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I'm on the verge of a divorce!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by virtualv, Feb 1, 2009.

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  1. virtualv

    virtualv Junior Member

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    And...that might be best for me! I'm SO pissed off right now that I have to vent to someone...so if you don't want to hear a woman complainin, then don't read the rest of this...

    My husband has just about pissed me off to the final point. He's given me an ultimatum basically...either bring in 4 grand a month or get a "real" job! Now seriously...I don't just sit around all day eating bon bons and watching TV. I already do have an outside "freelance" job and used to make good money at it, but I have recently moved to another state, and don't have my clientele built up yet, and it will take me a few more months to do so. I'm guilty of what I warn other people of here and that is getting involved in too many things and not making money at them and I am at my breaking point.

    I either need a blackhat sugar daddy or I'm gonna have to go away...lol
    Are there any nice guys out there from the USA who are willing to spend the time to teach me a sure fire way to make money that is reasonable?

    I'm so pissed off at myself because I now sound like a loser that comes here asking how to make money and I tell them to "read...read...read..." Well, I have not only read, but I have tried everything that I could try and I can't get anything to work for me to make consistent money...so I am about to give it all up. And my husband is pissing me off so much that it's making me even more down on myself.

    Honestly...I won't blame any and all of you to tell me to go ahead and not let the door hit me in the butt on the way out....I'm just pretty disappointed in myself and my learning abilities right now...and you guys probably go through it a lot with your significant others...so thought someone might have some words of wisdom for me...:bawling:
     
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    Baby you can move in with me and we can do blackhat all day together :)



    J/k, but PM me if you want to work out something for CS coaching that can get your earnings up there soon
     
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    fultoo11 Registered Member

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    oh why dont you get a mediator and sort out all the problems
     
  4. darkman

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    My wife is not working ( a housewife ) & i am not complaining!.
     
  5. virtualv

    virtualv Junior Member

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    Thanks bizcredit...I haven't even attempted to learn CS because I thought it would be really hard to learn...I'll message you...and I might have to move in if this jackass doesn't change his attitude...blech

    fultoo11...nice suggestion...but I don't think either one of us are interested in doing that right now.

    darkman...that's probably because you are a nice guy and not an asshole..like SOMEONE I know! :(
     
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    We love our blackhat women as they are a rare breed. Anything i can do to help with Blackhat Seo or affiliate marketing shoot me a PM...

    Hey if he can't take you are down with OPP and Blackhat then maybe its time you find a better man!

    Keep you head up! The money is there, one day it will hit you like a mack truck!


    Shamster come on man that was disrespect!

    What exaclty have you attempted? How long did you work it 8 hours a day and what was your results? Please be specific so we can help...
     
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  7. metaldragon

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    your a women do some ewhoring. easy 1k a week...
     
  8. virtualv

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    Eglo...I like your attitude! I'm sitting here getting drunk...and you guys are definitely making me have a better evening...;)

    metaldragon...there is no money anymore in e-whoring...it's too saturated and the guys are too smart for it. I've done it and it doesn't work for me any better than it does the guys who are trying it..

    Thanks though to all who have responded...you all and my Jack Daniels are makin it allllll better...;)
     
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    There is money in dating still to be made.

    Try taking pictures of yourself holding up a sign with random dude's name on it and sending it to them - "hey baby - for the rest of my pictures I took just for you check out xyz.com for my profile"

    As for your husband - he sounds like a jackass. Any man that demands his woman bring in X amount of dollars doesn't deserve her in my eyes.
    Pass the jack - I could use some myself right about now :p
     
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    damn sounds like a prick. he should try and help you make 4k a month. if you love him though, stay, dont make any hasty decisions.
     
  11. virtualv

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    airforcematt...posting pics of myself is yet another sore spot for him...so that's not gonna work...but it's definitely a good idea. I like it! Passes you some Jack > ;)

    wakkao....I like that you called him a prick...I did the same earlier in the evening...lol
    Oh and he brings in way more than 4 grand a month himself but he still says our bills are too high...it's just that HE wants to not owe one friggin person and have everything paid off every month..stupid I think!

    Honest guys...this is helping me and I do appreciate it. I am happy that I will have such a hangover tomorrow that I can sleep late...WOO HOO!!!
     
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    I understand that he hates debts. I try and clear them as quick as possible, even if they have no interest, debts are like flies to me. swat swat swat splat.
     
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    I have to agree with him about wanting bills paid off, but what he is doing besides that is uncalled for, rediculous and pathetic.

    You can do better.
     
  14. virtualv

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    Thanks again guys...
     
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    Billionaires have debt, I don't know what the fear is of debt/financing...debt is an extremely powerful tool that should be used at every opportunity...well ofcourse that is if you know how to manage it. Why don't you look at the sale section of the forum, buy an ebook or one of the blackhat tools and put them to work. I'd specially take advantage of the CS coaching offered by bizcredit. lol Funny his username has to do with debt!
     
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    $4K/mo.... You know web design?

    I don't know where you live but, I have a business partner in NY who makes 4-5K / website BARE MINIMUM.

    I personally like the small business market... It's $500 - $1000 easy 5-10 page sites. Then sell web hosting, domain reg, and everything else. Just scout small businesses in town without websites go up introduce yourself (have a site and business cards ready) and tell them how you can improve their business.

    If your interested in some easy affiliate cash from referring clients to me let me know via PM and I can go over details. I pay on a per-sale bases. I get paid, you get paid.
     
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    wouldn't it just suck to die and have everything paid off?

    When I die I wanna make sure I owe the banks as much money as possible.....cause they are a bunch of f'n pricks!

    So my take is enjoy life, stay healthy and just pay the bills to the point where the collectors don't call.

    Tell your hubby to slow down....life is more enjoyable that way! And believe me the more fun you have, the less stress you will have........and with less stress you will have a much greater chance of success.

    good luck!
     
  18. virtualv

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    mrsmirf...I completely agree with you about billionaires/debt, etc. And, I have bought several ebooks...with no success. I am going to work with bizcredit though and think he will be a great help..

    the demon..I wish I DID know web design..;)
     
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    Oh...I hear ya man!!! Totally! ;)
     
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    well if you want to get into "iframing" offers into fake ebooks or free sample pages , just shoot me a pm
     
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