I will quit my job, f*ck 9 to 7 work, I will do my own business, I will be rich!

Quitting now is like jumping out of a plane without a parachute, then trying to sew one together on the way down.

Here's the thing; you want to stop being pissed off about your situation, but being pissed off is exactly what you need. Comfort makes you lazy, discomfort makes you move your ass. So keep that job you hate, and every day, before you go in, tell yourself how much you hate it. Whenever you get distracted or lazy, remind yourself that you're just drawing out your suffering. Whenever you start wasting time on random shit, always ask yourself, "Is this what I should be doing right now?"

But, and this is a big one, don't be desperate. Expect it to take time, years. Just get that out of the way right now. It's going to take time, you're going to to have many failures along the way, and nothing is just going to fall into your lap. Expect it, be ok with it, and press on.

Your hate for your current job will keep you from giving up, and accepting the reality that these things don't happen quickly or easily will keep you grounded.

What do I mean by grounded?

I mean you don't fall for scams and bad ideas. Desperation makes you do stupid things.

I mean you don't get shiny object syndrome, where you start on an idea, get past the easy initial stuff, then get discouraged when it's time to do the hard, drawn out work, and instead decide to start something new.

I mean you don't get in the trap of too much planning and no action, or the equally bad trap of jumping in without a plan. Put real effort into vetting an idea before you waste time on it, then when you decide to pull the trigger, you put real effort into making it work. Never beat a dead horse though. You need to know when something just isn't going to work and walk away. But that's not the same thing as walking away because you got distracted by something else or because it's taking real work to make it happen.

Oh, and the whole 17-18 hours a day. I get you're hyped up but don't fall for the bullshit grind mentality. There's only so many hours a day you can do productive work. For most people, it's 4 really good hours, 2-3 more decent ones, then the quality drops off fast after that.

Burning yourself out won't get you to your goals quicker, not when you're doing work that requires a lot of brain power. You might be able to put in 14 hours of manual labor in a day but your mind doesn't work that way. We didn't evolve to focus on tasks that long.

Pace yourself or you'll burn out, get discouraged, put yourself into a negative mood, and probably give up.

Again, it will take time. It will take more time than you think. It always does. Know that, be fine with that, and you'll be ahead of 99% of your competition just from that. They'll give up too early from overestimating the rewards and underestimating the effort involved. You'll be so focused on the process that when the success rolls in, you'll be totally surprised by it.

An overnight success, years in the making.
 
I wish you success bro :) , I thinking same as you "I do not want to be slave to any person". I want make money on my own and run my own f*cking business.
 
I'm so fuc*ing mad, and I do not want to keep working in the company, I do not want to be slave to any person, I work 9 to 7 and I try to do all my efforts to bring the company best results as much as I can, but the people there do not respect me, I got so much disrespect, I feel so much stress with job and the goals that they tell you to do without consulting you, they do not know that you are new and you still familiarizing yourself with their products and how their company works, they want X results in X time without helping you a bit or consulting you, they blame you on all the results, they do not provide you someone to help you as a teammate, all the work on you, and you are responsible plus they try to Belittle You and your work.
I feel like a slave and not good at all, I want to quit as soon as possible.

My goal is to start any business, but I do not know what to do, I'm fucking totally lost, I do not know if I should start selling digital products, or creating an AI tool that will let people buy it to engage with it, or starting affiliate business with paid ads, or creating a cheap paid subscription newsletter and automate it with news that will be sent to people and bring them using ads, or create a membership website talking around a certain niche.

Someone professional, or anyone with a great experience provide an advice to what should I do, I've failed in many online businesses but now I do not know what to do, please help!!!

I want to make my journey short to get to the results I want and quit as soon as possible, I have digital skills, and low capital investment, I want something that will last not a method, a brand to make, this is my journey and I hope someone to provide me with advice. THANKS FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!

You have to find happiness FIRST, and then money will come.

This doesn't apply to everyone in all cases. Some people are just highly driven and hungry, but guys like that tend to be much more emotionally cold.

For someone like you(and me) we need to first find some inner peace. This advice is highly tailored for a specific personality type.. It's for people who are more emotional/frantic.

I got success when I just stopped the bullshit "I will be happy once I am rich" crap.

And you know what?

Life is exactly the fucking same no matter how much you make.

You still eat sleep and shit just the same. You don't magically change.

It gets HARDER the further you go in business, so if you've not found that inner peace before starting the journey, then you're going to get more stressed and more lost.

Stop trying to get rich.

