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I might have a baby on the way! 0$ - ???$

Discussion in 'Making Money' started by JMehlbrech, Nov 14, 2011.

  1. JMehlbrech

    JMehlbrech Newbie

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    Hi everyone, This is my first post here on Blackhatworld! Eventhough I have been around looking through the various ways to make money for a while.
    I was very intrigued at the different ways to make money online and always wanted to start but never really had motivation to make the money since I am only 15.But now I am in great need of a way to start an income because I think I might have just gotten my girlfriend pregnant and I have no money whatsoever to support bringing a baby into this world, but I'm not going to just leave her or do anything like that because I really love her! So now I have to start being a man and taking responsibility for my actions, and I know some of you might be thinking how stupid I am for getting her pregnant when
    I'm only 15, but the reality is is that **** happens and theres just things you can't do to stop them from happening sometimes. And as of right now I need to really start looking into ways to start making money online to start funding the future of a baby. I would try to get a normal job too, but I'm not even of age for most people to even take a second glance at me to hire. I have been looking through the threads looking at various ways to start making money but so far I keep getting stuck on my startup and can never seem to get things running. So now I'm asking the people of Blackhatworld if anyone could give me anyways to start making money and to actually coach me through what I'm doing right and wrong. I have no start up money which only adds to my problem too. I already know how stupid I was for getting my girlfriend pregnant so I don't need to hear about it even more. I really really really need help and it took a lot for me to even type out this dillema im going through. I'll even start writing out my progress day by day like a journal if I can find a good way to make money. Any Help is greatly greatly appreciated! Thanks!
     
  2. SEOWhizz

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    Online, as your English is pretty good, try offering an article writing service. That should get you started, while you learn other methods of making an income.

    Offline, try offering services to neighbours, like gardening, car cleaning, DIY or any odd-jobs they need doing. I've done all these jobs when I started, because I was hungry. I even did some jobs for free, just to get my foot in the door.

    Best of luck with the :baby:
     
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    Listen man, this probably isn't what you want to hear, but if you're 15 years old and have a child on the way you need to get a J O B and forget about internet monies until you stabilize yourself financially for the sake of the baby.

    You say you have no start up money - that probably means you have no diaper or formula money either. Now is not the time to be rolling the dice on internet riches. Get your sh*t together first, then come back to IM when you're established. Just my $.02
     
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  4. lmaestro

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    Sell baby=$$$
     
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    I agree with 7878 U got to get a job. As a 15 year old you can get a job might be busting tables in restaurants. But you can work 25 hours a week doing this. I know its possible as i did it.
    Get a job Work your way up.
    Face the facts. baby cost money, Baby needs House Food Diapers Food and then there's the girl said to say might just Stay at home so 1 income family.
    I'm not trying to be mean but i Had the same thing. Its taken me 12 years on the internet with full time job to get to where i am. not rich no but family is provided

    idea to make money

    Rake yards as its fall Clean up yards
    mow yards
     
  6. Autumn

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    You're 15? Get a fucking abortion. You are way too young to be anything like a decent parent for a child.

    Failing that, get a job.
     
  7. JMehlbrech

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    I understand you completely! And I know I have to get a job, but the reality is that I'm still in High School and most places if not all places around here won't hire anyone who isn't at the age of 16+. While IM ( if I can learn how to do it properly ) can be used for all ages i'm pretty sure. Thats why I took a turn to this site, because you guys seem like you can help me in a more general direction on what I can do to help make money. Plus, I am very good learner so I thought this would be one of the best methods since I can't currently get a job, and since I have my school I can be doing this in my spare time. But again, I completely agree with you, I do need a job, and as soon as I turn 16 thats what I'm going to do. Thank you for the advice.
     
  8. newmoney

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    Seems like you feel strongly about this one Autumn.
    You've sure said some true things, though i would hesitate on the
    abortion part (even though its the very logical choice)

    That said, OP, at 15 you had no business fucking around like that.
    Just what did you think would happen after sex? (un-protected?)
    As the others have said, right now, IM is not for you.

    Goodluck.
     
  9. Autumn

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    Yep well obviously abortion is a loaded issue for some people and adoption could be another alternative.

    But the bottom line is that when 15 year olds have babies, they are invariably shitty parents because they are still babies themselves - they just don't have the maturity or life experience to be effective parents and raise non-dysfunctional children. Teenage parents are also an enormous drain on relatives and social services.

    The other factor is that the OP and his partners are basically giving their lives away before they have even had a chance to experience life as adults. All those dreams and all those opportunities are completely gone - the reality of having a child is that your life becomes 100% about that child.
     
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  10. aStroke

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    Shit you're 15? What are kids doing nowadays? Don't they teach anything in Sex-ed?

    Think with your head, not your dick. Your actions are pretty irresponsible, but hey, I'm sure you'll be hearing from your own parents so I don't want to give a lecture, but I have to say this: You have no business in raising a kid if you can't even financially support yourself. Either consider abortion or you may want to think about giving up the kid for adoption.

    Hope things work out.


    Couldn't have said it better myself.
     
