I did some embarrassing stuff and sent some dumb messages to an ex. She has a second private Instagram account where she posts text messages with people or just generally ‘funny’ personal stuff with her friends. I’ve seen the account but I don’t follow it. I freaked out and thought she would post our conversation or something about me. I attempted to login to the account ~3 times but guessed the password wrong. It was in moment of anxiety and stupidity. I’m wondering if she got a notification that I tried to login to her account? Is there anyway for her to find out that it was me?