Just getting something off my chest

2011nfl said:

I agree with you on everything except the highlighted part. I think, the best revenge is to move on and forget. Because if you hurt her, (if you have a heart) you will feel more bad than anything afterwords, but if you move on and show her that you don't want her (no matter how hard she tries, or how much she cries) then you can rest easy knowing that she is the one who feels terrible knowing what she lost.

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exactly.


You are a really nice guy, and stay true to that. I can assure you the best revenge is to move on and be truly happy. Not that you even want revenge!

manny521 said:

all women are prostitutes, some of them just don't know it...

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Sexist much?
[h=2]Just getting something off my chest....You are WRONG.
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thetraveller said:

Some old guy taught me to never trust women. If only I'd listened...

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Never trust a women nobody told me its my self experience Never Ever Do that

I can see where BlackSeng is coming from, I agree on a lot of what he is saying. But I try not to be resentful towards women. What is a slut? A girl who likes sex. Everyone likes sex. Worse than sluts are the girls who pretend they don't like a big wiener slapping them in the face. I have conducted serious SEO experiments on this and girls do like their faces to be slapped with your wang. I don't think this makes them "bad" or "evil" people just because they like to bang guys, I mean am I a bad guy for wanting hilary duff to sit on my face? No, I think I'm perfectly normal thankyou very much. I am also very kind. I give women equality. They moaned for it for so long, so I give it to them. If a woman who is not my mother or sister calls me crying about their problems, I will be fair but I won't really go out of my way to help. I've got enough of my own problems. And for some reason the fact that you don't give a crap makes them respect you more. If women want to be independent and treated as equals to men, then they have to earn it. So I expect that of them. Therefore, in the case of OP, regardless of whether you have a past with her or not, I am sorry to say it, she made her own mistakes, now she can piss off and deal with all that shit that she did. Basically, the dude that she was banging got sick of banging the same girl over and over and over again and now she is crying to you about it because she is a woman and she is weak. Well, let us be kind here and give her equality. So like any man, she must get some balls and stop crying about it like a little bitch. If you make a mistake in SEO it's on YOUR back. YOU are going to pay for it and hopefully learn that mistake. If she's fucked her life up, boo hoo, waaa waaa it's not your fault bro. Concentrate on your SELF and making your own money and banging other chicks for your OWN pleasure. Improve YOUR life and don't even regard her or take the time out of your day to take pity on a silly girl, because there are plenty of girls. The sad thing is, they demand equality yet deep down girls always expect a load of men to come to their rescue when they start crying. When I was a young boy maybe 16 and I got my first girlfriend, the first time I saw her cry I thought, holy shit, this must be serious! She must really be in pain!! OMFG we must help her!! I thought this because I only ever cried when I was extremely sad or badly in pain. But then she just kept crying so often I realized that women love to cry. They love drama, they love to manipulate and be manipulated, they love to be abused to a certain extent, and they love to be fucked hard by a guy who understands them completely and appreciates them for their soul but also does not give as much of a shit about them as he should. They love all that emotional rollercoaster crap. They are just crazy so that's why I say get money and maybe bang a chick here and there but once you've banged her a few times, just avoid her or get some earplugs or something. Because they really do talk more shit than Matt Cunts (and that is no mean feat).



Still, I love women. I love their feminine nature, their dainty voices and their smell, their breasts, legs, faces, mostly their bodies and faces. Sure, I don't really like their souls all that much but I still love them. I mean check this out, I mean, is this real life?!?!!

xxtoni said:

I think you've been a bit too kind here but...women are programmed to be like that, it's hard going against your instincts.

I was much like yourself when I was younger, but soon enough I realized that most women are stupid in one way or another, but that shouldn't come as a surprise, most people, regardless of age, race, or sex are stupid...I don't pity the poor and the stupid, ignorance is bliss.

It's all about adversity and what you have been through in life. An ugly woman who had to fight her way from the bottom to the top is probably smart...think Angela Merkel or the Iron Lady but 99% of women are...not sure if stupid is the right word but without...hmm trying to find the right word here...tact if that tells you anything.

