how to post link showing video but redirects direct to site?

Ok I can not say I have not done alot of facebook marketing, ok i have used 10.000 something profiles during the years but never realy focused on it. iknow they have become harder and I even got my personal fb account blocked for 30 days now because I shared 1 link that is banned by fb, its mine offcourse and in adult niche, but todays question is more how I can post a link, but it shows like a video and when they think they will see the video on fb they click, but instead they get redirected direcly to the site in question, i saw the same thing in question on fb and clicked and thought i was going to see the video on fb and not get a new tab opened ... please i realy need to know this, 4 girls to suport and the only one brining in the money...

i saw the text might be confusing, guess I smoked one to mutch, but hope u guys understand

anyone help needed?

So you want to post a link with play button so people think that is a video. They click on it and are taken to a website? If yes then it is simple,

Simply, copy and past a website link and then upload an image with a video screen capture and a play button.
To be simple, get a video which you need to show on that link lets say a funny one, capture a screenshot from that funny video and edit it then place a play button on it. This could be done by searching google for transparent play button and then paste it on the picture.

After you got the right image, when you paste a link and a preview is generated by facebook there comes an option for upload your own image. Just upload your own image there and you are done.