Ok guys, here is the deal. I have a site that caters to women aged 25-50 in a certain niche. The problem is my spam complaint rate is 0.07% which to me seems low but they said I have to be under 0.01%. I have now been kicked from aweber and getresponse and I am sick of it. I found out my two biggest competitors were also kicked and have moved to better solutions. I need to know what those solutions are. What are the safest hosts to use for sending autoresponders and followup emails if I use my own software. I have the ability to grow fast but this is screwing me up. Thanks in advance guys.