I turn 25 today - Wanting to ask older people some life questions.

ASGTwicit

ASGTwicit

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So I turn 25 today. Since leaving University I've felt pretty directionless and worried I'm making the wrong choices or I'll look back at these times and regret my decisions. I am pretty fearful of time passing me by.

Today has been spent working on projects and still trying to get out of this money hole I'm in, I was always told my 20s were the best times of my life but so far it's been nothing but stress. (some great moments in there though!)

I'm well aware I'm not a kid anymore and transitioning into the life of a fully grown man, is there anyone who is a bit older and wiser that could give me their introspective on what life/their 20s has been for them?

Much appreciated :)

Big thanks to this forum for helping me out and earning me some side money.
 
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Life is a marathon not a sprint. What separates winners from losers is stamina.

What tires you is what will kill you. Do not let anyone drain your energy, this is your life.

Children dont need a passive father, they need a role model of a person that survives. Women will say that to be a good father you must keep the women happy, this is not true. This is manipulation.

Become the best salesperson you can, it will keep you sharp, you will be meeting new people, you will stay relevant.

And work out, your health is under attack from all the stresses and bullshit, if you let yourself go, you will get sick.
 
I am now 22 years . Being a 1% top by stats searched on top1% belgium ask me anything bro
 
A mans mistakes are his portals to his success. So don't be afraid to give things a try. But make educated decisions, never impulsive.
 
Happy Birthday, and I would say one thing. Grind yourself for the work you hate till you get enough money to do whatever makes you feel happy but don't stress out much.
 
Happy BDay @ASGTwicit

My life in my 20s was amazing, the first half was all about partying [to the max], 2nd half was all about IM.

If someone told me when I was your age that I would be here today, that I would go through all these things in life, that I would meet so many good people worldwide, that I would twice reach what we all dream of and that is some kind of financial freedom, that I will lose it twice literally overnight and that I will after huge falls in the hardest possible life period (my last big fall) when I got a child and got married...
That I will learn all these things that I know today, which are invaluable, which no degree in any school system can ever learn about...
I would laugh, I guess, I don't know.

Anyway... I'm still here! I'm still hungry to learn more and be an even better person than I am! I still want to make a difference in the world and help out others more than I ever had in my life (15 years later)! Only 1 thing can stop me and that is a God, or, whatever you believe in.

Life is beautiful, you know... Life is beautiful and very strange sometimes in our heads because we cannot understand what is happening to us at a certain moment and why.

Yes, we are going through very difficult moments, but the most important thing is to learn a lesson from everything, learn a lesson, and move on!

A huge number of people fail after the first difficult "life test", unfortunately, they rarely realize that this is life and that these are things that happen for a reason, which we do not see and understand at those moments, but precisely those difficult moments make us stronger and they build our mentality and mindset over years and years, and then one day you understand the whole point.

I hope you will understand my point, there is not much difference between me and you and our lives, that is, all of us at BHW and in the world, the point is how you understand what is happening to you at a given moment and how you react to it.

It's called life, and through such things in life we determine what we become in the end, we determine who we are, what we want, how far we want to push and move forward, or... You simply stop and be happy with a 9-5 job.
 
Never waste time chasing girls.......only chase money! Then the girls will chase you...... #FACTS :cool:
 
When you start making money don't waste it, invest it again and keep some for you rinse and repeat, spend a lot of money in parties and expesive things are worthless just to impress people that really don't care save money invest it, be smart, also as the king all womens are the devil in disguise careful with those pretty liars, also don't rush a family you have time and if is not in your plans is ok just don't rush things.
 
thinking about time is probably the first thing that will set you down in anything. Just feel free to do whatever you like and right things will come. But still, you need to be proactive and not sleeping whole day. Learn new skills, participate in events, by being active you will get things around.
 
Few advices from a 33 yo dude
- start long term project now, whether it is investement or content website or whatever. Start now. You're 33yo you will thank me :)
- solo travel. First time i travel, i was 26, going to SE asia for 7 months, time of my life.
- love your siblings, they wont be there forever. Give, give, give. Give love, give time, give help...
- experience new things as much as you can
- fuck as much as you can.
 
MrDenz said:
Happy BDay @ASGTwicit

My life in my 20s was amazing, the first half was all about partying [to the max], 2nd half was all about IM.

If someone told me when I was your age that I would be here today, that I would go through all these things in life, that I would meet so many good people worldwide, that I would twice reach what we all dream of and that is some kind of financial freedom, that I will lose it twice literally overnight and that I will after huge falls in the hardest possible life period (my last big fall) when I got a child and got married...
That I will learn all these things that I know today, which are invaluable, which no degree in any school system can ever learn about...
I would laugh, I guess, I don't know.

Anyway... I'm still here! I'm still hungry to learn more and be an even better person than I am! I still want to make a difference in the world and help out others more than I ever had in my life (15 years later)! Only 1 thing can stop me and that is a God, or, whatever you believe in.

Life is beautiful, you know... Life is beautiful and very strange sometimes in our heads because we cannot understand what is happening to us at a certain moment and why.

Yes, we are going through very difficult moments, but the most important thing is to learn a lesson from everything, learn a lesson, and move on!

A huge number of people fail after the first difficult "life test", unfortunately, they rarely realize that this is life and that these are things that happen for a reason, which we do not see and understand at those moments, but precisely those difficult moments make us stronger and they build our mentality and mindset over years and years, and then one day you understand the whole point.

I hope you will understand my point, there is not much difference between me and you and our lives, that is, all of us at BHW and in the world, the point is how you understand what is happening to you at a given moment and how you react to it.

It's called life, and through such things in life we determine what we become in the end, we determine who we are, what we want, how far we want to push and move forward, or... You simply stop and be happy with a 9-5 job.
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thank you this helped a lot :)
 
0wen1 said:
Few advices from a 33 yo dude
- start long term project now, whether it is investement or content website or whatever. Start now. You're 33yo you will thank me :)
- solo travel. First time i travel, i was 26, going to SE asia for 7 months, time of my life.
- love your siblings, they wont be there forever. Give, give, give. Give love, give time, give help...
- experience new things as much as you can
- fuck as much as you can.
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heard loud and clear thank you! apart from my gf for 6 years wont be happy with the last one haha
 
ASGTwicit said:
So I turn 25 today. Since leaving University I've felt pretty directionless and worried I'm making the wrong choices or I'll look back at these times and regret my decisions. I am pretty fearful of time passing me by.

Today has been spent working on projects and still trying to get out of this money hole I'm in, I was always told my 20s were the best times of my life but so far it's been nothing but stress. (some great moments in there though!)

I'm well aware I'm not a kid anymore and transitioning into the life of a fully grown man, is there anyone who is a bit older and wiser that could give me their introspective on what life/their 20s has been for them?

Much appreciated :)

Big thanks to this forum for helping me out and earning me some side money.
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Happy 25th. Totally get the anxiety, but your 20s are for figuring it out. Explore, build good habits, and focus on those great moments. Keep hustling. Life's not linear, enjoy the ride.
 
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