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how to get my dating leads to convert

Discussion in 'Black Hat SEO' started by xuallan, Jun 7, 2012.

  1. xuallan

    xuallan BANNED BANNED

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    I am getting about 1000-2000 dating leads sent to my email from CL. I currently have an autoresponder set up, but it's not converting so well :( My free to paid signup ratio just dropped super low and now only receiving 2$ per paid lead... F THAT. I am considering getting a delayed auto-responder. My question is how to get people to sign up on the sites. Many people from my leads say things like "why can't we just talk through emails, why do I need to talk to you on that dating site?"

    Anyone know any good counter arguments for this or anything? If someone can help set me up I will gladly throw you some bucks via paypal. Please post here or send me a message via skype: heiko.winkler4
     
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  3. maxok

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    I think the OP talk about leads in dating websites as AFF, not in dating niche
    I don't think a girl will say "hey buy one of this books and we can have a date" :p
     
  4. EmpireQuality

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    cl users are getting more intelligent every day op.
    most of them have already gotten an email like yours before so they are not too stupid.
    tricking people into signing up is not going to convert in the long run for the advertiser, meaning you will not get paid.
    or you will get paid a very small amount.
    send legitimate traffic and you will make legit money.
    send crappy trick traffic and you will make crap money. simple.
     
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  5. andee

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    yes you need a time delayed auto responder, with 2 - 3 replies , each one anywhere from 10 - 30 mins apart.
    This can be accomplished by using filters, with Tbird or thebat (free) or a paid solution like BHAR.

    The hardest part about it, is not sounding like a guy pretending to be a girl.

    Ask open ended questions at the end of each message, ie at the end of the first say "so tell me something about yourself" then the second email should start "Oh you sound great" .

    There also need to be an under lying theme to your messages, you cant sound all happy and shit, then boom on the last hit them with a link saying, "join this site to make your your not a sex offender" , you need to hint through out the messages, that youre not sure about meeting people online etc....

    GL ... btw m m d cash converts like awesome
     
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  6. BlackIrish

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    Yup, most CL people have already been burned, so you might want to start re-thinking your method.
     
  7. ok180

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    Maybe you need to get better looking people on there :D
     
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    I just checked BradP out and that dude is righteous smooth!!! Never heard of him till now because I've let my dating and adult site sit dormant while I've been working on other projects. I'm signing up though; Rep + thanks to GiftGuru for the hookup.

    I found their website but could not determine what sites their affiliates promote. Do they hide that info until one signs up or what?
     
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    What is more righteous is his 30/30 plan. This dude gets them to sign up for $1 for 30 days and then he keeps them on a monthly billing for $30/per month of which you get 55%

    He has a high ass retention rate. I get checks every month from this guy.
     
  10. andee

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    I think you're misunderstanding the type of leads hes getting, he's getting e whore leads from CL (i think anyway)

    not guys looking for dating advice
     
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    First learn to use question marks.