Take a month off and meditate, run, walk in nature, eat well. Try to feel the peace and beauty that just exists in the present moment. That feeling is all we have, and money is just an illusion.

Relax, breath.. STOP wanting. STOP thinking about the future.

It's never going to happen 100%, but you can slow down and just tell yourself "Hey, I'm ok just here as I am now. I can just be happy sitting here breathing slowly enjoying the fresh air and the looking at the sky, or walking in the forest".

Once you've found some peace and feel OK with life as it is, then ask the question "What would I like to do with my time?"

Remember you can make money in most things. Again, this advice is for people like you and me. It's not for the cold hard working don't give a fuck type of guys who are best just going full pelt 80 hours a week until they make it.

List out

A) Your skills

B) What you want to do

Find the intersection and choose that 1 thing, and just start a project.

Take it slow. Enjoy it. Focus on building up your experience and going DEEP into it. Remember always that happiness is here in the present moment. It doesn't exist in the future on some yacht. It really doesn't.. I can tell you from experience.

The summary for you is to first slow down, and then choose something you would enjoy doing every day for the next few years, and just do it for the enjoyment. Pick the thing you'd both enjoy, and have some skills to leverage. I recommend avoiding paid ads and SEO. Go for something where you can focus on building a personal brand, client relationships, cold outreach, cold calling. Things you can do guerilla style marketing
 
Without a plan in place, you'll get nowhere.
Be realistic if you don't want to set yourself up for frustration.
 
Without a plan in place, you'll get nowhere.
Be realistic if you don't want to set yourself up for frustration.
I know I should be realistic bro, that's why I try to do as much as I can to quit, and frustration is the only solution that pushes to search for building a business and improving myself.

I made a whole plan for this year for the goal that I want to reach before the end of this year to never be a slave to anyone controlling my life, my time, and my freedom and the way I think and what should I do and not do, it can be called an experience, some people will live like this for their whole life for a bit of money every month, not enjoying the beautiful things in this world, it's called a slave life!

I understand this but I can't, it makes me sick to see myself doing a job wasting my time, getting disrespected sometimes, uncapable to have a relationship with a girl because you can't! you are trying to be nice to keep that shitty job, as I said, I would love to work 18 hours on something that I enjoy and makes me money and let me live life the way I want even if it makes 2 times less than my salary than living with a stressful job and a stressful life making your life look shitty and your body weak because you do not have time to train or to enjoy life.

I have a lot of ideas I want to test, I would start small and go bigger, I've created a full business plan with the help of GPT 4 and I've bought some spy tools that will help me search the market, and also there are free spy tools like Facebook Library I really love it, I'm planning to start selling digital products because they don't require any high investment only time and some low budget for ads like 100$ which can have a good ROI if you are selling digital products, I'm willing to start selling info products that is irresistible to say NO to it, I've seen some stores making thousand of $$$ selling digital products and I want to make my product hard to be replicated by anyone, I want at least to make a good some of money from the products I want to sell to quit my job and focus on building a brand using Google ads, then start planning what to do exactly if I should continue with digital products and make more or switch to a service based business or a Micro-SAAS AI Paid Tool.

Things I will not focus on for now is SEO, long term plans or any audience building sort of things because I need to get things fast and then think long term, for me people who build a business using long term plans without short term plans and without getting quick to the goal in a month or less, for me they lack the skills to build a business or they do not understand the meaning of the "business".

You know that every successful business makes a lot of money everyday, you know why? because they advertise every fucking day, they put a lot of money on ads but they make so much 3X or 5X money selling their services.

I look to advertise on TikTok free with reels because I've been able to get 15K followers in less than a month using Carousel videos, and I think it's a place to build fast audience and get fast results, so I will use it as an advertisement and make videos selling my products using my marketing methods.

Thanks Bro for your advice, I really appreciate everyone here on this forum giving his/her time to comment on my thread.
 
I think right now SaaS is pretty hot. If you can find a problem to solve for a certain type of niche and charge around $150/month for that service, you can make a decent living.
 
Yeah bro you are definitely going to grow a brand with $100 on ads and bringing 400 leads a month without 1 converting means means is not your fault.
I'm planning to start selling digital products because they don't require any high investment only time and some low budget for ads like 100$ which can have a good ROI

Haven't you heard that time is money? $100 dollars on ads for a digital product from some random person that can't even bring quality leads won't sell more than a couple of copies.

