new one.
    She was still sleeping on the floor 3 months later.
     
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  3. xxpaigexx

    xxpaigexx Registered Member

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    you sir needs to start fresh..its just a matress and since u have big bucks why not buy an even more comfier one ?


    btw man i jsut had a thought..take the matress from her place and burn it like what the other guy said..i guess thats a really good revenge xD
     
  4. billyd

    billyd Regular Member

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    Hahaha nice stuff. Well, I do like my bed - would be a shame to burn it.

     
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    housemusic Regular Member

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    give her an airmatress...
     
  6. memorex

    memorex Regular Member

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    Take the bed and don't think twice about it. If you have any doubts, picture her getting plowed by the next guy the minute you're out the door. That's probably why she wants to take a break anyway.
     
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    Buy her one of those air balloon bed/couch things that you can even run a car over with, and still not damage it.
     
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    keinehabe Supreme Member

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    take everything what you can , even if isn't yours take it ! ;))
     
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    we need a relationship moderator for the lounge section :), a guy with all the experience and knowledge to help all the suffering BHW member here

    [​IMG]
     
  10. Choronzon

    Choronzon Power Member

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    Nah man leave her the bed.

    While she is out hide a fish in it, as it goes bad the smell will drive her crazy :D
     
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    angelas111 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    feng shui principles state that when ending a relationship or starting a new one you should always get a new bed.
     
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    babasss Regular Member

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    hey guys, probable your website is on 1 position in google that you have time for that stuff... be serious, work hard and buy a luxury house. Your girlfriend will love you more...:)
     
  13. wannabie

    wannabie Elite Member

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    HealeyV3 Power Member

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    Buy her a Water Bed.

    1. She'll LOVE you for it.
    2. It'll hurt her back like crazy, and fuck it up for multiple years until she realizes it's the bed causing her to not sleep :)
     
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    In this case some of us can easy open after some time an mattress store :) second hand marketplace it's quite big you know .. :)
     
  16. billyd

    billyd Regular Member

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    Nice. But seriously - what should I do with the bed?
     
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    Leave it. If the break ends up being permanent, you don't want to keep those 'memories'. If it's not permanent, you'll go back to it anyway ;)

    Oh and oxonbeef, I'm keeping your comment in mind for future relationship splits :)
     
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  18. monkeybh

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    take it to the front sidewalk, piss on it and leave it there
     
  19. mark27

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    I'm with this guy, but another user made a point about lighting it on fire and I like that too. Like the legendary phoenix you shall rise from the ashes.