If there's one thing I've learned in life, it's this.

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There are no lasting friends and no lasting enemies, only lasting interests.

It's amazing how people; people you've known for years, will suddenly cease communication once you stop lending them help and support.

Help someone for too long and it eventually becomes expected rather than appreciated, remember that.
 
I disagree.

There are lasting friends. But it is difficult to find. Gotta be very careful, who we consider as friends. When they turn against us, it is very painful.

And enemies - well they are lasting too (for me atleast). I wouldn't have consider someone enemy without a proper reason. If someone became my enemy - that person is never gonna become my friend again. You can forgive, but don't forget ;)
 
very FEW people on this planet will ever love you for who you are. 98% of it is about what you can do for me, or what you have, or who you know.

Life is one big game. It's funny because we can literally sit here and describe an entire life from birth to death and I can pretty much tell you how it will go, and we'll all have the same fundamental results, yet we still play it anyway because we don't really have a choice (unless you really don't want to live). So what life boils down to is the "experience". We all know how life goes. We all know what is going to happen but we want to live through it all and the experiences. Funny isn't it? Ultimately we live only for the experiences.
 
why you said that , op?????????????????????????????? you will act like them too if you in their position , right ??????????????????????????????????????????????
 
It's amazing how people; people you've known for years, will suddenly cease communication once you stop lending them help and support.
I would rather say, It´s amazing on how few friends are worth keeping, thru the years, you selectively stop communicating with people that only want things from you, rather then as a friend want to give/do things for you .. most people are a***oles, thinking of their own needs only.
 
100% agree.

At the end of the day, you only have yourself to rely on.

Zero exceptions. You learn this through adversity. Such thinking is good too, builds up your resilence and makes you independent.
 
Remember that if you take the "stay away from everything and everybody" approach, but still want to participate in society, you better be defensive in your approach, because everybody is in packs and ganged up, and if you get into any conflict with anyone you'll get fucked up.

There's no 1 on 1 honor bullshit unless the 1 against you is 10 times bigger and stronger... and even then if you manage to come on top = his pack of wolves jumping on your single head :p

Fly under the radar, retreat, play defense, keep a distance... or gang up son :D
 
We all have friends for parts of our lives. Some do last longer than others.
My high school friends are "friends" sure, but I won't call them to grab a beer like I do with my current friends.

Life changes us. We can't expect our relationships to be rigid in the light of our lives.

definitely true that people confuse a non-guaranteed benefit for a right or an entitlement.
 
all these bs vanish from your life when you are fucking cool by yourself. people come and go as they wish. You know there is a thing called "death", so technically even your lasting friend wont last beyond this.
 
Except the CREATOR, no one is your friend my friend. Don't even expect to have a long lasting friend as it's the human nature.

Have you ever tried to make the CREATOR your friend? If you had, you would have loved it.

In short, CREATOR is your best and ever lasting friend.
 
Help someone for too long and it eventually becomes expected rather than appreciated, remember that.

Very FEW people on this planet will ever love you for who you are. 98% of it is about what you can do for me, or what you have, or who you know.

Sad but true. Was it always like this or it's the product of our modern civilization?
 
all these bs vanish from your life when you are fucking cool by yourself. people come and go as they wish. You know there is a thing called "death", so technically even your lasting friend wont last beyond this.
This is Deep.
 
There are no lasting friends and no lasting enemies, only lasting interests.

It's amazing how people; people you've known for years, will suddenly cease communication once you stop lending them help and support.

Help someone for too long and it eventually becomes expected rather than appreciated, remember that.
Its because people expect help and get upset when they dont get it . They forget you have your own problems as well.
This is Deep.
and he is 14
 
How old are you?

It should be no surprise that what mainly claim as friends are acquaintance at best.
Money is where friendship ends etc. Should all be things you learn rather early.

Think about it, you got 50 so-called friends, now they all help you move 1 time, but you gotta do 50 moves for that now. Anyway, realize that most ppl you meat are not true friends, if they ask you for help, money, etc but have never done anything for you forget it.

Everything is an investment in life. Love is as well, you don't want to give all the love you have a get none in return. The same applies to friendship, if it's not even with in/output then move on.
 
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