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I FAILED in my final exam and I feel like Killing Myself

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  1. dafaqq

    dafaqq Newbie

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    Results were out and as expected I FAILED in 1 of the subjects and I am kinda FUCKED up as I can't take admission anywhere until I clear them

    This is not the first time I am failing. I failed twice before. I know its shamful to say but I did. Not because I am Dumb or something but because I didn't set my priorities right

    I was so tied up in earning money and IM work that almost neglected my studies. Although I am earning enough from IM (Making around 2.5K a month) and I am around 21 years old.

    I am worried what my parents, and other neighbourhood will think as I am such a HUGE failure in studies...

    I am kinda happy because I have something to back up but now feel almost like killing myself because I KNOW I HAVE THE BRAINS TO clear those exams but just that I suck at time management
    I have sit again for 1 year and clear those then get admission somewhere...I think I am aging as at my age people are getting jobs and they are respected.

    Sorry for this useless threads but I wanted to share my Tears and want to give advice to ALL THOSE IMERS who are studying also. DONT neglect ur studies.Just pass them somehow.

    Thanks
    Brandon
     
  2. bk071

    bk071 Jr. Executive VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Who gives a fuck about your exam results when you're making $2000 a month?

    You're already way ahead of those studying in schools... Scale up and you'll be making 10x more than them by the time they graduate.
     
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    toughtrasher Senior Member

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    Don't worry bro, don't do any thing that'll screw you over. As it was once said, "Failure is always an event, never a person."
    You are not a failure. You have failed this time.
    But you will not fail forever.

    Make this a lesson for upcoming events, so you can manage your time more wisely.

    I have final exams on Friday this week, and all next week and I want to do the best I can on them too.
     
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    illfounded21 Senior Member

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    Some of the best lessons are the ones that hurt the most.

    Use this experience to make you stronger in every aspect of your life.
     
  5. royalreturns

    royalreturns Newbie

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    You are successful already in one sense. So focus and scale up.. Not many can even make 20/month from IM. You are a talent.
     
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    It's none of their damn business. You didn't do too well because your not 100% focused on your studies as your already trying to maintain a career in IM.

    Fuck the haters, and just get on with it. Role with the punches life throws.
     
  7. artlocke

    artlocke Regular Member

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    It's not the end of the world yet man. If you do earn 2.5k$ monthly then why not use 500$ of it for home tutorials?
     
  8. infoasian

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    Hire an escort to get you distracted from failures.
     
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  9. profseo

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    You may be earning 2k/month..But it won't gain you respect and make your parents happy, Finish off your education and get placed in a reputed company, That's the only thing people notice...
     
  10. xxxxmenas

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    You shouldn't worry to much about the uni or school results. they are not so important. Many successful people had bad results in education because they were interested in other things. You can achieve alot in your life without good grades at uni.
     
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    understand one thing. Education is important for becoming a complete man, and not meant for satisfying parents and the society. Secondly education is not just the certificate you get after completing the school. Education is far more than that, we often think that education is just the piece of paper that a school gives, then that is way too wrong. Education is the value addition that we get every day because of learning something new.

    Forget the results, it is over. Look at the future on what you are going to do. Motivate yourself to earn more and to learn more and make yourself a better person.

    All the best.
     
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    weblues Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Warning: NEVER QUIT

    You are not a failure, build your strength and work harder.
     
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    You could not be more wrong, what terrible advice to give. You really don't know a single thing about entrepreneurialism.
     
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    haha this remind days when I go to college then go for tuition and then do some IM. Al through I am 21 now but I decided to say bye to my studies when I start earning 10K-12K in IM and I told to my family that look I am now earning 10K and think I pass out my exam and got degree of B.COM or master degree even then I can't get job that pays me 10K per month or even 5K.

    And thanks to GOD they agree and I left my studies at age 20 and when I turn to 21 I almost have 100K for my future. The problem in my country is that I can't invest in any offline business b/c street crime is at peak level that why I put all my 100K to long term saving and when I become 31 my 100K will be triple.
    Al through now a days, I am not earning at that level b/c of google updates but I have confident that soon in a month or two I will again start earning 10K or 15K.

    Advice: My advice is for you is "It is much better to ask yourself then everyone because ask yourself what you like a 9:00-5:00 job or your own ups and down IM. Don't think about people. Take advice from everyone but main things important is do what you like and you will never disappointed"
     
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  15. dafaqq

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    My parents and sister are hammering me for what I have done. I am feeling so sick :(
     
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    You can clear it and ya buddy people of your age might get placed but ask them if they earn as yours or they have that much knowledge as yours, So relax study well this time clear it up and boom your back in the game ! \m/ Cheers.!
     
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    Here's something quite profound about accepting what's going on....

    Who makes these changes?
    I shoot an arrow right. It lands left.
    I ride after a deer and find myself chased by a hog.
    I plot to get what I want and end up in prison.
    I dig pits to trap others and fall in.
    I should be suspicious
    of what I want.


    -Rumi
     
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  18. christianbed

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    Dude...my story...almost flunked out of high school. Took college classes on academic probation...failed them all. Did odd jobs for a couple years. [met Jesus--not trying to preach, but it is true] Went back to college part-time...dean's list, honors curriculum. Worked for well-known investment bank. Got MBA (honors). Got MDiv (honors). Got PhD from well-known UK university. Living all around the world with an awesome wife and a fantastic kiddo. Making $ from job and just broke 4 figures/month in IM (thanks BHW!) The point is...don't sweat it...failure is never final my man, unless you say it is. Just get your head back in the game and give it another shot! ;-) PM me anytime you want to talk, about anything, I'm happy to help/encourage/whatever.
     
  19. audioguy

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    People study so they could work for others and make money.

    As part of that, they might be respected, but for a while. After that, people are going to judge them based on the amount of money they make, the car they drive, if they get any benefit at all, etc.

    You might skip the first, as in getting a degree. But at the end of the day, they can't help but notice how well you're doing. Just wait and see.

    The only thing I agree is... if you feel like you're weak in time management, you're. Fix that up and make more money. If you really feel like going back to school / college, than do it. Nothing can stop you from your goal. But it's not everything.
     
  20. dafaqq

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    I will ofcourse do my degree but I have another year and then it will take me another 3 years to complete the course. I know i will be too big to be in that class..That thing worries me. I am also quite conscious guy.

    The thing which troubles me that I HAVE DISGRACED MY PARENTS. I am not sad for myself. I am sad because I dont want my parents to suffer the talks from cheap people around.

    I REALLY DON"T GIVE A FCUK ABOUT THEM but my parents can't hide themselves right?

    I don't know how should I console them. I hope I keep doing well in IM so I don't feel more disgraced in future as I don't think anyone will give me any kind of job...So no back up at all. Kinda living a risky life now...