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If you met the right partner could you wait for marriage?

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  1. starcity83

    starcity83 Regular Member

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    Or would you have to take a test drive first?
     
  2. Frostedbutts

    Frostedbutts Regular Member

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    No.

    Once I bought a car without driving it first, I sold it real quick after that. I feel like this translates perfectly because if your wife is boring in the sack then that's the fast track to divorce.
     
  3. kendy

    kendy Junior Member

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    Mariage is a very bad decision because : mariage = share your money with your wife
    Mariage = 2/3 chance to divorce
    divorce = loosing 50% of your money
     
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  4. SaraJ

    SaraJ Junior Member

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    Yes, of course.
     
  5. shadowedsniper

    shadowedsniper Junior Member

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    No... fuck that noise.


    ^ this.
     
  6. orbit

    orbit Regular Member

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    I survived one marriage...



    Lesson learned.
     
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    teeniegenie Supreme Member

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    No, I waited and it was the best thing I ever did. Still married after 9 years. There are so many things that go into making a marriage strong. The fact that the "test drive" was good doesn't mean that the marriage will last.
     
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    salor Newbie

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    agreed with this:). Divorce is no good, so better wait, take your time, think twice
     
  9. Roparadise

    Roparadise BANNED BANNED

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    Only if you keep you assets in the open and in the same country:D
     
  10. shadowedsniper

    shadowedsniper Junior Member

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    I mean lets be realistic... On average, a divorce decreases your net worth by 77% (The Journal of Sociology). Putting emotions aside, statistically, marriage just isn't worth it. You should not get married if you care about money.
     
  11. CMCarlin

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    I suppose if all you cared about is money then marriage isn't an option. But there is more to life than that and sometimes you have to take risks. Therefore, I think my investment into marriage is worth it. Even after a divorce I will not regret it because we built many happy memories together and we have two beautiful, healthy children. Money can't buy that.

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    Hell NO!
     
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    bigballin6161 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    You would want to test drive it like 10000 times. By then you want to give it back and get a new one. No need for marriage.
     
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    A marriage "lasting" isn't what interests me. Its being able to look back at my life with my wife when Im 80 years old and thinking "Sex was awesome, she was/is my best friend, I love being around her, and things never got stale"

    Plus, I'd rather get a divorce 10 times rather than looking back and being like "Shit, I wasted my life with someone because society would have given me a little frowny face because I didn't stick it out in a bad relationship until I DIED"

    Truth is, sex is an important part of a relationship. Nothing beats being stressed out from daily life and looking over at the girl you are watching a movie with and being like "wanna bump uglies?" and then making love and relaxing soon after. I'd never be able to get that from some prude anyways.

    And I read somewhere that most women who make the man wait until marriage got married for reasons aside from love and often have affairs while maintaining the marriage.
     
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    tony-raymondo Junior Member

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    marriage = scam
     
  17. jazzc

    jazzc Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    What he said. ^^