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How to take it with a pinch of salt?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by mrpega, Mar 5, 2009.

  1. mrpega

    mrpega Regular Member

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    Do you find that sometimes when someone comment something bad about you or smirk at you about your weakness you will be mentally disturbed and keep thinking about it the whole day?

    How do you get around with this and what are your views regarding this?

    I would love to see how our fellow blackhaters deal with this issue..
     
  2. Jagged55

    Jagged55 Power Member

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    I am to the point where I don't really worry about what others think...especially on forums. Although I think before I post, I also understand that there are going to be people that just flame you and post nonsense because they are who they are. Why worry about something you can't control?
     
  3. The Scarlet Pimp

    The Scarlet Pimp Senior Member

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    i quit caring about what people think years ago.
     
  4. erascal

    erascal Junior Member

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    I agree...

    Why worry about what other people say?...

    I found this on a poster, I can't remember when and where, but it just stuck...

    Why worry?

    In life, you only have to worry whether you're healthy or sick.

    If you're healthy, why worry?

    If you're sick, you only have to worry whether you'll live or die.

    If you live, why worry?

    If you die, you only have to worry about whether you go to heaven or to hell.

    If you go to heaven, why worry?

    If you go to hell, you'd be too busy catching up with old friends to worry...

    So why worry?




    I just realized how stupid that sounded after typing it...LOL :caked:
     
  5. WizGizmo

    WizGizmo Super Moderator Staff Member Premium Member

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    Two days ago, I posted the following on another thread here at BHW:

    "Black Hat World is like a microcosm of the world in-general. You will find people here that you really like and people you really don't like. You will find people who like YOU and people who don't like you.

    If you post some info and someone gives you constructive criticism, that's a good thing. If you post info and someone just RIPS you for it, consider the source.

    For the most part, people here at BHW are very helpful and understanding. Listen and learn from them . . . The others who post unjustified negative comments still have their own "demons" to wrestle with and you just need to leave them to work things out for themselves. Be big enough to walk away and don't fuel their fire. They still have things to learn."


    Your Friend - "Wiz"
     
  6. mr4army

    mr4army Regular Member

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    another great post wiz you copied from the source im reporting you lol
     
  7. oldenstylehats

    oldenstylehats Elite Member Premium Member

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    Breathe in. Breathe out. Breathe in. Breathe out. Recognize the anger. Identify its origin. Let it go. Go on with your life.
     
  8. Sanitarium

    Sanitarium Regular Member

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    Just masturbate the pain away.
     
  9. tobacco

    tobacco Registered Member

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    I tend to dwell on things when I'm alone and have nothing to do. So I guess if you're the type of person to dwell on negative thoughts, just find something productive to do or hang out with some cool people. Or punch a wall.
     
  10. workingwhileworking

    workingwhileworking Junior Member

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    When you don't think of people, they merely cease to exist.
     
  11. nonhacker

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    Learn to live with them. read what they say and if it isnt to your liking, just ignore it. if you reply back they get a kick out of it and will keep going...

    Just treat them like a bad smell, eventually they will go away.

    I tend to find this sort of stuff comes from people who "think" they know it all. but if you go back thru their posts you will find that they too ask a lot of questions.

    Just forget the and concentrate on those that are helping you (Dont even negative rep them, its not worth the energy it takes)
     
  12. jinjangjoe

    jinjangjoe Newbie

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    I go to the gym and have a real good workout. The endorphins always calm me down. Even better if there are nice chicks on the treadmills or ellipticals. Sometimes I go for a run too.
     
  13. HenryHavoc

    HenryHavoc Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    Everytime I see Wiz post, I feel like I just opened a fortune cookie.
     
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    genie1 Junior Member

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    I seek bitter vengeance and then when masterminding my evil plot I realize just how awesome I am and continue on with my life
    :)