I have seen some late threads like doing IM may make you miss your other joys & fun. Seems its quite real. When I was at college I used to hang outside and had greater chances of socializing. At my on and off campus interviews I was selected for almost 4 companies ( I attended 5 companies & yeah I'm a genius ) all were software. I decided to be different and never joined any of them and started my career in IM and software development. Now I have almost 30 employees here. The problem is my friends and all the dudes and Dave's have gone & joined software companies in metro cities enjoying the lifestyle and having all sorts of fun! My lifestyle has become totally different.I love the work I do as I don't even feel like I'm working. But Is this is taking all our OTHER SIDE OF LIFE? I have seen many guys who have posted the same here. I took up this job for one purpose . To make a difference & to be a king among the crowd. What do you feel? ANY INDIANS & TAMILIANS here?