I'm drinking, broke up with GF, in debt, life is hopeless

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  1. ScribScribScrib

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    Come up to the manager, give him a strong handshake and you'll land a job in no time! Worked for me
     
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    if you lost something means, there is a better one coming soon for you. just be happy :)
     
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    sell everything. get in a boat and go to Europe.

    whatever you do...dont give up ! money come and go , as well as woman.
     
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    I am really wondering why those 4 people have thanked OP, like what are they thankful of? That their life isn't shitty or something?


    Someone please enlighten me.
     
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    Sell everything, move to Thailand and fuck a hooker a day. Then isolate your self. Materialistic speaking, live like a king and don't forget to pay women for having sex with you.

    Joking aside, wake up buddy and realize that the joy and happiness of life comes from RESPONSIBILITY. Men, mostly intellectually obsessed men or introverts feel fulfilled and in power only when they successfully manage taking responsibility over the problems and also are able to provide or help others.

    So few practical advices: 1. Stop drinking ; 2. Write a plan, it'll make you see the light at the end of the tunnel and it's more favorable for yourself to take action
    3. Keep yourself busy, it's the cheapest and most efficient drug you can't buy.

    And fourth but not last, keep us updated on the progress of your life, you're not alone. 2019 will be a great year for you, trust me.
     
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    You did it once why can't you do it again?
     
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    don't worry buddy things will get better. keep working.
     
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    This is a very good advice.

    I would just add that if you have shitty habits then you cant expect much right? Change your habits and follow a healthy daily routine. Everything will change for you, as long as you deeply want.
     
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    its so over OP theres no hope
     
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    Strong post, especially this part.
     
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    so if i dont like helping others im not introvert? good to know
     
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    At least the "intellectually obsessed" part doesn't fit you after that comment. ;)
     
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    People can tell you anything, but a vibe tells you everything. You're feeling's the best vibe, step back from shits and move farther

    Do what you can, while you can.
    The whole world doesn't give a shit and neither do you want to afford them.:cool:
     
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    lool i just noticed how i roasted myself

    i am money obsessed
     
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    That's not so bad. I had 58k debt, was homeless, lost my gf, family and friends along the way, was drinking way stronger stuff than that yellow ginger ale and had nothing so I know how hopeless it may all seem but you can turn it around ;)
     
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    I don't know but I think average salary is 4K in US. so need to find a job and work around 2 years to pay the debt.
     
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    Good to know the average salary in the US is 4k.
     
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    always look on the bright side OP

     
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    always face this life with the most positive attitude , even if you have "big " problems