Take 6 months to 1 year on growing a twitter, linkedIn, youtube, tiktok, instagram whatever just make sure your audience is there. I don't see success when I read your posts but merely a random person on the internet jumping from trend to trends with no substantial skills to use at each endeavor.

You have a skill issue.
 
Yeah bro you are definitely going to grow a brand with $100 on ads and bringing 400 leads a month without 1 converting means means is not your fault.


Haven't you heard that time is money? $100 dollars on ads for a digital product from some random person that can't even bring quality leads won't sell more than a couple of copies.

Take 6 months to 1 year on growing a twitter, linkedIn, youtube, tiktok, instagram whatever just make sure your audience is there. I don't see success when I read your posts but merely a random person on the internet jumping from trend to trends with no substantial skills to use at each endeavor.

You have a skill issue.
I do not understand what you want to say, you should know first which company I work, their business is hard, I do my best to bring leads as a media buyer, which some convert but the fault is not mine for others because they didn't call them, so they blame me for half of leads which they didn't even call, it's their fault, but because you work in a company, they will blame you and try to put as much pressure as they can get and belittle you.

You do not know that I've been on the internet for a lot years, so I know how internet marketing works, I worked as a freelancer, and I've been doing SEO, learning Facebook ads, and Google ads, and improving my skills, following AI trends, I can literally do anything in Marketing, I love challenges, and I can take risk and make business that requires many responsibilities.

I know that if I said that if you can not manage to make money in a business in a month or less, you do not know how internet marketing works, forget Affiliate marketing, Ecom if you do not have a really good budget to start like 1000$ or more but if you have 50$ or 100$ you can literally sell digital product and make 1000$ and double more on that, there are endless digital products, people really making millions selling WordPress themes, some just designing posts and making money.

I do not follow trends, I follow quality products that people will buy at any moment, if I follow trends, I will search trends and make something trending which will make me money in a short period of time, or maybe not like POD designs which most people search for trends and compete on that design, which they make them less money!

You can grow your audience on TikTok in less than a week, you can get 10k in less than a week.

Follow my journey and I will try to update, I'm trying to work +16 hours a day, but now in work 10 hours and +6 hours at home, I do not have time!
 
I do not understand what you want to say, you should know first which company I work, their business is hard, I do my best to bring leads as a media buyer, which some convert but the fault is not mine for others because they didn't call them, so they blame me for half of leads which they didn't even call, it's their fault, but because you work in a company, they will blame you and try to put as much pressure as they can get and belittle you.

You do not know that I've been on the internet for a lot years, so I know how internet marketing works, I worked as a freelancer, and I've been doing SEO, learning Facebook ads, and Google ads, and improving my skills, following AI trends, I can literally do anything in Marketing, I love challenges, and I can take risk and make business that requires many responsibilities.

I know that if I said that if you can not manage to make money in a business in a month or less, you do not know how internet marketing works, forget Affiliate marketing, Ecom if you do not have a really good budget to start like 1000$ or more but if you have 50$ or 100$ you can literally sell digital product and make 1000$ and double more on that, there are endless digital products, people really making millions selling WordPress themes, some just designing posts and making money.

I do not follow trends, I follow quality products that people will buy at any moment, if I follow trends, I will search trends and make something trending which will make me money in a short period of time, or maybe not like POD designs which most people search for trends and compete on that design, which they make them less money!

You can grow your audience on TikTok in less than a week, you can get 10k in less than a week.

Follow my journey and I will try to update, I'm trying to work +16 hours a day, but now in work 10 hours and +6 hours at home, I do not have time!
bla bla bla bla you just said a whole bunch about nothing. Like I said before your thoughts are all over the place talking nothing but non-sense. Focus on a skill and stop pocket watching other creators that are not on your league. Oh by the way, nobody can really work 16+ hours a day unless you are taking uppers but you risk on having a heart attack working 16 hours a day.

To me it looks like you only do like 30 mins to 60 mins of work a day, not 16 hours. If you were doing 3-4 hours of productive work you wouldn't be in this hole. However, you are looking for things that are easy and that don't require that much effort, you've said that in your previous post. That means that you are wasting a lot of time talking and writing about bullshit that produces zero income.

Stop the cap and just focus on tweeting or making youtube videos because right now I don't see you selling no digital courses with $100 in ads and making thousands from that.
 
bla bla bla bla you just said a whole bunch about nothing. Like I said before your thoughts are all over the place talking nothing but non-sense. Focus on a skill and stop pocket watching other creators that are not on your league. Oh by the way, nobody can really work 16+ hours a day unless you are taking uppers but you risk on having a heart attack working 16 hours a day.

