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I still live with my parents :(

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by firstnamelastname, Feb 11, 2016.

  1. firstnamelastname

    firstnamelastname Junior Member

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    What are you supposed to do when you want to have sex but you still live with your parents? Do you rent a hotel room? Do you go to her place (hopefully she lives alone)?

    Please, I don't want people judging me and saying things like "stop being a loser and rent your own apartment."

    Is not having your own place a big deal to girls? Can you keep giving them the run-around why they cant come to your place or are they eventually going to say "why the FUCK cant you just show me your place?"

    What are some good excuses why you can't take her to your house? how long can you keep giving her the run-around? I would imagine a couple of months is enough because at that point both of you are bored and want to move on to other people?

    I don't have much experience sexually but recently I have been approaching a lot of girls and making mistakes and becoming a better person. But I always have this in my mind: even if I get her number, even if we go on a date and we have a lot in common, even if she loves me, where the hell are we going to have sex?

    I have so many questions in my mind, I can't remember or write them all. Just put yourself in my shoes. If you were in this situation, how would you make the most out of it?

    PS I also don't have a car, but I guess I can rent one for a day and pretend it's mine. is a car required?
     
  2. hekke

    hekke Senior Member

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    It is sort of like you want to build up a persona of someone you aren't. This won't last long. Depends on what type of relationship you seek. It is not like you would be able to rent that car for every time you hang out or whatever. Be yourself, tell her your situation (that you are living with your parents. I assume you are like 18-23 and if that's the case, having your own place isn't that common) and just be yourself.
     
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  3. MartysW0RLD

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    why can't you just do it at your parents house? ;)
    if not just get a car, that's always fun.
     
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    Dude, I live with my parents to and I use to have lot of girls in my room. Why I live with my parents is to save enough money to buy my own place as I hate renting It never feels like its yours.

    I don't have a car, becouse I don't need one and I still can bring a hot girl to my place with no problem. The problem is with you becouse you care to much what they will think of you, most of them probably won't care if they just want to fuck with you.

    In the end your actions will dictate what they will think of you, if you act like a looser an hide that well they will think that of you....if you act like you just don't give a fuck then they will also not give a fuck.
     
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  5. Ste Fishkin

    Ste Fishkin BANNED BANNED Jr. VIP

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    The fact you don't know if she lives alone or not says two things.

    1. You are talking shit
    2. You do know a girl, but you're way ahead of yourself and unless shes a slut she's probably not going to bang you yet.

    Just be yourself, get to know her and if she lives alone... perfect.

    If she's at home too she will understand the situation just as well. If you need to plan a city break or gag her while your parents are in, do it.
     
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  7. Jared255

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    Stop focusing on girls when you aren't even moved out yet, start dedicating every hour of every day to making some money and moving out. If you are at an age where you should be moved out, and you're not, you hitting on girls is pointless. You living at home brings you down like 3-4 points right off the bat. Randomly approaching girls is great for confidence but won't make you a better person in the eyes of a girl you want.

    The solution to your problem is moving the f*ck out, exactly what you didn't want to hear.
     
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  8. Aizen uchiha

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    Well out of respect for your folks, renting would seem a dandy idea.
     
  9. aBoss

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    fucking shit man. This is why I dont fap. Shit like this would take over my life.


    Money on my mind you should think the same
     
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    If you are 30+ living with your parents, yes it is a problem. If you are a teen fuck her on the floor for less noise or drag her over the local park.
     
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  11. DavisRand

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    It doesn't matter man if you are 20 something, invite her to your place. And if you are a bit older, say you don't want to leave your parents cause they are old and you worry for them ;)
     
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    The question is: is there any girl in the first place or are you just preparing in case you end up with some girl?
     
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    Keep dreaming about getting her down under in your house, or keep working and make it actually happen soon. One of those 2 options is really easier than the other.

    I guess that seeing you scr3w her in your own bed and your own house will make your parents the happiest among you all. lol :D
     
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    this guy. Now you know what to say.
     
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    An excuse I have used is that my friend is just going to hang out at the house for a little because she "got locked out of her house" and wouldn't be able to get back in till her dad gets home. lol Hotels are overrated and you can have nice car sex. As a last result use a hotel but always make sure to wear protection, lol If you cannot afford to live on your own, you cannot afford a kid :p
     
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    i left when i was 18, ive been living alone since, but dude my best friend(25) still lives with his parents and he has no problem bringing girls in his house. It's a great way as well if you want to get rid of some one night stand etc without being an asshole tell them "you know babe my parents are cool blah blah but you should go before they bust our balls". All you need is confidence man
     
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    I live with my mom at the moment and still bang women of all types almost weekly, shit I even asked my mom for a condom one night.

    Don't worry about living with parents as I still know many of people who do, just be yourself man.
     
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    I think that BlackHatWorld isn't the right place for your questions. Maybe you have to register into a website about "teen problems". They will have the right answers
     
  19. jgeeked

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    Off Topic but it still amazes me about how the west view under 30's living with their parents as a serious negative.

    I was always told by my parents even from an earlier age that I could stay at home for as long as I wanted, no pressure. I simply cannot understand the "out of the house by 21" mindset a lot of people have.

    Another thing that puzzles me about is that I remember a few years ago, I was having a conversation with the bank manager who randomly bought up that the average male in the UK won't leave home until age 29. Keeping in mind that average, most people, especially when it comes to dating, have very negative outlooks on being <30 and still living at home.

    As I do a fair amount of travelling, it seems it's much worse in the US - however it seems to be a western issue. I spend a lot of time in the UAE where it's perfectly normal for entire families to live at home until the children get married (quite common for a lot of other cultures as well).

    Going back to your original point OP, it shouldn't really be too much of an issue (maybe more so if you come from a religious family). Simply let your family know that you will be having guests round and ask them if it would be ok to do so.

    Even if it was an issue (which I don't really see), the easiest option is to 'treat' your parents to an evening out. They have some alone time away from you (on your buck) and you get the house to yourself for a few hours.

    Don't let the opinions of others stop you from doing what you want to do - don't make a big deal out of it and no one else will.
     
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  20. HoneyHelper

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    Get a job dude!