is important is sexual attraction for marriage?

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hi guys
I am stuck in a situation. I am not good with people and have never been in a relationship and I don't really understand relationships. someone introduced me to this girl and I went on a date with her. I can tell she likes me. she said I am handsome and you know that nervous laughter that girls do when they like you? she did a lot of that.
I like and respect her a lot but there is something about her that turns me off. I can't quite put my finger on it. I don't fantasize about her sexually. when I see a girl I look at her breast size and ass. but with her, I never checked out her breasts and ass. maybe because the challenge is not there and if she acted like a bitch I would be chasing her? I dont know. for some reason I am not attracted to her. but maybe if I go out with her a few more times sexual attraction will develop?
this is for marriage, I am not looking to fuck and move on to the next girl.
should I continue with this girl or should I tell her we are not compatible?
 
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You can try going out with her 2 or 3 times. If it won't work. move on . easy.
 
Tell her clearly.
Your way of thinking or how do you feel about her.
Is it worth making her a best friend for you?
Life Is not all about sex.
Everyone can be a good friend irrespective of gender.
Although if she has any sexual feelings for you then you as a friend if you accepted her as a friend then you need to keep distance still being in touch from distance.
A friendship is a pure relation
 
Just tell her to touch you lil bit here and there, do some compliments, share optimism, love. Solve her problems. Make her solve your problems. Some smile and nice clothes won't hurt.

That'll do something to chemicals in brain and you can find love in 80 year old grandma.

At least I was able.

Sometimes takes 15 hours to get the shit going. Relationships aren't 2 or 3 hours standups. Unless you're some motherfucker looking for quick sperm. But that's nothing like love.

Foreplay is like days, weeks, sometimes months. Then something starts to develop.
 
She is probably dumb and you bothered going on a date with her because you are horny. Does she have any admirable qualities? "Respect" is not enough for a stable relationship today, she has to be hot otherwise you will be cheating on her. I know it. I was in a relationship with a girl I just respected and I eventually cheated on her with a girl that had huge ass. Sorry, humans are just intelligent animals.
 
Feels like you only see her as a friend. Once you actually fall in love, you'll feel it instantly. If you still don't feel that way about her, then let her go
 
I can make a long response about this but let me make it simple, not all is about sex, if you feel ok with her and enjoy having fun she could be your friend or maybe the spark could ignite later on don't rush it and marry her 2 hours after you met her, if you get in a relationship looking for sex you will only get sex not engagement keep that in mind, don't rush things enjoy the road.
 
Sexual attraction is really important, if it were not than you could just marriage your best buddy and have a lot of fun. But you dont really fck your buddy normally.

Sum; If you need a blue pill to please your wife, you should really not marry her.
 
Sex won't last forever. She might use heavier boots and makeup and it'll make her sexually attractive. If she can't, then maybe she's not good.
 
Don't focus short-term things
Girls become hot and attractive with some makeup and girlish things

try to save your sperm and after 2-3 months you will see many girls are attractive and also you will be more handsome than ever - no offense
 
Everyone I married was a sex worker and took my money at some point in time. So, in all of my marriages we were allowed to have sex with anyone we wanted. I never cared who my wife screwed as long as she made money and none of my wives cared as long as I didn't spend money. Since I was always making porn, there never was a problem.


I guess I'm saying that sexual attraction was never important to me as having a clean home and someone I could talk to.
 
lol that's true! every time when i look in the mirror with my makeup on, I think myself pretty
but as soon as I walked out, some women put lots of effort into makeup or really dressed up, destroying my confidence but impress also

Teachie said:
Don't focus short-term things
Girls become hot and attractive with some makeup and girlish things

try to save your sperm and after 2-3 months you will see many girls are attractive and also you will be more handsome than ever - no offen
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Let her go.

Your way of thinking proves that she is not for you.
 
DaPeddler said:
Wait !!! I just saw this !!
Are you seriously saying that you shouldn't have an orgasm for 2 to 3 months?
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Only through a real sex ( natural way ). I am mentioning a bigger picture bro , please don't misunderstand the point
 
Teachie said:
Only through a real sex ( natural way ).
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What kind of sex are you talking about that's "not natural?" I've had my fair share of sexual dry spells, but I've never screwed anything "unnatural."

Teachie said:
I am mentioning a bigger picture bro , please don't misunderstand the point
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Bigger picture? I'm totally not understanding your "point."
 
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