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i just left my heart on the table and got it stompped all over...................

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by angelas111, Oct 8, 2010.

  1. angelas111

    angelas111 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    i fell i could just die right now....

    i have never felt this bad in my entire life..................and i have been through some shit...........

    my tears will hardly let me type right now..........
     
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  2. CyrusVirus

    CyrusVirus BANNED BANNED Premium Member

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    whats up angelas111, what happened
     
  3. bobbys

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    Sorry to hear brother. Unfortunately in times like that anything anyone says to you is usually just empty words.

    The only remedy is time..
     
  4. rabbitgirl

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    has he/she left you?
     
  5. angelas111

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    i can hardly type right now......i will say more later. thanks for your kind words of support
     
  6. BassTrackerBoats

    BassTrackerBoats Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    Sorry for your situation... if there is anything I or my wife can do, you know how to get a hold of me.
     
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    if this is about an dick, all i can say is to keep your head up. theres always someone out there that will treat you the way you want to be treated. let go, leave it in the past and keep on keepin on.
     
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    Angela is a chick.
     
  9. josh3101367

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    we really want to know what happened..but no matter what..try to be as strong as possible
     
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  10. Sdshane

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    I'll say this for what it's worth; it's not the things that happen to us that hurts, it's what we think it means about us that hurts us.

    Let me and the rest of us know if there is more we can do for you.
    Posted via Mobile Device
     
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  11. Sdshane

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    Also angeles, I'm a hypnotist/therapist. I do a lot of helping people release or overcome emotional issues. I would gladly do a free phone session. Just let me know.
    Posted via Mobile Device
     
  12. CyrusVirus

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    Well now, you should just be the therapist for bhw. great guy! don't know your wife but im sure she is just as cool as you are.

    angela, some things aren't meant to be and some people are only in it for 1 thing, whether it be sex or money or something else. just keep your head up and eyes wide open
    things will heal over time as long as you keep your distance from whats making it worse.. in this case, the one that left you.
    or did whatever they did.

    im sorry to hear and i hope everything goes well for you. if you need anything
    don't hesitate to ask me. or call.

    and thanks goes to basstrackerboats, your the best .
     
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  13. GooglesMostWanted

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    lol wtf is this man

    man up

    this exact attitude is why the hell this happened in the first place

    MAN UP.... or women up


    Here's a tip to you BHW playas

    Put it this way... anytime i see a chick that acts up or i'm hanging out with a chick that is acting too good... i just imagine them naked... or bald.

    they might be acting like they are gods gift, but when you do this it completely changes your attitude toward the girl.

    imagine that fine girl, nice features, nice smile..... bald head. if that doesn't boost your confidence... nothing will...


    if it's a guy your trippin about ... do the same thing

    but this time imagine them with long hair... looking girlish with long nails.

    ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND
     
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    i felt the same way last year when my husband of 7 years left me.
    dont let it stop your money making because i just totally quit IM for 8 months and now i regret it and have to start over.
     
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    I can see what you mean in the post, but from what i'm gathering the upset has been caused by her partner leaving.

    So I doubt imaging him naked/bald is really going to help that much.
     
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    If you are young it too shall pass

    If you are old ... you are screwed ... not that easy anymore

    Smile anyway
     
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    We will always be here to cheer you up.

    If you need anything, even money, let us know!

    =D
     
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    No matter who you are how, how poor or rich, handsome or ugly, young or old, we have all been through it. One thing I do know time makes all the difference in the world and you're now one partner closer to the right one.

    For now just remember your pain is yours and yours alone, is just another way of knowing you're alive. There is no joy without pain.
     
  19. orangeblossoms

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    *hugs* Let it out. Crying is the best thing to do..
     
  20. edvoltage1

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    did he cheat?