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  11. sfidirectory

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    The worst thing about your situation is that the pregnancy appears to be unplanned, you are only 15 (too young!!!) and you have no qualifications whatsoever to get you a decent occupation that will sustain a family. What the hell were you thinking having unprotected sex at 15?! You don't need to have sex with your gf to make her feel loved. You have got yourself in a huge mess, forget about trying to figure out how to make money in I.M, you have far more important issues to deal with here. Abortion is something I won't discuss, but an option is to adopt the baby out to close family or relatives (that way you and your gf have regular access to the child) and for you and your gf to stay in school, get good grades and go onto university/technical college and get good jobs. I have a huge feeling that you and your gf won't be able to sustain a family for very long so that was the kindest option I could think of for you.

    I have a 2yo son and I am a fulltime student/part time worker and my partner works part time as well and while things are tight we still manage well. We planned our kid and while looking after a kid is very challenging, you have to be mentally strong enough to be able to do so. I am nearly 28 with alot of work experience behind me (most of it is before I decided to switch to web development/I.T 4 years ago) and I have 2 years to go until I have my degree in I.T (I.T people are in high demand these days) and will eventually get a well paid job that I am passionate about which will support my partner and family. As I said int he last paragraph, adopting your child out to close family/relatives seems like the best option for you... that way you and your gf can complete high school and get at least bachelor degrees and good jobs. The less qualified you are the harder it is to get employment and the government will have more control over you as you would mostly be depending on welfare or income topups or tax credits etc. Lucky where I come from our welfare system isn't as crap as what Americans have and even if I didn't have a child I'm ensuring that I don't become dependent on welfare or student living costs for the long term.

    Remember education is the key to achieving a good life and the choices you make now will determine your child's life for the rest of their lives. I can't force you into adopting your child out or anything, as a father myself I am just offering you advice as to the most "friendliest" option you could take. Am hoping you have a supportive family as it will be very hard otherwise. You need to go to councillors, family planning councillors, child protection services and get them to help you and your gf make a decision(or two or three). If you leave this too long you may well end up in a mess that can irreversibly muck up the rest of your life, and at your age you have got a whole lot of living to do and you need to make some decisions (whether they be hard or easy depends on you and your gf) very quickly.

    So forget about IM and concentrate on what really matters for now. Take my advice and/or seek help from professionals and you and your gf might just make it with your child :).
     
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    That's what I'm saying !

    IM isn't a life line. You need lots of time and some good cash to start (although I start with $0 and didn't spend a dime, I still had a crap load of time), once you got almost nothing big going on, nothing to distract you or add more stress, then start.
     
  13. mattcash

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    Look at multiple ways to build income. Get a normal job, bus tables, whatever. Use 40% for savings, 40% to start building up an emergency fund, and 20% as discretionary. Then do IM stuff on the side to start adding passive income. All passive income income you receive, funnel into an account where it is safe, or reinvest it. Do NOT touch that money. Touching money is something poor people do to stay poor. Just because you have a shiny new dollar doesn't mean you need to go spend it.

    Also, sell as much stuff as you can part with. Go through everything you own. Think about the last time it was used - if it was over 6 months ago, get rid of it. Use that to start your rainy day fund.
     
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    First make SURE she is actually pregnant. Basicly it's not that easy to get a girl pregnant. I know shit happens, but just make sure before you go panic. Start doing any kind of services online and offline until you hit 16. Also mention where are you from.
     
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    Stay in school. Does your school have a work program where you can do school half a day and work half a day? Most High Schools offer this to students. At some point, talk with the school counselor...if your GF is really expecting.

    Definitely, learn to earn money online. Read all of the beginner's guides and especially, Luka's threads. He is young too.

    Keep us posted on how things are going...but keep on going with your education no matter what.
     
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    I don't want to lecture you about mistakes, blah, blah, blah. What's done is done.

    If I were you I would find some kind of stable income offline first. It doesn't matter if it's only $8/hr, something is always better than nothing. When I was 15 I was able to get a job but I needed to get a workers permit. I don't know what the laws are in your state about working at 15, but that's how it worked here in Cali when I was 15.

    Once you get a job offline then you can focus on IM stuff. Make sure you stay in school though. You need to at least have a HS diploma if you ever want to be able to support your family as you get older.

    Good luck with everything and don't focus on what's already happened, just focus on the future.
     
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    Gotta agree you gotta have some common sense on your part,the reality of 15yr olds pregnant is all too real and sometimes even younger,i live in a good area and there's more and more freshman pregnant every year, 17 myself.

    If you've got an email or IM(i.e. skype,msn,etc..) (Most likely you do) let's chat for a bit..
     
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    i didn't even wanted to read this thread, just saw you are 15year old and u are having a baby on your way ? WHAT THE FUCK ? Do you use a brain to think or just to fuck ? Am 21year old and am dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years. And hell no i do not need a damn baby yet! Wtf is wrong wit you people Jezzzzz....
     
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    He simply asked for ideas for making money online - Nothing more.

    It is bit late for the sermons, although I quietly whisper that I do believe in "Right to Choose" and would head to the nearest clinic...but that's just me.
     
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    Really?