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I'm SO damn sad.. Motivate me people..! PLEASE!!

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  1. TheMatrix

    TheMatrix BANNED BANNED

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    I'm extremely sad today folks... Can't feel anything.. I'm extremely silent..not talking to anyone.. not feeling to eat or drink anything.. I feel so hollow..

    My best friend (a girl) who was so close to me, and we used to talk like whole days.. We were not talking for a couple of weeks because of our exams. I got that and didn't disturb her. Tried to call her once to wish her our festival but she ignored me. I though it must have been the exam's stress. Today, after our exam, she comes up to me and says don't talk to me from now on. I cried on the road. I couldn't ask for the reason, about what was wrong. I might do when I see her the next time.

    I don't feel like doing anything. I have no other friend to whom I can say all this, and just cry out to.

    I need some motivation people.
    Thanks in advance.
     
  2. cyberflax

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    Damn bro, we all have our moments. All I can say is, reflect deeply and drink some alcohol.
     
  3. thedon23

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    Don't know what to tell you bro.. don't let it get to you. Weird that she just randomly doesn't wanna talk to you anymore. Women are mysterious...
     
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  4. Envyliciouz

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    /wrong/
     
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  5. TheMatrix

    TheMatrix BANNED BANNED

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    I'm almost 18 (2 days to go) and I don't drink.

    I think it has gotten there. Not able to concentrate on studies, on IM.. nothing..
     
  6. tharako

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    if u made that friend, repeat process and make much more! you don't need that girl in your life, kick her with an egg in the head :)
     
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  7. allurre

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    You want to win her back?

    Ignore her.

    Start valuing yourself, taking control of your future, and not placing your life in her hands. You should never be dependent on a woman as your source of happiness/sanity.

    Time to change.
     
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  8. katona44

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    Somehow you should find out what's her problem...maybe you should ask one of her girlfriends if she don't want to talk with you.
    I wish you the best getting her back :)
     
  9. DavidVictor

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    Hey buddy,

    My english is not so good but i hope u get the point.

    So, open your eyes, sexy good looking girls is everywhere arround us, money is everywhere arround us too. Money gives u freedom, chance to travel all the world, meet new peoples, new sexy girls, new friends with same interest.

    Start going at the gym, eat better, feel the power of life.
    Watch movie The Secret, again and again. Try to reflect that to your own life.

    Open your eyes, clear all negative stuff in your head, start thinking positive because life is beautiful, and given to us to enjoy.

    Don't doubt, don't be sad, wake up and start feeling power of life!

    Good luck buddy, stay cool!
     
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  10. secretboy08

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    well,pick a mutual friend and try to find out.
    also someone has most likely filled her ears about you taking the advantage of lack of communication between you both.
    so the more gap in between,the greater the distance between you guys.
    If she was your good friend then she wud atleast talk to you once about the problem if you insist otherwise get a mutual friend to find out what the problem is(trusted friend),but do it asap.
     
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  11. shadow213

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    speak to some one she knows..and find out what is bothering here...may be you will get your answer..in the mean time.. try and focus on your work/studies !
     
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    Ignore her Too and see the Magic. . .
     
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  13. Neo240

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    Hi K, we are from the same place. Trust me the reason i came looking to make money online was almost similar to yours. I learned one thing though...as the blackhatters say Go after currency, Women will follow. It actually did help me a lot.

    And i can understand the thing, right now at your age almost everyone has these feelings. You are just into a minor withdrawl. The faster you recognize it, the better you will be.

    As far as my opinion, if a girl doesnt understand your value...dump her or else she will.
    I am not trying to hurt you. You can also flame me on my thread today, i dont mind.
     
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    to all who says ignore her. GET A LIFE !
    Buddy she is your best friend,you can't just loose her like this ! Try to find out the reason,maybe she got too mad because you didn't talk to her for weeks.
    Try to explain to her why you did so,never let go such relationships !
    Money isn't all you need in this life ;)
     
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  16. TheMatrix

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    I kinda want her back.. Or at least maybe start from the beginning. We've been bestest mates for 2 years..

    I'm not sure about this. Even she has no other good friends. Her parents and mine also knew about the two of us, and everything was good. Lately, even her mother is ignoring me. Dunno why.. I think it's because of her studies only.. I don't think it's because of some other guy or someone cracking to her about me. I know she trusts me that much.

    Thanks mate. I'll make sure I watch the movie.. The words sound good to me.
     
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  17. dr.pepper

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    Man up

    Sent from my GT-I9100 using Tapatalk
     
  18. beaglejuice

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    Love is in the air. Obviously, she missed you for 2 weeks without communication. :bouncing:
     
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    This isn't the reason. She herself told me to stop talking for just the exams. And I did that. She ignored me every time we met during our exams.

    I think we'll be meeting tomorrow, I'll ask her then. God knows how this night will be.
     
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    Life throws you a curve-ball once in a while and if you don't lose your head, it is usually for the better.

    Growing up, their was this very pretty girl and i gave her almost anything to be with me. I mean i was doing real crazy stuff to make money and spent thousands of dollars on her. I was nineteen and she was seventeen.

    She chose another guy over me and i was devastated. Moody, depressed and since then i have always loved knowing, she's always looking for a better deal.

    Three years ago, ran across her in a shopping mall and she was doing security. Talk about a disaster.

    Her looks - gone

    Her figure - gone

    Her normal weight - gone - she now weighs over 200 lbs

    She did not look anything like when she was seventeen. So, my friend every disaster has a silver lining and you might not see it right away but it will show soon.
     
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