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I keep getting F*CKED

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by asyk, Jan 22, 2009.

  1. asyk

    asyk BANNED BANNED

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    So my new year is not off to a good start, My JV partner bailed out on me and decided to go someplace else no idea where and I was with waverevenue where I made $60 uploading endless youtube videos and spamming places and they decided to convientely close down my account and not pay me:mad: now nothing I do works...im not really looking for sympathy because i know big blackhatters don't cry:) But what I do want to ask is, how can you make a comeback so to speak I know we've all been there...share your experiences
     
  2. dellzip

    dellzip Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    keep going trust me I had lost a few hundred in the beginning its part of the game just keep trucking trust me it all pays out in the end!! :)
     
  3. l3east

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    Man just fo forward for get about him
     
  4. unknownn

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    1.take a freehost
    2.create an affiliate account
    3.create an landingpage
    4.drive traffic to this site with marco
    It's all for free and makes you for sure more then 60 bucks and as a good blackhatguy split your income always into 4 diffrent sponsors so if one of them get closed you wont start from zero
     
  5. s0phia

    s0phia Regular Member

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    'i keep getting fucked' sounds pretty damn nice to me lol, are they hot?
     
  6. Matt Cutts

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    Fortune cookie says, "You will find great fortune in your next endeavor."
     
  7. leonidt

    leonidt Regular Member

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    Here's my take.

    In a regular 9-5 job, if you don't enjoy what you do, you will only work hard enough not to get fired. (Yes, Office Space quote) In a self-employment business, like Internet Marketing, there is no "get fired" bottom-line. Consequently, if you do not enjoy doing IM, your performance will continue dropping indefinitely. If you used to have success, but now feel like you're stuck in a rut, nothing you do works, you "keep getting fucked", ect, you should consider taking some time off to center yourself. Just forget about IM for a while. Spend some time doing something you enjoy, a hobby, spending time with people you care about, or just doing absolutely fuck-all. Relax, get away from anything that causes you to get stressed out or depressed. Don't set any sort of time-limit or deadline. When you are ready to get back to business, you will know it, and you will hit it with a clear mind, positive emotions, and fresh ideas. Of course, this is only what I do. Your experience may vary. Side effects may occur. Consult your physician and attorney before application.
     
  8. asyk

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    Well I lossed a whole brick before in the hood of a car...freak accident 30k gone...had to pay my connect the whole 30k at once, even though he didn't ask for it..I still paid it. Moral of the story is this...if I can make it back from that, anyone can make it back from anywhere.
     
  10. havokb8

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    i had to give back a 20k wire today :(
     
  11. The Joker

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    remember you are not alone with this situation.

    I can say probably a majority of IM people on this forum who started out blew a whole lot of money, Use this to your advantage. Take note of your mistakes. Turn the mistakes into strengths. I blew 2k starting out in IM, but you need to persist in this game, it doesn't just all happen to begin with. Also, don't try and re-invent the wheel, take a proven method and push it that little bit further.

    If you persist you will succeed

    edit: also the reason why people fail at IM is because they GIVE UP. not because they run out of money
     
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  12. GreenGoblin

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    i second that motion...good advice
     
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    Really! ....damn dude i know that blows:eek:
     
  14. MiLiTARYiV

    MiLiTARYiV Senior Member

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    Mayne keep your head up. Things arent going so good for me either. Shits seems like its going backwords, even thou I am making lots of money but thats not the key to everything..

    Im recently is rethinking who I keep around me such as friends family etc, the wrong person around you can have a negative impact on you and bring you down instead of forward..

    I have lots of friends in my homestate but whgere i am at now people are shady and just try to use me for money , car whatever.. Funny thing the girls is more real then the males here..lol

    But yea I'm going to rebound.. I mean I have lots of money but I just have other problems going on now..
     
  15. AffGuy08

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    Ups and downs are always there in everyone's life. This is one of the "downs" in your life. Keep moving, don't forget about it but learn something from it and encourage yourself to get out of this problem and do better.
     
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    Getting fucked is a nice experience isn't it ?
    Now you have been fked so badly why not fuck others too ..
     
  17. tymillz

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    I know that had to hurt. Nobody likes loosing work. especially not 36.
     
  18. eshaman

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    All you can do is take it in your stride and never give up. You're in good company here at BHW, as The Joker said, many people here started out on the back foot but there is a great community of people here to help you push through the tough times. At least it was only a small amount online. My year got off to a bad start too with a real life client closing up leaving me nearly $8k out of pocket, now I have to deal with liquidators and all sorts of shit and will still get nothing out of it.

    Onward and upward!!!
     
  19. asyk

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    OKAY then! ;) I have decided to renew my spirits and get back in this game and come out on top. Thanks for the kind words and advice! I have just put a new JV proposal up, and am putting some old domains to work!

    Thanks everyone.
     
  20. Axelian

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    I get fked over. Sometimes I fuk myself over and never notice it.

    Just move on. Things will get better.

    Ohhhh yeaa, it gets sooo much better