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It's not that I don't care about your problems.. it's just my problems are more important!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Furious George, Apr 6, 2013.

  1. Furious George

    Furious George Supreme Member Premium Member

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    http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackh...desperate-situation-have-ask.html#post5413393

    http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackhat-seo/making-money/551837-anyone-good-heart-help-me-please.html

    If someone is really in need, like desperate starving living on the street need, they will figure it out. Or they'll die and stay miserable. Get a job, quit spending money, quit being an idiot. Get some responsibility for your own actions. Cut your hair.

    This is 2013... this isn't the Oregon trail.

    It's not that I don't care, but why do whiny people with problems think they have special problems.

    I'm not saying I don't care about people. I'm saying people need to keep their problems to themselves. There's a saying...
    "If everyone threw their problems into the air, you'd be lucky to catch yours first."


    This is a forum about business. Can we just leave it at business? Can we leave the bullshit at the door?
     
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  2. Xp3r7

    Xp3r7 Regular Member

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    Remove the lounge then! :D

    jk
     
  3. Furious George

    Furious George Supreme Member Premium Member

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    Haha... I wouldn't care, but these are in the making money forums.
     
  4. kvmcable

    kvmcable Supreme Member

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    Give them hell George; this shit is getting old. I just skip over them now. Rather help a member here that is putting forth effort than someone asking for hand-outs.
     
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  5. therage

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    They are psychologically playing on emotions instilled by others that cause a reaction to help or give. This is common human emotions, strong and powerful that scams like Invisible Children played on. These people are no different, even if they are in the circumstances they play on your mind for a handout. The most helpful thing you can do is to point them to a thread, tell them to go help themselves to learning, then ignore them. That is why 90% of the threads I post in I never check back on them. I can care less what others say or think about me, I am who I am and I do w.e. I want.
     
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  6. kvmcable

    kvmcable Supreme Member

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    I'm out of thanks and rep for today but well said!
     
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  7. AR!ZONA

    AR!ZONA Regular Member

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    I gotta say, there are a ton of bullshit threads going on, not only handouts. Soon we will need to moderate every forum!

    Thanks n rep to furious for layin down the law in every thread he can find!
     
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  8. Panther28

    Panther28 Elite Member

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    being dead and still miserable, is there anything worse?

    heres something to cheer anyone up, animals.

    :rabbit8::cat48::sheep:
     
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  9. GiorgioB

    GiorgioB Supreme Member

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    It still amazes me how some freshly joined members think everyone owes them something here... I think that should be included in the rules and penalised one way or another (nothing too severe but just so they get the point).
     
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  10. hatemachine

    hatemachine Regular Member

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    A beautiful saying by "Anton Szandor LaVey" - "Do not tell your troubles to others unless you are sure they want to hear them."
     
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    CosmicSoundz BANNED BANNED

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    They are just terrible scammers.


    fucking hate them
     
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  12. jadedice

    jadedice Newbie

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    Reality check!
     
  13. unclemike

    unclemike BANNED BANNED

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    I agree %100
    Too much sulking and whining going on these days. I had a friend who owned a few pieces of real estate.
    The guy said he had to kick them out of the house they were renting. Of course they were begging and telling their side of
    the story about being now 2 months late on the rent. According to my friend when he walked into the house they had cable
    TV with HBO and more channels than he had. 3 dogs that you can tell just went to the spa. Smart phones and everything
    you can think of...

    People have their priorities screwed up. Simple as that.
    I am not heartless and have had my share of broke times that I am thankful look clearly behind me (Life is a surprise you never know)
    But what can you do? Not everyone is going to make it this month or the next one. Life is not perfect.

    Cheers,
    Unclemike
     
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