To me it looks like you only do like 30 mins to 60 mins of work a day, not 16 hours. If you were doing 3-4 hours of productive work you wouldn't be in this hole. However, you are looking for things that are easy and that don't require that much effort, you've said that in your previous post. That means that you are wasting a lot of time talking and writing about bullshit that produces zero income.

Stop the cap and just focus on tweeting or making youtube videos because right now I don't see you selling no digital courses with $100 in ads and making thousands from that.
Listen little kid, I'm working a job 9 to 7, I have 1hour my free time to eat, and most of the time I work, I work 10 hours a day in the company without touching my phone and +6 hours in building digital product when I go home in night now I'm doing the work and I write this message, always when I go home I start doing my research and eating in the same time and storing data in a spreadsheet and making my plans for the month in Notion, I literally work +16 hours.

I think you are a kid or a lazy person, so bro, I'm literally tired now from work and chatting about the BS you write.

Follow my journey!
 
Listen little kid, I'm working a job 9 to 7, I have 1hour my free time to eat, and most of the time I work, I work 10 hours a day in the company without touching my phone and +6 hours in building digital product when I go home in night now I'm doing the work and I write this message, always when I go home I start doing my research and eating in the same time and storing data in a spreadsheet and making my plans for the month in Notion, I literally work +16 hours.

I think you are a kid or a lazy person, so bro, I'm literally tired now from work and chatting about the BS you write.

Follow my journey!
What journey? I looked at your thread history, you said the same shit last year "follow me on my journey to make $10k a month". You stopped posting shortly, how the fuck do you work 10 hours a day and produce zero value for your employer. That makes no sense, then you saying you come home to work another 6 hours a day.

Leave your job and work for yourself if you really working that many hours. Do you get off sexually on people belittling you? Why the fuck are you letting your boss walk all over you if you know your shit?

That's because you are over estimating your own skill set. Look at how much bullshit you are talking about how you going to make some AI app, or some cheap newsletter, or some digital product that makes you thousand magically. You even said tiktok is so easy you can make $10k in a week.

None of what you are saying makes any sense what so ever. Why would you bother working on a job if you could make $10k a week to put yourself in an environment where you boss just tells you how shitty you are?

You are in that job because last year you had nothing and you just wanted to make $10k which to you meant like a whole world. Now you are back to square one because you realized that this is not the way you want to go.

All I said is that you are lacking skills and discipline not ambitions. Nothing that you said made any sense whatsoever.
 
I'm trying to work as much as I can, I can do that, I can work 16 hours a day without stop, even I feel not good, I will work and test as much as I can, my goal is to make money and quit, I do not give a f*ck if I quit tomorrow, I can still survive, I bought GPT 4, and I got Canva Subscription and a Spy tool subscription, and I have a certain knowledge on Google ads and I'm good at Facebook ads because that's what I'm currently do with this company to bring leads to them to their services, I learnt so much about how they cold call, I'm just lost, but I do not give a f*ck, I will write an ebook, create a step by step guides and sell them, and do a newsletter and test my ideas of making a small AI paid chatbot, cold call people for drop servicing, I will do anything that will push me to quit and never go back to that slave place.

Yes bro I'm so frustrated and feeling not good because I got humiliated and disrespected and stressed all in the same time, feeling so mad, I want to work 18 hours, I can stay all night just to make my dream reality, I do not give a shit about burn out or being comfortable, all I want is respect and living good life not disrespect from the boss or people there.

Thank you from my bottom of my heart for your advice bro.
Maybe i have something good, almost finished. but you need to give 12 hours a day of work for finding clients and doing marketing...
 
What journey? I looked at your thread history, you said the same shit last year "follow me on my journey to make $10k a month". You stopped posting shortly, how the fuck do you work 10 hours a day and produce zero value for your employer. That makes no sense, then you saying you come home to work another 6 hours a day.

Leave your job and work for yourself if you really working that many hours. Do you get off sexually on people belittling you? Why the fuck are you letting your boss walk all over you if you know your shit?

That's because you are over estimating your own skill set. Look at how much bullshit you are talking about how you going to make some AI app, or some cheap newsletter, or some digital product that makes you thousand magically. You even said tiktok is so easy you can make $10k in a week.

None of what you are saying makes any sense what so ever. Why would you bother working on a job if you could make $10k a week to put yourself in an environment where you boss just tells you how shitty you are?

