Hey guys, Lately, I've been reading, watching, minding everything about Law of attraction, secret to achieve success and that kind of stuff. Result : I'm disconcerted... I've read three books, watched "The secret movie", this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62DqsD2s5V8, too many times, it makes me confused. The problem is that most of them talk about setting goals, writing your dreams on papers, carrying it with you all day long and most important "becoming what you think about", it's the most complicated part. They say, if you want to succeed you need desire + faith/belief. OK, Let's say I've got desire, but... Where does faith come from ? I mean I have not achieved anything great in life (IM) and I have a low self-esteem as well, is that a problem ? Of course, but : Is it necessary to think all day long "I'm gonna be rich" ?! I think about money but all this stuff about writing down your dreams is confusing... ETC ETC ETC... Here's what I wanna ask you : - How should one control his thoughts ?! In which way ?! Simply thinking "I'm gonna be rich" or just thinking positive ? - Since I haven't a huge faith in myself, can some self-confidence be gained through the action ? - What do you think for success is necessary ? All this weird stuff, or just action ? How did you make it ? From what I've read/watched I think now that I can't reach my goals if I don't follow these instructions, really made me confused, I'd appreciate a few words about what you need to achieve success, controling your thoughts etc... Thanks, xrumering.