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Judging a person by his education???

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by TheVigilante, Mar 17, 2019.

  1. TheVigilante

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    This happens to me all the time especially here in India where they mostly judge you with your degree. I find it so hard when I attend family get together, parties etc.

    This has been happening to me for a long time but it's also none of my business but really it sucks when people don't even want to talk to you just because I haven't completed my degree???
     
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  2. Neon

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    True dear, some people live in the past.
     
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    Judging because their kids completed degree and studying for higher education and me without a degree?
     
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    Yes you should never judge by college degree.....
     
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    It's a sad fact bro. You remember our telephonic conversation? My wife is killing it right now but she is not a graduate. I am killing it right now but if you look at my cv, you will not put me into that position. :p

    This is not a problem with India. This is rather related to the fact that most of our jobs are funded by the overseas people. People like to see degrees and Indian people are smart enough to take a notice. Just freaking avoid those companies man. They are just outsourcing fucks. Rather work for a small startup which has a great idea. I dunno what else to say... May b call me and we can brainstorm more :D
     
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    Just let them go dude! I too live in india and here most people just brag themselves and want attention for what they have achieved in life which is bullshit, never make yourself hurt just because other are jerks.
     
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    I can relate to that but a bit differently. I get judged for not having a 'proper' job. People and relatives think I'm unemployed that too after completing MBA. Lol. From India as well.
     
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    word hard dude..once u get success in im ..u will earn more than them and your lifestyle will change so does peoples perception towards u
     
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    Oh man , relatives , friends , zzzz To me most important is your parents view , don't give a dam for those relatives, friends. Now a days sadly society like this , When you get Rich , people will not say huh you don't have degree lo . Just like Jack Ma, you see last time he is no body , even beg his friends invest , I surely believe some of them don't want , see him no up whereas some invest just try it " as friend support " but who knows he make it big ,

    KFC don't even hire him as he try to get a job there , lo I think he should thanks KFC never hire him , or else guess now he still fry chicken or don't know end up where. Look now he some times he talk crap , people just clap even don't feel like listen because he is Rich now , some of them even have to depend on him to earn .
     
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    You need to get to better parties mate. We only used to chat to people who could snort vodka shorts and not vomit, education never came into it.

    On a more serious note, if that is the case, more fool them for their snobbery. There are plenty of millionaires and billionaires who never got a degree either.
     
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  11. TheVigilante

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    Talking about society as a whole and family members...the job thing is understood
     
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    Everyone are judges. You need to know two things about this: don't judge to others, and don't let other judges to affect you. Nobody has rights to judge to others. You will do what you want, when you want.
     
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    It won't last long bro. Also, you don't need to react or say anything, your success will do that for you. Best of luck to you. :)
     
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    I am being forced to attend all functions by my mom and granny and the negativity you get when you meet such people. The other thing is you might never know when they come to your aid
     
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    Definitely not mate
    Prove yourself. Live happily in front of such people ,earn money and MAKE YOUR PARENTS PROUD .They will automatically come to you.
    And one more thing , why you bother others mindset.This is your life .Enjoy your life in your own way.
     
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    hey honey
     
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    It was a joke actually.

    I don't have one and, in fact, got tossed from University for acting like a Jackwagon, and we do OK.

    Ignore the hate.
     
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    This can be a problem in certain countries. All you can do is shut them up with your success. There are plenty of examples where people without degree did quite well in their life.