You are in that job because last year you had nothing and you just wanted to make $10k which to you meant like a whole world. Now you are back to square one because you realized that this is not the way you want to go.

All I said is that you are lacking skills and discipline not ambitions. Nothing that you said made any sense whatsoever.
I said 10k followers not 10k$

My last year I had a journey but I've been able to learn from my mistakes and failures, I was doing SEO to affiliate marketing, I was getting a lot of visitors but no sales.

This year, I've learnt so much about Facebook ads and Google ads and I do learn everyday.

I work this shitty job until I find a way to make some decent money and make my project work and never be a slave to someone.

For skills, I have many, I can do freelance and find a client in a day or two days, the problem, I want to secure something that will not leave me without money, like a real solid business online that's why I brought AI, a brand selling digital info forever...
 
Update:
Thanks to all of you guys, I've been reading your answers and were all great and brilliant, thanks, I couldn't find time to answer them all.

Finally I quit my job today and now I'm free, I couldn't handle the daily life pression in the work, especially I can't have just one good word from the boss on my hard work and the ROI I've done to the company, they see only the one wrong side never the good sides, I prefer my mental health and my health over a salary.

Online Journey:

I've been creating a digital product around a popular topic that I want to sell, I've been using spy tools online to see how digital products in some stores are going and I found some competitors that have been doing well, one of them, they sell a PDF ebook type with over +10000 purchases, and he has a lot of purchases also on the other digital products.

So I created my plan first a "short term strategy" to see how much purchases and money I can make in the day.
Tomorrow I have to wake up early to finish the ebook and I have to test a platform like Gumroad or a platform that provides more features to build a simple store website and I will try to advertise it in 4 different smart and viral ways.

Also, I have to create a website for selling services, "that I will outsource and also I will make sure the service delivered is high quality", I'm going to focus on a micro niche and I have to find a market with high demand and less competition, I'm going to focus on either the Arab speaking market or French speaking market because the competition is so high when it comes to English speaking market, that's my view?!!

I have the template in elementor created in my localhost WordPress using XMAPP control panel, I bought a Hostinger host, I need only to find a good domain name, importing my template and I have to do Ads or use an automated way to reach clients on social media Facebook groups, Reddit subreddit, LinkedIn or Email outreach to bring leads that I will call them after they choose their rendezvous.

Hope You Good luck guys on your journey too.
 
My advice is to be really careful with what you take as an example in this forum.
There are wise people here who actually know what they are doing and will give you good ideas but there are also a lot of people who want to make money fast and with low effort and they claim that to be possible.

There is not such a thing as fast low effort fast money, there are no magic tricks.
You will have to work hard to achieve something that gives you money.
If you believe one of those smoke sellers promising easy money after a week of work you are going to end up losing time and money.
 
Update:
Thanks to all of you guys, I've been reading your answers and were all great and brilliant, thanks, I couldn't find time to answer them all.

Finally I quit my job today and now I'm free, I couldn't handle the daily life pression in the work, especially I can't have just one good word from the boss on my hard work and the ROI I've done to the company, they see only the one wrong side never the good sides, I prefer my mental health and my health over a salary.

Online Journey:

I've been creating a digital product around a popular topic that I want to sell, I've been using spy tools online to see how digital products in some stores are going and I found some competitors that have been doing well, one of them, they sell a PDF ebook type with over +10000 purchases, and he has a lot of purchases also on the other digital products.

So I created my plan first a "short term strategy" to see how much purchases and money I can make in the day.
Tomorrow I have to wake up early to finish the ebook and I have to test a platform like Gumroad or a platform that provides more features to build a simple store website and I will try to advertise it in 4 different smart and viral ways.

Also, I have to create a website for selling services, "that I will outsource and also I will make sure the service delivered is high quality", I'm going to focus on a micro niche and I have to find a market with high demand and less competition, I'm going to focus on either the Arab speaking market or French speaking market because the competition is so high when it comes to English speaking market, that's my view?!!

I have the template in elementor created in my localhost WordPress using XMAPP control panel, I bought a Hostinger host, I need only to find a good domain name, importing my template and I have to do Ads or use an automated way to reach clients on social media Facebook groups, Reddit subreddit, LinkedIn or Email outreach to bring leads that I will call them after they choose their rendezvous.

Hope You Good luck guys on your journey too.
Best of luck on your journey, albeit it seems a bit risky one.
Have you identified any realistic short-term and long-term goals you're working towards to? Listing them here or elsewhere with the timeframes you're aiming for might help you keep track and not lose sight on your goals.
 
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