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How successful in dating are you?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Honest, Aug 24, 2016.

  1. Honest

    Honest Regular Member

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    Would you consider yourself successful in dating? Why?

    I'll share my answer after a few replies.
     
  2. shanna_doll

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    I'd say I am pretty much average :p I am just too picky and flirt with too many girls, so I end up alone haha :p

    Now share your answer
     
  3. jazzc

    jazzc Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    I can successfully recite any date. For example, today is 8th of August 2016 while tomorrow would be the 9th of August 2016. It's pretty trivial once you learn how.
     
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  4. Cadia

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    Guess I am really bad at it... Although I meet quite a few guys that are interested I am not really. Once somebody is in my head it takes me forever to get them out. Probably pretty stupid... ha
     
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    My dates weren't successful.
     
  6. CialisBilligInternet

    CialisBilligInternet BANNED BANNED

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    I am mainly because i had a plenty of fish bot which allowed me to reach out to more women.
     
  7. NotAClue

    NotAClue Junior Member

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    Was on Tinder for a year or so, 30 plus dates a few hook ups here and there :)

    Come off for 6 months and when i logged back into my account the 1st person I started talking to ended up being my GF. Going strong 6+months now. Strange how somethings turn out.
     
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  8. Carreira

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    I have a relationship for 11 years now, if that is success or failure it depends on the point of view.

    Please tell me your answer isn't a "Yes I am hugely successful thanks to this ebook"
     
  9. Rajbir1994

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    I would like to get the tips always for dating with a women. I don't have much experience in dating. So I would like to get more idea how to be confident and successful.
     
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    I'm waiting for the alpha male crew to show up.
     
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  11. Rajbir1994

    Rajbir1994 Newbie

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    Hey, I am waiting for that. Please show up. lol
     
  12. jazzc

    jazzc Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    The first thing you need to really get in your head is that a relationship is about emotions and being able to provide and receive them.

    So, are you an interesting person in some way (any way)? All you need to do is find a woman that likes that thing.

    So for example if you don't know how many letters the alphabet has but you're hitting the gym 6 times a week, you just hang with women who get excited for big muscles.

    If you're on the other end of the spectrum, you hang around with women you get excited intellectually.

    Etc. But: If you're a man that behaves like a crybaby girl and acts like she's a psychiatrist instead of a person, you're out of luck and need to change asap, as nobody is attracted to that.
     
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  13. Rajbir1994

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    wow! Very cool advice here. I really like and this will surely use in future.
     
  14. Tunenchi

    Tunenchi Regular Member

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    It's a windy day, honestly women are pretty much open to being nice and a bit less rude. Pretty much speak your mind and be yourself, women notice and like you then. Sometimes letting them speak and air out the bubble might be better since you'll know more about the other person and they'll be interested in you too.
     
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  16. Carreira

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    An alpha male that says Sup.

    Do you also end two liners with "nuff said"? :p
     
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    Yep, 1 candy or ice cream and the girl/boy is mine forever.
     
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    If you are a dog you are attracted to women who likes dogs.
     
  20. Honest

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    That's some alpha male shit. I built one for meetme since it was the only one that allowed me to be "popular" if anyone was really active in Georgia a few years ago, you literally know who I am now lol.