I'll give you one example. When I was in high school I was dating this girl...extremely hot...but the mind of an average girl. So one day she tells me that there's this watch she likes and asks me to buy it for her...the watch is hefty expensive but I can afford it, but I won't. So she bugs me about it every once in a while, especially when she she's my watch (Omega Planet Ocean)...one day I find some guy offering me a replica of the same watch she wants...it's a really BADLY made replica...PERFECT. So the next day I call her and tell her "I bought you that watch". She's all girl-like, excited and then I give her the watch...and the watch looks like it's made out of cardboard. She get's mad for a few days, but ultimately she calls back.

What's the point of all this ?

Well, two points here. First thing is...women are obsessed with stupid crap. While I had about a 1 000 000 things on my mind the only thing she thought about for 3 months was that fucking watch. That's what I meant with not having tact. Most women don't know what kind of problems we handle every day, for them problems are gossiping girlfriends and fashion bags...

The other thing is, being nice to a girl and doing what she wants will ultimately get you dumped. She appreciates a present for an hour, but doing all sorts of crap like I did keeps her on her toes, she will never admit it but it's interesting and exciting.

Most women want to be manipulated, they'll never admit it and will always say they want a nice guy...bullshit. I have never, ever found a girl that really likes a nice guy, but I never considered the jerk to be a good alternative either. You should always manipulate girls, they manipulate you every day with their makeup, breast implants, botox and all the other crap they use.

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Not sure what country you are from. But most of the girls from where I come from are equally educated and independent, maybe more so then men.

2011nfl said:

I agree with you on everything except the highlighted part. I think, the best revenge is to move on and forget. Because if you hurt her, (if you have a heart) you will feel more bad than anything afterwords, but if you move on and show her that you don't want her (no matter how hard she tries, or how much she cries) then you can rest easy knowing that she is the one who feels terrible knowing what she lost.

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That's understandable and I guess you are right, it would be best to move on and forget but I have seen a similar thread around BHW a few months back where I can't remember who it was, but the person responded that they've taken such revenge and they felt good about it because the girl actually understood it was her fault. So maybe it's better to walk away but sometimes a revenge wouldn't be that bad depending on the situation. Just my thoughts. Then again I probably wouldn't do such a thing myself, but who knows.

ShadeDream said:

That's understandable and I guess you are right, it would be best to move on and forget but I have seen a similar thread around BHW a few months back where I can't remember who it was, but the person responded that they've taken such revenge and they felt good about it because the girl actually understood it was her fault. So maybe it's better to walk away but sometimes a revenge wouldn't be that bad depending on the situation. Just my thoughts. Then again I probably wouldn't do such a thing myself, but who knows.

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I remember that thread too I think.

2011nfl said:

I remember that thread too I think.

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If I manage to find it I'll post it here.

Revenge? Why are people talking about revenge? Seems like they parted ways amicably. Is that cause for revenge?

axus_auto said:

Not sure what country you are from. But most of the girls from where I come from are equally educated and independent, maybe more so then men.

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I see that you didn't really get what I was trying to say...maybe my fault for not conveying it properly.

Most people are idiots, if you think differently you're either wonderfully naive or delusional. It has nothing to do with education and everything to do with world-view. I personally know several Phds that are (in accordance to my views) retarded.

Why would I say something like that, having a Phd, they must be smart ?

Realizing and I mean truly realizing two simple facts will do more for you than earning a Phd by having your head in a book for 20 years.

- Everything around us, that we see as life was and is created by people who are no smarter than you. This is especially important in business, being a good entrepreneur has nothing to do with being smart and everything to do with perseverance. Creativity and perseverance are the qualities of a good entrepreneur. You probably don't know this, especially if you're American (not an insult at all towards Americans, but as I understand it, schools in the US don't teach this) but most, or at least the most important inventions that are credited to Thomas Edison were actually created by a man called Nikola Tesla. Edison famously said that he wasn't a mathematician and if he needed one he would HIRE one. I have the utmost respect for Nikola Tesla, he was a brilliant, brilliant guy, but Edison has gone down in history as the grandfather of the modern age, despite not being an inventor.

What does this have to do with women ?

Well you mentioned education, so because some MAN or women spent their entire life studying what other people have done instead of creating something on their own I should respect them ? More importantly, just because someone has a Phd but doesn't know how to get a grip on their own life I should consider them smart or independent ?

