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How my recent situation has affected my income

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by 2011nfl, Jul 2, 2012.

  1. 2011nfl

    2011nfl Supreme Member

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    So before may 10th of this year, I was earning 1600 a month on my job, and over 2000 a month on im. I had my family staying in a hotel because it was fully furnished, and convenient. Then my whole world came crashing down, and since then I have been busy doing everything the court orders me to do. They don't see im as a stable income, so I was forced to choose my job over im. Now I still do Im, but I only average about $500 a month now, and because I have to miss hours at my job for this other bs, my job income has decreased to around $1200 a month. The court expects me to be able to pay my $800 rent, all of my bills, my car note, and completely furnish my house (basically by aug. 20th) with only $1200 a month. It's like they want me to fail. I still continue to be strong and look forward, and we are slowly getting small pieces of furniture. We just got our oldest daughter a bed today :).

    I have alot of friends on here, and I just really had to get that stuff off of my chest. I just can't wait to have my life back the way it was before all of this.
     
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  2. sayyas

    sayyas Junior Member

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    Keep on pushing. I'm sure you have a beautiful family, that should be your fuel. I wish I had that :)
     
  3. angie1958

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    You left out what caused the turnaround? Why the court?
     
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    at lest your not locked up player.

    keep your head up, this will soon pass.
     
  5. 2011nfl

    2011nfl Supreme Member

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    I purposely left that out. It's too personal for everyone to read. But it all has to do with my prayers thread.
     
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    Just be strong and push on...you can get back 2 normal once u do what the court orders;)
     
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    I just spent 3 days trying to explain to my barrister what I do and he still doesn't understand.
    And he's defending me.
    Just goes to show a law degree don't count for anything.
    Funny that my solicitors kids want IM lessons.
    Now she's calling me about facebook friends and youtube views for her kids.
     
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    ryannull Senior Member

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    The funny thing about the court systems, when you make less than minimum wage, they mock it and say it's unstable. But, when you are making a lot of money, the court will NEVER EVER say it is unstable. In fact, they will use it against you.

    Everyone loves you when you have a lot of money, and when you don't, they don't give a shit about you.
     
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    Thanks for sharing that with us. Too many people join BHW and think all we talk about is how to trick Google and cheat people for money. The forget that we too are real people even if hidden behind our member names and IP's and that like everyone else, we want the sense of community and friendship.

    I hate the situation for you. I'm not going to dig up the other thread, but its interesting that you do not have the time to do IM unless you are doing community service or have internet restrictions.

    Stay strong though. I've gone through one of these bumps before and still working out of it. My problem, other than the problem itself is that I did not have a backup plan. I thought my IM stuff was running smooth until I hit a snag. Who knew one factor played such a big role.

    As for the courts setting you up to fail... yeah, that thought is common among people who work. Those who don't work and wait til the first of 'da month for their checks could care less. Unless us, they don't have much to lose and have no goals.

    Hang in there and keep reading. Something will click.
     
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    oxonbeef BANNED BANNED

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    I make more then my barrister He just doesn't understand how i do without living the 9 to 5 lifestyle of everyone else.
    I probably make more money then anyone in the court besides the judge and he don't exactly do much.
     
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    Stay strong man... I've pretty much lived my whole life in an unfurnished and broken down apartment with minimal food and just the bare necessities to make it through. I'm only 21 now but my father who was making plenty of money + child benefits didn't find it necessary to spend any funds on me or my siblings. That's a whole other story however and I don't want to bring you down even more with my sad life story but I live on my own now and support myself (I have since I was 16-17) and the funny part is my father expects me to take care of him financially -- what a joke. I just got into IM a little less than a year ago... I was making good money prior to the penguin update but my main money site went down and I am in the process of bringing it back up.
     
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    I wish I could explain it because I would make a WSO and sell it but making money is an attitude not a method.
     
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    It's not that, they just have me jumping through all kinds of hoops and going to un needed classes and other services that take all day long, and I work all night.
     
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    I went to court a few years ago, and the opposing counsel was trying to figure out what I exactly did for work to make that kind of money. I put his income to shame. The Judge, knew exactly what I was doing. I only explained it briefly, but the Judge was familiar with it. Which caught me off guard. No one I talked to could understand it. lol
     
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    I'm on a third retrial been 2 years now. I hope I get one like that now. Back in the PPI days I deliberately didn't keep records.
    Stressing me out to fuck. Absoloutly no evidence against me. The whole prosecution case is where did I derive that money.
     
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    I agree with both comments 100%. If you tell people you make money online, they think Amway or some other scam. Which some on here do that, but I don't think they make big money like you are talking about.

    I do not talk to anyone about how much money I make other than my wife and the person I make it with because I know they will have many questions and still not understand.

    The times are different. No longer is it the doctors and lawyers that are making money. It's now common folk like us. We just don't have the nice title.
     
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  17. ryannull

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    It's funny you say that. Several years ago, when people asked me what I did, I would tell them "internet marketing". They ALWAYS reply with, "so, you are the one sending me all the spam!". It's funny, because I never did email marketing at the time. People just associate internet marketing with email spam.

    So, when people ask what I do for living now, I tell them I am good with computers. :p
     
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    I understand where you are coming from. When you can't show how you got the income, they always think it was acquired criminally, like laundering, drugs etc..
     
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    Lol, I have to agree. The few friends I have that do know I make money online, call me a scam artist. Whats funny though, is that my method really isn't a scam.
     
  20. CoyoteAssassin

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    It's alright.. my brother-in-law and uncle once had a conversation with each other asking if I sell drugs. I don't smoke or drink so the thought of me selling drugs was funny. Occasionally I have to make a business trip via plane so this only added to the confusion.

    I wasn't supposed to know about the conversation as it was around another relative, so the next time I was around them, I used words like buyer, clients, etc. haha