This girl likes me and this other person. Me? I am the stable, nice guy, who helps when I can, treats her extremely well and helps her with her kids. I work hard & am not addicted to crazy substances. Him? Alcoholic, turned crack user, lost his 100k a year job, lives with current significant other who supports him. What's wrong with this picture? She wants to be with him because she wants to help him get his life back on track. I am so irked and pissed right now at the stupidity of myself for getting myself wrapped into this situation. How do you suggest stepping back without hurting her kids. I know this isn't a love forum but I just needed to vent.