- Being a sheep - People don't want to think for themselves because it is so hard. It is always just easier to accept things as they are, without thinking too deep into them. This is one of the major differences between people who are successful and lead good lives and the people who aren't. They say that the difference between winners and losers is winners do what losers don't want to do and it's totally true. Now why should I or anyone care so much about this ?

Honestly I don't. I actually prefer sheep, easily controlled, easy to influence...no headaches with them. But on a human and philosophical level it saddens me that this has remained a constant for centuries, maybe since the dawn of humanity. Sheep as funny as it sounds in a sentence are what gave potential to people like Stalin and Hitler. The Holocaust could happen today just as easily as it happened 70 years ago. It just takes one person to recognize the deepest fears and desires of the masses and exploit that, because people are sheep they'll just follow what everyone else is doing. Despite what most people thing, the German population wasn't evil, they were just desperate people looking for a way out and Hitler offered a very simple solution to their problems.

So, education doesn't mean anything without knowing some of the most essential truths about the human condition.

I have seen similar case I can relate to. Most of the girls that I have observed in real life who work hard to latch onto the people who make money and try to live life happily. It works out for some and it does not works out for others. I know many will disagree with me but money is damn everything. People will think differently if you make more money and will forget your past. Earn less money and noone will even tolerate you.

Its shocking what money can do to people.

Dude you guys take some odd angles off my original post. I don't want to be back with her, I only spoke to her as a friend, and I wouldn't get with her just to dump her and "teach her a lesson"... that's only wasting my time. I was writing in the lounge for the sake of speaking my mind on something. Thanks to those of you who offered valid responses, and those of you who said stupid sexist shit... well you're turds, but thanks for bumping the thread anyway. LOL

CEPI said:

I wouldn't get with her just to dump her and "teach her a lesson"... that's only wasting my time.

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Not really, if you wouldn't mind some free nookie time.

manny521 said:

all women are prostitutes, some of them just don't know it...

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Lmao! This is the stuff that makes my day lol!

MaxWeber said:

Sexist much?
Just getting something off my chest....You are WRONG.

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Thank you. Most of the posts in this thread are sexist and very offensive to women. I'd like to know how I'm a prostitute. Please enlighten me because "I just don't know it yet."

manny521 said:

all women are prostitutes, some of them just don't know it...

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Even your mom?

redrubies said:

Thank you. Most of the posts in this thread are sexist and very offensive to women. I'd like to know how I'm a prostitute. Please enlighten me because "I just don't know it yet."

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Yeah, every once in a while we have to put up with sexist comments like this dick wad's. No offense to the OP, his post wwas legit enough, but the posts afterwards confirming just want uneducated, gold digging sluts women are just piss me off to no end.

MAYBE... PERHAPS.. you guys end up with the type of women you deserve. Because anyone else worth anything would not touch you with a ten foot pole.

Losers.

Hi CEPI. Thanks for the post and most importantly for being a friend to your ex when she needed you. Am sure, she appreciates that even though she might not say it.

I find this an interesting thread, not one guy has said anything good about women. Am sure there are plenty of good women out there. Yes, some of you sound like you have been burnt badly by women in the past, but that does not mean all women are like that.

For example I will speak for myself here. I recently got hurt by a guy that I really liked. For the last weeks he messed with my heart and mind to a point in the first weeks, all I wanted to do was cry and sleep all day. By the way am not the emotional type!! Am now getting over him and moving on. Life is good.

But my experience with one guy doesn't mean that all guys are bad. I still believe in purest forms of love. I was the best I could be. I never asked for anything (am independent) apart from the times he called if I wanted anything from the supermarket. Which was always the same, red seedless grapes, ice cream, pink lady apples and water.

For me every guy is judged individually not as a general type. You guys should do the same so when you get a good woman, you will realize that. Don't judge every woman based on one woman's mistakes.

Be fair!!!

vulzala said:

Yeah, every once in a while we have to put up with sexist comments like this dick wad's. No offense to the OP, his post wwas legit enough, but the posts afterwards confirming just want uneducated, gold digging sluts women are just piss me off to no end.

MAYBE... PERHAPS.. you guys end up with the type of women you deserve. Because anyone else worth anything would not touch you with a ten foot pole.

Losers.

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I'm the only one in this thread that called his ex a gold digger. Which according to the OP, we can confirm. I did not have the word slut in my post, or anything sexist in that matter. So :fuckyou: