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I need your response. Still can't get her off my life, after a month :(

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  1. Gogol

    Gogol Elite Member

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    ---- THREAD CLOSED 12/04/2013 ----
    Well sorry, this might not be a money making method after-all. I am miserably failing to keep up with myself after having the breakup (posted another thread on this. Don't want to bring it alive now lol). I tried a lot, but I am starting to fail miserably. Now a days, I earn more money than ever, but I can not feel them. I don't think it is normal. :(
    I got a lot of interesting views last time, but I think I need more now:(

    Please, if you think I deserve some slang, carry on. How did you go about your break-up, after a month of the indecent?
     
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  2. Duffers5000

    Duffers5000 Elite Member

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    Just give it a bit of time man. Take a few changes of scenery, go to different places. Avoid places or situations where you will bump into your ex or be reminded of her.
     
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  3. mazgalici

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    just have sex with other girls
     
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    Make new friends, find a new hobby, go on a backpacking adventure may be? Lots of positive energies on your way xx
     
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  5. Goal Line Technology

    Goal Line Technology Senior Member

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    Time WILL Heal
     
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    Asif WILSON Khan Executive VIP Premium Member

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    It can take a long time.
    Try to socialise with friends and try new activities where you will meet new people.
    Enjoy being single, do the things that you couldn't or wouldn't do with your ex.
    If all else fails then just stalk her.
     
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    It's the perfect opportunity to spend some time with yourself.
    It's amazing how many things you will discover that you love.

    Try bunjee jumping, cycling, playing video games, anything that makes you feel good.

    Get a dog and learn how to raise it correctly.
     
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    Post her picture and we'll be the judge of how miserable you should be!

    Just joking mate - I know how hard what you're going through can be.

    In my experience, the more time you spend hiding away and dwelling on it the longer it takes and the worse it feels.

    You've got to spend time with friends and make sure you have an active social life - even though you don't feel like it.

    Trying new things also helps - the novelty of doing something completely new seems to keep your brain away from the sadness.
     
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  9. Gogol

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    Guys what I have found out is that time doesn't heal atall. It just makes the feelings stronger... I am afraid... For those who are single, please do not go into a relationship or you might end up being in my situation :(
     
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  10. pavan

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    its been around 4 months still you haven't forgotten her
    internet marketing is very lonely
    that's the only reason you haven't forgotten her
    go out for a weekend mini vacation and have fun to get over your loneliness
    I have been through same situation it took me over one year to get over with it
     
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    Its going to take time, but keeping busy will help keep your mind off it. Try lifting weights, and/or running. Also, just interacting with other people can help a lot. Check out http://meetup.com and maybe find something your interested in that you can do with a bunch of other people. Good luck man!
     
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  12. makinsales

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    Surround yourself with close friends and family.
    Treat yourself and do some things that you enjoy.
    Maybe Buy some new clothes, new shoes.
    Try to keep yourself busy.

    I Know what its like man, I been there. Just keep your head up shit will get better.
     
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  13. Gogol

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    LOL mate she wasn't the best looking girl, but i do not know why she is(was) still more important than the queen of (insert your place here).. It is like that u knw ...
     
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    Just go out at nights, and spend some time with your buddies. Meet new people, new girls and you'll get over her in no time.
     
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    4 months? :p sorry i thot 1 month lol... i might be wrong... I have stopped counting time after that..
     
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    Unfortunately there is no magic solution here, you just have to get used with this and try to focus on your activities, listen to good music (Not the songs you were listening to when you were with her :D ), go out with your friends and spend your time with people that encourange you and make you fell better. Everything happens for a reason so in a few months/years you will come to the conclusion that the break up was one of the best things that happened to you.
    Trust me, been there, done that :)
     
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    Its hard to say man.We only can give you some advice but its all depends on you... Time is the only medicine for the pain...just focus on Internet marketing,show your love on it and make more money than u r earning right now..atleast you can forget her for a minute or an hour..atleast i said..:)
     
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    just get a new piece of ass. that will fix you right up
     
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    I really wish that you are right man :)
     
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    3 months 12 days to be precise
    or it might be your ex ex
    You might be talking about your new ex gf :p

    the best way to get over a girl is to get another girl
     
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