I have a girlfriend but is a long distance relationship

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Sombrero

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hello, it happened 9 months ago when I hang out with this girl and felt in love. I'm seeing her every 3 weeks because we are 6 hours away in car. She has a 7 years old daughter never been married. We have fun and love each other but is quite expensive to visit her and sometimes I'd rather spend that money on my debt instead of traveling. IDK, I'm happy and I told her and I will move to her city in 12 months. She love me, I like her no doubt. I just want to express my feelings. Thank you
 
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I do not personally trust long distance relationships and i really think that instead of moving right away you should try and go stay with her for like a month or two to see how it goes, then you make a decision, but again, that is what i would do in that situation. And i love tacos, just so you know.
 
long distance relations be like:
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it's a milf tho, you'll have to assume responsibilities
 
m0reira said:
I do not personally trust long distance relationships and i really think that instead of moving right away you should try and go stay with her for like a month or two to see how it goes, then you make a decision, but again, that is what i would do in that situation. And i love tacos, just so you know.
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This is really good advice right here. Plus if you two could work this out you'd get to play house for a bit and see her more for that month or two.
 
Long distance relationship
Has 7 yrs old child without marriage
Expensive visits while on debt

I see some serious...

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No offence but have you self-evaluated yourself? If yes, do you think you're co-dependant?

There are so many fishes in the sea. What made you fall for this women?

Do you think you're the only person who can clearly understand her feelings?

Does she have self-harming behaviour or unstable self-image?
 
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It will be pain if you have future with her. Here is no doubts
 
I would rather be a single than being in such relationships.
 
m0reira said:
I do not personally trust long distance relationships and i really think that instead of moving right away you should try and go stay with her for like a month or two to see how it goes, then you make a decision, but again, that is what i would do in that situation. And i love tacos, just so you know.
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I do. I trust her. Cuz she has a daughter, can't be with a another man.

m0reira said:
I do not personally trust long distance relationships and i really think that instead of moving right away you should try and go stay with her for like a month or two to see how it goes, then you make a decision, but again, that is what i would do in that situation. And i love tacos, just so you know.
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I do. I trust her. Cuz she has a daughter, can't be with another man.

SpoonFeeder said:
Long distance relationship
Has 7 yrs old child without marriage
Expensive visits while on debt

I see some serious...

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No offence but have you self-evaluated yourself? If yes, do you think you're co-dependant?

There are so many fishes in the sea. What made you fall for this women?

Do you think you're the only person who can clearly understand her feelings?

Does she have self-harming behaviour or unstable self-image?
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Cuz when isn't a social media fanatic like all the girls, she has an stable job, we travel and we share 50/50,she is mature
 
Sombrero said:
hello, it happened 9 months ago when I hang out with this girl and felt in love. I'm seeing her every 3 weeks because we are 6 hours away in car. She has a 7 years old daughter never been married. We have fun and love each other but is quite expensive to visit her and sometimes I'd rather spend that money on my debt instead of traveling. IDK, I'm happy and I told her and I will move to her city in 12 months. She love me, I like her no doubt. I just want to express my feelings. Thank you
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It's fucken simple man, if you love her and she loves you, go live with her now. You will never have a second chance. Go watch Good Will Hunting and just leave dude. Life is short.
 
Sombrero said:
Cuz when isn't a social media fanatic like all the girls, she has an stable job, we travel and we share 50/50,she is mature
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You know her since 9 months. Was she single for the past 7 years? What happened to that child's father?

It's all sunshine and roses until a doubt/fight arises.

What made you fall in love with her?

Why did you not choose a girlfriend who's not married or at least doesn't have a child or were you already married but looking for another partner?

I see some codependency issues if your answer is "No" to the above question.
 
I'm in love with a woman, really lol, and I know she is also in love with me. Btw the love is not what you would put as a 'sexual' one, there are many different kinds of loving relationships.... just saying.:D


Of course we can't meet often, but now she has moved away, to a far off city, and nowadays, when she comes to her home here, I can feel that she has almost no feeling towards me like it was when she lived here...Haha haha :)
:(

I know the love is still there, and is mutual, but there is a stoniness, a coldness associated with it now, and has taken a backseat really to other needs of living... Someday it might take the top place, but today... And we both are helpless in a way. The hearts have really moved a great distance apart, and I thinks both the hearts are making a habit to live that way.... Whatever.

You've to be physically close together, rather than just emotionally, to really enjoy the entity called love! May sound harsh, but that's a fact imo... You derive your own conclusions!
 
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what ?? ldr
no no no no no no no no no no
cant not fu(k and that is very pain
 
Sombrero said:
I do. I trust her. Cuz she has a daughter, can't be with a another man.


I do. I trust her. Cuz she has a daughter, can't be with another man.
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i feel your pain mate, if you say long enough it might become true

we are all going to make it *bro fist*
 
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