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If you Dont like listening to whining, don't open!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by korfx04, May 7, 2014.

  1. korfx04

    korfx04 Junior Member

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    I work my ass off every day, every freakin' day like most of you, but the difference is i don't get paid for it. I'm fine with that, i'm really am because the work has to be done, and it's for older people in their late 70's to early 90's. He is a list of work i do (but not all).

    Mow the lawn (they are not small lawns either and it take ALL day to mow everything with a old snapper mower that quits every 30 mins)
    Weed Eat (Again, a lot of work and ware tare on my 10+ year old tanaka)
    Till the Gardens. (Many acres i have with an old front tine tiller)
    Plant the Gardens.
    Pull Weeds.
    Work the gardens
    Cary 50 gallons of water in 5 gallon buckets from the creek up a hill to one of the gardens.
    Bush hog
    Clean my grandmothers home.
    Picking up pine combs and limbs.

    The work is never ending. It's a everyday thing.

    I have no problem doing any of it free, i want to do it. I do have a problem when there is 3 perfectly healthy people (until you ask them to do something that is) living with my grandmother that won't lift a finger to do anything. My mother goes to work, but won't lift a finger to clean the house, and her husband stays in the room all day and my brother either watches TV or stays on the PC. My brother will help if i ask him, but i shouldn't have to ask because he knows this has to be done.

    The property owners grandsons aren't worth a damn. He lives in one of their rental houses rent free. His grand parents buys his grocery's and pay his bills. Only thing he does is stay up there fucked up on drugs..

    None will lift a finger to help me. The elders can't... heck my grandfather can barely stand on his feet. So i'm stuck doing everything by myself. Last week, i don't know what happen but my head went to swimming and lips tingling while i was working. I had to sit on the ground and i finnaly got over to the shade, and not one soul came to check on me after 4 hours. I couldn't even walk because i was so dizzy. I had to sit real still up against a pine tree for 4 hours until i got where i could walk.

    Every time i think about them sitting on their asses in front of the air conditioner, while i do everything just makes me so mad where i just want to walk in there and throw them all out on their asses. The bad part, they live with my grand parents rent free!!!

    When my grandparents was younger they was out there helping me.. During the day, my granny cooked and cleaned, worked at a high school, and worked in the gardens on her off days. My mother goes to work at publix, come home plays on the laptop goes to bed (because she SOOOOOOOO tired) and during her off days, she stays on the laptop while she lifts her feet up for her 80 year old mother with COPD vacuums under them!!

    Do i not have a reason to be pissed off all the time?

    I know any of you could care less because you have your own problems, but sometimes it makes you feel better just to rant because it relives some of the pressure that has been building up!

    One if i ever come into a bunch of money, i'm going to tell them all to KISS MY MUTHA FUCKING ASS (besides my grandparents if they're still living at the time)!!!
     
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  2. Clifton Allen Says

    Clifton Allen Says Junior Member

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    ..... and yet you find the time to come here and write a long essay about it? Woopity Woop
     
  3. korfx04

    korfx04 Junior Member

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    Yeah, because i've been working since 8 am this morning and knock off at 12 to eat launch, use the computer while i rest up and i'll start back at either 1:30 or 2 pm. Than i quit for the day at either 5-6pm
     
  4. BuildMoreLinks

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    BHW does have a blog post feature so why post this? How is your post helping you to make money?
     
  5. korfx04

    korfx04 Junior Member

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    I'm not trying to make money. And i didn't know BHW had a blog feature... That's actually good to know
     
  6. Trepanated

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    8 'til 5 with a 2 hour lunch break?

    Part-timer.

     
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  7. proxygo

    proxygo Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    with respect the lounge is for any type of post and doesnt have to
    be about money making. nothing wrong with his post
     
  8. JordanT3Leads

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    Sounds painful.
    Have you considered getting rid of the garden and grass? You could lay some bark chips or cement!
     
  9. lucasbraydon

    lucasbraydon Supreme Member

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    You could take loads of pictures and blog about your gardening antics lol
     
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  10. SeanAustin

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    Rough life. Go make money and use it to pay ethnic workers to do your work.

    Simple solution really.
     
  11. Dresden

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    CJ what are you doing on here? It's not break yet...
     
  12. The Scarlet Pimp

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    'nuff said... i think i see the problem. :D
     
  13. Duffers5000

    Duffers5000 Elite Member

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    Sounds like you are living in the little house on the prairie. You should head over to ol Mr Olsons place see if you can borrow some money to buy some power tools ?
     
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  14. jimmylegs

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    You need to bitch these worthless brothers of your out. Let them know the world eats up people like them and has no remorse. I would move out my man. Sometimes you need to be selfish and think for yourself.
     
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    Stop whining and get back to the gardening, there is work to be done.
     
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    Asif WILSON Khan Executive VIP Premium Member

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    OP, get yourself a Hoe.
     
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  17. jazzc

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    Which is probably never since you work for free. How about you get a paying job?
     
  18. kegnum

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    You could work less at a regular full time job and pay less for others to do this work for you. If it takes you more than 5 hours a week to do this, you are not working properly.
     
  19. ugarte

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    Try to automate the process as much as possible. A gasoline powered irrigation pump would save you some serious time in hauling water.

    Also try planting some dwarf grass seed mix. This could save you a lot of time mowing the lawn.
     
  20. korfx04

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    Some of you are miss understanding. It's not like i don't make money other ways. The problem is, they live on the property (rent free) and they will let a old lady wait on them hand and foot. Cook, clean, washcloths and everything else while they sit on their asses. They are perfectly healthy adults (27-49), and they should get off their asses and do something. It's not like i hate their guts, but i think they need to lift a hand to do something instead allowing me to do it all. I have too, i have no other choice because i'm obligated to do it, and plus no one else will do it for them. They can't hire anyone to do it for them because they live from ss check to the next.

    How can you let your elder mother do all these things for you, and you not do anything? Could anyone do that? I couldn't do mine like that because my conscience wouldn't let me.

    These

    Me: Here, wash the dishes.
    Them: I worked all day.

    Me: You take this weed eater and weed eat that bank and the house.
    Them: My back hurts.
    Me: Take this hoe and hoe this roe will i hoe the other one
    Them: My back hurts
    Me: Get on the riding mower and mow the lawn while i get the other mower and meet you in the center of the property.
    Them: I'm sick.

    My brother will help me without excuses, but i have to ask him to help me or he won't help at all.

    They all are good people, just a lazy bunch tho.
     
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