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I can't pick between two girls that like me

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  1. pewep

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    Sorry, this is kinda weird but I've actually never really been in a position where two women were simultaneously vying for my affection so I'm at a bit of a loss. I mean I went through my gold digger phase but that's not really the same, this is definitely real and I'm confused.

    So I was feeling lonely earlier and I'm taking a yoga class. Anyway there were two cute girls there that I rather fancied so I busted out the tools and cast a love spell - here's where I fucked up. I did it two days in a row with a different girl each time. I was pretty indecisive, I admit and that's my fault. Anyway, so I basically ignored it and went along with my life but over the last couple of days these two women have become borderline obsessed with me, flirting very heavily, etc... Today was pretty funny because although we were in different groups initially, they both gradually moved towards me and were standing next to me and sat down in my group lol - participated with me in every exercise - my what a coincidence lol.

    Here's the thing, I fucked up mates, I can't decide which girl I actually want. Girl A is a redhead, very cute and I like her face - tbh I'm probably a little more sexually attracted to her but I'm definitely a little more "in love" with Girl B because she has such a sweet, caring, innocent personality. They are both awesome and honestly I'd be a lucky man with either - but if I may be honest I kinda want both of them. But I don't want to be a scumbag/dirtbag and play them like that, I certainly would never share my woman with another man. Not sure what to do and who to pick... I really wish I could have both.
     
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    Wornt you supposed to be celibate?
     
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    thresome

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    Tell both of them about your magick and pick the one that doesn't run.

    If both of them run, join a new yoga class and try again.
     
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    I just can't take it man, i need a break.

    Shiiiiiet, that's a good pickup line.

    Hi i'm a wizard, watch me cast a love spell on you.
     
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    Nah i think that's kinda messed up, i don't wanna play them like that.
     
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    Choose the girl with the tightest "Chakra"
     
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    Treat them like shit. Pay attention to the other one when your favorite is around. The more you treat them like shit, the more they will love you.
     
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    I think if you want real advice, you have to go to *****.org/b
     
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    Fuck them both.

    Variety is the spice of life after all.
     
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    I don't like being a dickhead or a player because i've been on the receiving end of it and it majorly sucks lol. But i want both.
     
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    So what's stopping you from having both?

    Polyamory isn't for me, but it might be for you; sit both of them down and discuss the benefits of a polyamorous relationship with them over a cup of tea. If they both consent to it, then you can have both of them.
     
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    Whatever you do, be honest with both of them. Otherwise it'll backfire and you'll lose them both.
     
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    That's a good point but it's a little hard to go from "hey i like your hair" to "I'd like to have both of you" lol. I guess I just have to man up.
     
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    Fuck them both off, they are only after you for your millions.
     
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    just close the magazine and everything will be good.
     
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    who are the 2 unlucky one?
     
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    Find a new location for Yoga classes and "try" to date both. You act like you're guaranteed that you'll be dating both which isn't probably the case. One or both could just be having fun flirting with you but want nothing more. One or both could lose interest and move on and here you could lose both by trying to be the "nice" guy.
    Also it's not like you're sexually involved with them and would be "playing" either. You haven't even spent time with one of them outside of yoga class. Nor are you engaged or married to them. Stop over-thinking it and planning a future with them and have fun in the moment.
     
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    just make sure to not get any of them pregnant since the child would never feel or understand love...

    we don't want a second Voldemort now, do we?
     
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    What will happen when they know that they are unethically bonded by you? BTW, bonding someone in such a way with or without their entire will is still unethical, to say the least... I mean, they didn't get attracted to you of their "own free will", and because you were not attractive to them in any other way but you MADE them to be enslaved to you because of your "darkest form of sorcery"?

    Does that fit in your overall setup? Don't they deserve to be FREE (like you and me and all others) and have their own right to (really be able to) choose the right man in their life? Now you want to take one and leave the other -- so what's the fate of the other one who is "madly in love but can't have it forever"? Thought about her? Hmm... it's nothing but is like the darkest of scams... :(

    Please think... Imo, please take back the spell, and please let them have the right to their free will. If you love someone, then you must build an ideal atmosphere to make her really happy and without encroaching on her (basic human) rights, and of course without any enforced and cruel (for the other persons) BONDAGES! :)

    Of course you could've no other bad intentions but your experimentation can cause irreparable damage in lives of not just those two persons, but in many more connected to them and to you, including the one who has fallen to your spell and now gets inhumanly bonded for her lifetime... at least, and even if this lasts only for a short while. Amend while there is still TIME (if at all there is); because you'd long back vowed not to HURT anyone from your "experiments".....

    That other person can still be yours, but you got to do something ELSE to gain her company for life, and in true mutual love. The third person also should be allowed to be freed from ANY such bondage and at once. IMO, this is nothing but cruelest form of hunting where you are killing a human being's personal life and her freedom for the rest of her life... sad.

    People wish to learn how to get free of all bondage when they walk the path of Yoga... you are hurting the very basics of Yoga by enslaving others (more than one) by casting (unseen and unfelt unethical) spells to enslave their very soul? Put yourself in the shoes of those unfortunate persons who have now "lost their souls" to you, and to the really unlucky one who could now be fearfully destined to be under your "whip" forever, because you yearned ("lusted" is the right word, sorry) for her innocent beauty and youth... your whole OP makes this impression very clearly.

    Anyway, I think the deed is already done and the effect has been decided already... I hope you'll let everyone know about it soon.

    Nothing else to say on this, dude.
     
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