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If one days you suddenly become riches....

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Kuldheep89, Jun 4, 2017.

  1. Kuldheep89

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    do you thinking you can tolerate the stresses????

    say one days you get big windfalls or strike lottery or sells a company and get millions.... friends and families all suddenly asking you to give... if you don't give they say you stingy and selfish and become enemies.... can you tolerates thats???

    cos i just heard from a friend that he strike state lottery... millions.... he says his greedy family start asking... friends start asking.... then news of him getting millions spread fast... mroe and more peoples start asking him for moneys and he says no.... now everyone avoids him and become enemies with him... he sad and told me this.... then i wondering what if one day this happens to us???? will we be able to tolerating it?
     
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    No one wants to be enemy of rich person.
     
  3. MisterF

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    In the UK many years back a friend of mine went for a job interview in a bland looking office block just outside Leeds. It was to work for the National Lottery working as a financial advisor / councilor for the big winners.

    He didn't get the job, but the package offered was generous.
     
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    Ha ha, you need to watch the tv show Billions :)
     
  5. ThopHayt

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    Being rich vs being poor is like driving down the highway en route to the same destination in a Lamborghini, vs moto scooter... money makes the ride a bit easier/comfortable, but it doesn't change all the facts of your life outside that car. Too many people obsess with being "rich" thinking it will fix all their problems, instead of addressing those problems outside planning to throw money at it "one day" if they are lucky. I'd say 90% of life's biggest problems can't be fixed with money alone. So if you're lucky enough to win the lottery, use the money to improve your life not save it.

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    Agreed, those "problems" of friends/family existed before he was rich, the money just revealed it.

    -ThopHayt
     
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    i make like $10 a day so you can say im rich af
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    Not a lot of people know what I do online. So if one day I end up a millionaire, ill just stuff it in a bank or invest and get a job at McDonald's. No one has to know
     
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    people who deserve to be with you at your best times are the ones who were with you at worst times, so tell him to say others go fuck yourself and move to some better place
     
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    suddenly millonairs don't know the value of the money... they don't know the hustle and thats why they suddenly broke again.

    but if I hit the jackpot I would definitely share my luck but I wouldn't play the big spender. I would give my best fellas the opportunity to reach there goals and make them successful as I can...:D
     
  11. curiouskt

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    Totally this 100%
     
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    Who cares when he could buy and sell all their sorry asses...
     
  13. Elin Dotsya

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    My dad came close to winning Fantasy 5 last year. He got 4/5 numbers except the last number was off by 1. It was an 8 when he picked a 9. The pot was around a million, maybe 750k USD. A part of me was disappointed because I could have had my dream computer right now, because he's generous with gifts.

    Then back in Ukraine some lady (or was it a guy) across the street from our local church, won the lottery and bought a nice car. She was broke within a year, lol.

    If I were rich - few would know about it. I bet I'd still dress like a hobo, though.
     
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    Some of those folks eating out of garbage cans on the street actually have more money than we do.
     
  15. Elin Dotsya

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    The ones who have shopping carts full of aluminum cans most likely do. There's a gypsy woman at the flea market who holds up a sign asking people for money to help her daughter with surgery. She's been at it pretty much every work day since we moved here. I doubt she even has a daughter, lol.
     
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    You put the money in the bank account, keep quiet and keep living your life on your terms. No one needs to know how many digits are in the bank account. It's only when you advertise your wealth that you run into problems.
     
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    What kind of moron wins the lottery and tells his family and friends?
     
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    There was this guy who won a $20 million lottery. The poor guy moved his wife's two sisters to where he lived and took care of them. His sister-in-law and her boyfriend murdered him for his money.

    Your friend better be careful. Today they're not talking to him and tomorrow ......