I found this old post on BHW, and I have a similar issue. Fellas, please help me with my problem. Old forum: "112067-ways-f-k-up-someones-life-make-their-life-living-hell" I need a similar advise. I have a problem. The fault is mostly mine for allowing this to happen and go on this long, I realize it and admit it. I am aware of it. I am also aware of my nature, which up this point has been a really good one. I will try to make this short. I need advise on how to make someone lose their job (which they don't deserve), and have them suffer the way they made me suffer. This guy I've been dating for almost 3 years now, is a drug addict - sort of. He can control it sometimes, but other times he would do anything to get his fix. He manipulated me into helping him for so long. He tricked his doctor into thinking he has a disease which he doesn't. He is a sociopath and a manipulator. I finally realized that does and sat only what's convenient to him at the moment (even if it means flattering me or someone else, who can benefit him). He is sneaky and deceptive. It took me that long to realize this. Believe me, a lot of women are nurturers, they want to fix "broken men", and give more than take. Instead, I ended up throwing a lot into a selfish egoistical black hole that sucked the life out of me. How I am sane now, it's a miracle. Last night my attitude towards this person changed. He uses people (not so much in a sexual way, but perhaps so a little), he uses others for their resources, shelter, food, rides etc... until.. he no longer needs them. I want revenge. I want this person to suffer because he made me suffer (and countless others). I want to this person to lose his job and hit the rock bottom he was at when I first met him. He was at his lowest when I met him. Alcoholic with a ton of addictions. I sacrificed so much to try to help him, I feel drained. He is now doing better and I am left with nothing..... I want him to go back to how he was when I met him. Question: How can I make someone lose their job if they are in construction industry (and known to go to work high), but are very lucky at getting away with stuff? How can I make them suffer?? Ideas?