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How to make someone's life a living hell!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by festivalflower, Aug 19, 2014.

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  1. festivalflower

    festivalflower Newbie

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    I found this old post on BHW, and I have a similar issue. Fellas, please help me with my problem.
    Old forum: "112067-ways-f-k-up-someones-life-make-their-life-living-hell"


    I need a similar advise.


    I have a problem. The fault is mostly mine for allowing this to happen and go on this long, I realize it and admit it. I am aware of it. I am also aware of my nature, which up this point has been a really good one.
    I will try to make this short. I need advise on how to make someone lose their job (which they don't deserve), and have them suffer the way they made me suffer.

    This guy I've been dating for almost 3 years now, is a drug addict - sort of. He can control it sometimes, but other times he would do anything to get his fix. He manipulated me into helping him for so long. He tricked his doctor into thinking he has a disease which he doesn't. He is a sociopath and a manipulator. I finally realized that does and sat only what's convenient to him at the moment (even if it means flattering me or someone else, who can benefit him). He is sneaky and deceptive. It took me that long to realize this. Believe me, a lot of women are nurturers, they want to fix "broken men", and give more than take. Instead, I ended up throwing a lot into a selfish egoistical black hole that sucked the life out of me. How I am sane now, it's a miracle.
    Last night my attitude towards this person changed. He uses people (not so much in a sexual way, but perhaps so a little), he uses others for their resources, shelter, food, rides etc... until.. he no longer needs them.

    I want revenge. I want this person to suffer because he made me suffer (and countless others). I want to this person to lose his job and hit the rock bottom he was at when I first met him. He was at his lowest when I met him. Alcoholic with a ton of addictions. I sacrificed so much to try to help him, I feel drained. He is now doing better and I am left with nothing.....
    I want him to go back to how he was when I met him. Question: How can I make someone lose their job if they are in construction industry (and known to go to work high), but are very lucky at getting away with stuff? How can I make them suffer??
    Ideas?
     
  2. Mark Developer

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    You have been stupid and you dated blindly a leach, get over it and move on before spineless person like him will do something to you. If you tell truth ofc.
     
  3. AnthonyCorleone

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    Is bhw recently start ranking for dating advises or something?! o_O where all y'all coming from dang

    P.S. Womans dangerous species ))
     
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    TragikGod Registered Member

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    Nice first post.
     
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    first off.... he did not make you suffer, nobody can really make you suffer except YOU yourself, your not really angry at him but at yourself... and by being angry at him you are still suffering... still you doing this to yourself... while he is laughing and not suffering at all... but i found out in life the best way to get revenge on people is to become successful, people who you have a bad relationship or past with HATE it if you just ignore them and become successful, specially if you trow your success in their face.... they really, really hate this, haha

    good luck!
     
  6. festivalflower

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    Johny, or they continue not caring and continue with bad behavior.... hurting others.
    Would you allow a criminal run around freely and being successful in their face while they rob and steal from you? Because you were kind enough to let them in and feed them?
     
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    cant. stop. laughing.
     
  8. johnny westen

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    it is not up to you to decide what is criminal and what is not, this is just your opinion, and just because you where that dumb to help him does not make it his fault, but YOURS
    it is naive and very woman like to think you can change someone and to think that you should do so...
    It is very simple... in life, when there is an oppertunity, SOMEONE will take, whether it is him or someone else, it is up to YOU not to extend that oppertunity...
    if you remain the same as before, you will simply atract another person just like him into your life... WHY? because you create an oppertunity, so someone will take it, its that simple
    any partners or friends you atract in life, are just a reflection of your own feelings, attitude and mindset
    change your life, change your mind.... change your mind, change your life.... it really is that simple... study the law of attraction if you really want to know more about this
    Just live your life and forget about this bum, become successful and enjoy life!

    good luck
     
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    Destroy all ties to him. He'll find his way to rock bottom on his own.
     
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    Another laughing my ass off bhw drama. After so much work this is actually really good!! Keep on
     
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    On the path he is going just step back and watch him take the plunge himself. Sometimes a persons
    largest enemy is them. So make sure you're out of this loop and pop some popcorn.

    -RK
     
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    processing a response - got it -

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    Look. I have a history of drug addiction so let me give you some advice.

    My best friend since elementary school snitched on me in college (for drugs) and got me a 7 year sentence in prison. To stop himself from going to jail for a mere 30 days. So I know the real definition of "revenge". But I also know you are not in the right mindset, emotionally or intellectually to execute any form of revenge.... w/out fucking your own life up in the process.

    This is something you keep private, in-house, and OFF the fucking internet. Trust me on this.

    Some people deserve what they get in life (I know my snitch did), but the LAST THING you want is a trail of posts online documenting your whole plan. Cops will trace that shit with no problem if there is any blowback. This is Revenge Plotting 101.

    What a smart person does is WAIT. They WAIT a realllly long time and think things through. In my situation I waited YEARS. LOTS of years.

    Please, for your own sake, stop documenting this shit online and use your brains. If you do anything stupid, cops will have NO PROBLEM throwing your ass in jail. It won't matter how justified YOU thought it was. True revenge, the type that actually *works* can take years to properly plan and execute. It is NOT something you want to jump in and like I said it is NOT something you want to document online.


    -BB
     
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    I really don't feel sorry for you. You allowed this to happen. You knew all along how he was but you continued to allow
    it to happen. Maybe you like bad boys but there was something you liked about him that made you stay.

    You said he's a criminal, if that's correct and he committed a criminal act against you then you should file a complaint
    with the police.

    My advice is to move on and forget about this person - let him go, don't contact him anymore, don't answer his calls.

    MOVE ON ALREADY!!!
     
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    Revenge discussion is not allowed on BHW.

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