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How you ask a hair stylist her phone #?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Sombrero, Dec 10, 2016.

  1. Sombrero

    Sombrero Senior Member

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    I was getting a hair cut today and I felt a connection with this person. She was older than me very obvious, maybe married, who knows? I forgot to look at her fingers to see if there was a ring (my bad). So, how you ask her out? She might be delivering good "customer support" and I felt very welcomed or maybe she liked me?

    I'm so confused :'(
     
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  2. zigzagzig

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    Same problem OP, the girl working in caffe is just fkin nice to me, always polite, always smiling while we chat... She'z pretty af. Help.
     
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    Hi,

    I would be brave and just phone the salon and ask her out for a coffee or a beer after her shift. If she says no, then nothing is lost.
     
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  4. Sombrero

    Sombrero Senior Member

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    but this is a different outcome! she talking to me like a friend asking personal questions!!
     
  5. Venezuelan21

    Venezuelan21 Regular Member

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    If you don't have nothing to lose and if she is nice with you, say to her that you want have a date with her. If she don't want, go away if she want, ask for the number is easy. The hard is ask for the date.

    Sorry if my English isn't perfect, hope that you can understand me lol.
     
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  6. Zwielicht

    Zwielicht Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    "Hello hairstylist, may I please have your phone number?"
     
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  7. hero76

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    Most places have policies against dating customers brother
     
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    Just ask next time you get a cut and make it real casual.
     
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  9. Venezuelan21

    Venezuelan21 Regular Member

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    The hell, sorry i meant Venezuela.
    In my country I never hear something about that, so I suppose that this policies don't exist here.
     
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    I think it's generally frowned upon for dogs to ask their groomers out. But, I dunno. Give her butt a sniff and see how she reacts would be my advice.
     
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  11. Sombrero

    Sombrero Senior Member

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    I don't like to make women uncomfortable. I think there must be the right situation cuz she might be just being polite for the job. I felt a great connection BTW, we were both making jokes and having discussions.
     
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    Better you go jerk off and forget than having her hurt you later
     
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    Zwielicht Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    Oh sorry, try this one:

    "Hello hairstylist, are you comfortable? If so, then may I please have your phone number?"
     
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    Bobtx85 Registered Member

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    This happened to me once with a hair stylist at a place in a mall. I walked around for probably two hours thinking if I should say something. I finally sacked up and walked up to her while she was in front of the store and said "Hi, I was about to leave and realized you were just too cute for me to not ask for your number"

    She smiled an enormous smile and said she was sorry but that she had a boyfriend. Now, she could certainly have been lying but from the look on her face she was not creeped out or angry that I asked. On the contrary she seemed somewhat flattered.

    If you just ask for her number in a polite and respectful way and don't seem needy I don't think she will feel uncomfortable and she may even be a bit tickled at it. I'm not saying it will work, just that if done right it won't be awkward.

    Good luck!
     
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    You sir, very smart.
     
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    Sombrero Senior Member

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    You sir don't play by the rules!!

    But she was maybe 11-15 years older than me so the situation would be awkward like "how old are you? and the rest of the clients waiting in the room looking at me, this dog is horny as hell!!
     
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    Tell her you have a small cousin at home who doesn't wanna come over to the salon to have a haircut but needs one.
    Show her a picture of a cute baby. Women and babies always work.
     
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    Repeat after me.... Can I have your number?
     
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    Tell her... Do you like dogs?