i hate people that are ungrateful pieces of shit

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firstnamelastname

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this guy and his employee who is a girl bought a website and didn't know how to set up wordpress on it and a theme. they sent me a message basically begging me to help them (begging because they knew it's not my job). ok granted, it's not a big deal and you could probably hire someone on upwork to do it for $5

so I did it and sent each of them a message that the job is done. NO RESPONSE from either of them. no "thank you." no "how much do I owe you" no "you're awesome" NOTHING. i hate people that know you when they need you, but dont know you when they dont need you anymore.
 
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firstnamelastname said:
this guy and his employee who is a girl bought a website and didn't know how to set up wordpress on it and a theme. they sent me a message basically begging me to help them (begging because they knew it's not my job). ok granted, it's not a big deal and you could probably hire someone on upwork to do it for $5

so I did it and sent each of them a message that the job is done. NO RESPONSE from either of them. no "thank you." no "how much do I owe you" no "you're awesome" NOTHING. i hate people that know you when they need you, but dont know you when they dont need you anymore.
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Get used to it, this is where the world is going, everybody loves the letter I. They don´t giva a fck about others, just themselfs, the sooner you understand this, the sooner you dont get fck´d.
 
NirvanaWolf said:
They'll still end up needing your help again. The next time they come asking for your help send your paypal address and quote your fee.
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that's not the point. I dont care about the money. I just hate it when people are all friendly to you when they need you but then when they feel like they dont need you anymore then they dont know you
 
I know how you feel.

Used to have a friend who would always be all friendly and message me with :) emojis to ask for help. Not once, not twice, but like 5-6 times. And I helped her all the way.

One day, I was too busy to help so I said I can't. She just read the message and never bother to respond back like "no problem" or "thanks anyway". Instead, she unfollowed and removed me from her social media profiles.

What's funny is... A year or so later, she tried to add me back again but I ignored her. Later I found out that she was actually going around trying to borrow money from others (probably that's why she wants to add me back). Nope!
 
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It reminds me a few years back when I had a regular job, and two people born during the 90's got hired. None of them were able to say thank you or show appreciation.

We trained them in their job, answered questions, took on extra-work and stayed over after hours to assist. After 10 minutes of helping and instructing after work, all they said was "ok... I will do that".

Then a manager from another department came in and showed something to one of the new guys. After being there for 20 minutes helping out, it was finished. And you could see that the manager was waiting for a word of gratitude, but nada. She turned to us with a confused looked, like "did that just happened?"

It happened a couple of others times with people from other departments. Althought they are not our kids, it was quite embarrassing.

After that, me and 4-5 other people in the department had to literally teach those two adult-babies to say thank you after getting help. We had to force it out after helping:"and what do you say now?".... "oh.. thanks", they said.

I never thought I would have to educate an adult on basic manners like this.
 
Not sure why they would beg when they know you dont do this

am I missing something?
 
firstnamelastname said:
that's not the point. I dont care about the money. I just hate it when people are all friendly to you when they need you but then when they feel like they dont need you anymore then they dont know you
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I know exactly how you feel. I have had such friends too. The idea behind asking for money right away is delivering a message that you're done being someone's punching bag. Gotta be blunt with such people.
 
Happens everywhere. In real life and in the internet too. Personally i do not waste my time with these bloodsucking people anymore. They tend to drag you down a lot and don't realize that they are the problem themselves. It's a real hassle to work with them as they take everything for granted and have loads of excuses why something was not finished on time.

They don't know the value of giving and completely lack social skills which makes them a pain in the ass, as a friend and surely as a businesspartner.
 
This is the best possible thing that could happen to you with those people.

Screen if someone is worthy of your time in future for only $5 worth of service. That's a jackpot!
 
firstnamelastname said:
lol no I dont care about the money just hate it when people know you when they need you and then when they dont need you anymore they dont know you
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Manners cost fuck all and it takes a minute to message someone and say; Thanks for all your help, really appreciate it.

The moral of the story is once bitten twice fuck this I'm not working for free for you again you ungrateful wanker.
 
RoiBox said:
Get used to it, this is where the world is going, everybody loves the letter I. They don´t giva a fck about others, just themselfs, the sooner you understand this, the sooner you dont get fck´d.
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I would agree there is basically assholes all around the world if you expect everyone to perfect gentleman or formal lady then life is going to be hard or no fun for you unless you are dealing with only elite or top-end business people .
 
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