Dear Friends, Hopefully will get some solution for my problem here.. IM is my part time, basically i am working as a senior software engineer in a famous financial firm .I know i have some issue with my attitute from my childhood itself,its still continuing.. In my official work ,i am very very good in my work and got lot of appreciation from my manager,still i don't feel confident in my work,always i feel that someone will take my position..i am very close to my manager,whevever my manager appreciate me i feel very happy,but if my manager appreciate someone i feel irrirated some time...eventhough i am very good in my work and dedicated to the core still i don't have confident with myself.. Also i feel very scared to take ownership in the work,but if somene lead the work and i am working under him,i will work like anything and complete the job before the dealine.... Even in my personal life sometime i feel i am not that much worth compare others in terms of the talent,the way they are behaving with people etc etc..my lack of confidence continue here also.. Also,always i am scraed for criticism..if someone gave negative comment abt me,the next minute i will loose all my confident.. Whats wrong with me??? lack of self confidence??? I would like to live my life for me not for others Pls suggest to change my attitute.. Cheers, Raj.