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I havent had a social circle for years, where could i find chill people to hang out with?

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  1. Rentriutoigjtuowl

    Rentriutoigjtuowl BANNED BANNED

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    Since im working from home i got tired of lazy people with different values and systematically cut them off till i had no social circle at all and my only social interaction is standing alone in clubs and getting blown out by women left and right. So pretty much my only social interaction is 100% negative now; the odd lay here and there when i finally luck on some drunk chick ready to fuck.

    I hate those people that go to clubs empty soulless cunts.

    So where should i start? what are the most chilled out types to hang out with and where would i begin building a social circle since i have no more threads like most people would meet people through work.

    I also want them to be non judgemental or keep them at enough of a distance so im not committed, like i could dip in and out whenever i want.
     
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    FutureProofSeo Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member UnGagged Attendee

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    I would advise you to go for long walks on your own, and work out what you want to get from life.

    Then start becoming a more interesting person by the things you do, the passions you persue, and the beliefs you hold.

    Become more fun, more educated, and more interesting.

    Only then can you start attracting the right people to your life.
     
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    RakeItIn Regular Member

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    Start trying to date someone who has the same views as you and you will naturally meet more friends.
     
  4. hendort

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    I'd go to a place with more interesting people. Board games, pick up sports, etc... do something your genuinely interested in and you'll definitely meet some like minded people.
     
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    Do a teamsport, go to school/study. Only easy options really. But good friends people you meet by the choices you make.
     
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    Start hanging out with stoners,smoke some chronic.Stoners are awesome people and they accept almost anybody as long as you smoke.A friend with weed is a friend indeed.
     
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    Meetup Plenty of people with different interests.
     
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    haha thats certainly the case here in portugal.. Can go to reggae bars where there's literally just a bunch of random people smoking and chilling.. :)
     
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    There is so much wrong with your post, but I don't have the strength for this one.
     
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  10. lord1027

    lord1027 Elite Member

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    Sign up for some courses, something like dancing, sports, etc. You will meet new people and you'll socialise there.
     
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    If you're asking how to make friends on a (blackhat) forum then you are far from home....
     
  12. Rentriutoigjtuowl

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    i find that classes (dance muaythai etc) arent very good for making conections because you spend an hour not talking do the activity then there is only like 2-5 mins when everyone is leaving to talk. not very conducive to socialising.
     
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    If you have an iPhone or Android and live in a relatively populated city you can play Ingress.

    Its basically a team capture the flag type game that involves actual interaction with your surrounding environment and anyone that intercepts your moves.

    It's free and funded by Google INC. It uses google maps and is extremely fun.

    There will be many people you can meetup with if you stick with it.

    Give it a try!

    Making friends can be fun once you get the hang of it.

    As always, take things slow and let it naturally build up and you will be back to where you were or in an even better place.

    Good luck.
     
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    Be interesting, be funny, be nice. If you're interested in cooking classes, join one, make friends there who are interested in that too.

    If you're interested in video gaming, go to gaming zones, play like a boss, make nerdy friends, hang out with them and do whatever nerds do.

    If you're interested in working out, join a gym, make friends there, work out with them. Hang out with them at the club.

    The key is to find people who have the same interests as you. But for that you will have to get your sorry ass outside and not sit in front of your computer all day. If you're ready to do that then making friends is not difficult at all.
     
  15. BananaTree23

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    Try a church group if your christian....synagogue if your jewish...or what ever you may be...you get the point...if atheist give them a try anyways lol
     
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    Try Alaska, I heard there are lots of chill people there (about -3° Celsius chill).
     
  17. Spawnie

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    You give little personal information, for example where you live (country, city/province) your age, family relations etc.

    Get a GF for a while, most probably she'll have a friendscircle already. Make her pregnant, she will probably get even more 'connections' to other preggos. Also if you got kids you don't hunger for social interaction as much anymore...
     
  18. migleezy

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    If you like some sport , join some team or so . And be sure to always talk to people and don't be shy.
     
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