ShiningWarrior
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- Mar 17, 2018
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Hey, how do you all stay and keep your cool when you are being criticized and judged by a toxic family and their relatives? Do you always stay cool and ignore OR you get back at them?
And, what do you do when people and society starts getting nosy in your life and asking what you do and such like it's their freakin to know about every damn thing?
One thing I've come to know is that your own family (in my case it's pure toxic) and their relatives KNOWS EVERY GODDAMN THING in the WORLD haha. It's like the earth revolves around them. Whatever they do, it's correct and they will try to give you advice on doing that thing whereas they are living a limited lifestyle and by that, I mean an office job working for a boss lifestyle. If one month their salary is delayed by some days, they get freaked out because they literally are living the common average lifestyle and yet these families, the relatives, and the society will behave like they know everything in the world and the earth revolves around them.
They will judge your clothes (all of them judged my ex showing clevage, wearing tight clothes, wearing croptop, wearing shorts, and also what we eat and what we do etc etc.), lifestyle, will ask how much you make and whats going on with your family and so-so personal and professional matters. They are so nosy they don't any matters that they should NOT get involved in anyone's personal and professional lives.
The same thing happened in my apartment where a girl was told to wear proper clothes by one of the older women. I was WTF? It's her life, it's her choice, it's her clothes, who the f#ck are you to tell what to do? She is not eating your food or even knows you right? She was bothered for a couple of days by that fat sweaty women and some of her friends until she finally told her landlord that she was being told such and her landlord warned those women to mind their own business.
I'm sure some of you are or have been judged and criticized like this? You may or may not have been told what to do or how and what to wear? And you faced criticism from almost everyone in your family and some of your family members are toxic?
It's a good thing that I moved out or else I would have been suffocated by negativity. But this girl's issue reminded of my own thing back in those days.
How do you deal with day to day things like these, if you face or faced such things before?
And, what do you do when people and society starts getting nosy in your life and asking what you do and such like it's their freakin to know about every damn thing?
One thing I've come to know is that your own family (in my case it's pure toxic) and their relatives KNOWS EVERY GODDAMN THING in the WORLD haha. It's like the earth revolves around them. Whatever they do, it's correct and they will try to give you advice on doing that thing whereas they are living a limited lifestyle and by that, I mean an office job working for a boss lifestyle. If one month their salary is delayed by some days, they get freaked out because they literally are living the common average lifestyle and yet these families, the relatives, and the society will behave like they know everything in the world and the earth revolves around them.
They will judge your clothes (all of them judged my ex showing clevage, wearing tight clothes, wearing croptop, wearing shorts, and also what we eat and what we do etc etc.), lifestyle, will ask how much you make and whats going on with your family and so-so personal and professional matters. They are so nosy they don't any matters that they should NOT get involved in anyone's personal and professional lives.
The same thing happened in my apartment where a girl was told to wear proper clothes by one of the older women. I was WTF? It's her life, it's her choice, it's her clothes, who the f#ck are you to tell what to do? She is not eating your food or even knows you right? She was bothered for a couple of days by that fat sweaty women and some of her friends until she finally told her landlord that she was being told such and her landlord warned those women to mind their own business.
I'm sure some of you are or have been judged and criticized like this? You may or may not have been told what to do or how and what to wear? And you faced criticism from almost everyone in your family and some of your family members are toxic?
It's a good thing that I moved out or else I would have been suffocated by negativity. But this girl's issue reminded of my own thing back in those days.
How do you deal with day to day things like these, if you face or faced such things before?
