Help with my website.

Hello all! I am very very new to all of this. I lost my job and I tried looking for another 9 to 5 and there just isn't shit. I have a wife and two kids and i may be out on my ass soon. anyways enough of that i have a website for a particular group of people. I have looked on the internet and there are only two other sites like it with one of them being the one that gets all the traffic. I would like to put this guy out of business cause he is a total asshole anyways. His site has a little over 100,000 members and he makes his money through membership and advertising. I would be willing to partner up with the right person if you could help me. PM me and I can give you the details. Thanks in advance.
Pantera

If this isn't in the right forum please let me know and i'll move it.

you should put your experiences in this also please.

Ok I didn't want to post the competition site and give him even more publicity. Basically it is was a message board discussing sites for people looking to consult a doctor by telephone which would result in a prescription. he has a message board where people can post their experiences wjth these type services. he charges a fee for VIP members as well as advertising fees for these services. I ran a service like this but his fees were to high to advertise on his board and if you didn't pay him for advertising he would have his special little group talk shit about my service. The law changed this year where they have to see the doc once a year so along with this and bad publicity i shut down. I want to start a board like his but I would like to put individual doctors on the board as well and maybe get a referral fee or something like that. I would like to make it different from his and offer more. I am not sure this explained much more but if someone could help that would be cool!