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[Help Please] I saw the guy who robbed me 8 years ago today, what should I do?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by pewep, Nov 21, 2013.

  1. pewep

    pewep Power Member

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    I remember this shit like it was yesterday because it's one of those memories that really stick out in my mind. I was a high schooler at the time - a senior and was walking back from the downtown mall area. I forget why I was there, especially since I was one brokeass kid but I do remember I had 43 bucks on me that my mom had given me a couple of days ago for my birthday. Anyway I took a shortcut to the bus stop along this shady neighborhood (not very smart, I know) and that's when I got jumped.

    It lasted 15 maybe 20 seconds TOPS. This fat black guy with a mole on his right cheek and a cross tattoo right under this left eye came out of fucking NOWHERE in the Middle.Of.The.Day and pulled out a god damn gun at me. I froze instantly, I went completely numb. He kept telling me to give him everything, what the fuck I had. I was absolutely frozen with fear and it wasn't until he slapped me so hard that I fell that I realized what was going on. Ok I'll admit I started crying like a bitch but I immediately gave him my wallet that had all my money. Here's the tricky thing - it also had my license and my ssn card and a bunch of other irreplaceable shit. He also took my crappy cellphone and for whatever reason my pencils. After I did he sprinted the hell out of there and into a nearby alley. I was crying the whole way back home. Anyway my parents filed a police report with me there but they never found him. I developed severe anxiety issues and shit for a while before I learned meditation, started working out and took a bunch of MMA classes. Working out really saved my life and helped me regain my manhood.

    Anyway I went back to my old town today and was in Red Lobster with one of my HS buddies when I saw the mother fucker. He still had the same mole on the right side of the face, the tattoo was kinda getting faded but was still clear and his gap tooth. The prick even lost some weight apparently.

    Here's the shit that's got me trippin - he was with (obviously to me) his family. He had a really young daughter - probably around age 3 and his wife and they looked like they were genuinely enjoying themselves and having a nice peaceful time and I know he didn't see me. My bud sensed that I was very disturbed for some reason but I didn't tell him anything. Basically I've been stalking this guy ever since I saw him and I found out he's both a youth pastor and teaches classes in a bunch of drug awareness programs. I honestly don't know what to do. Should I confront him or just let it go?
     
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  2. Rydogg813

    Rydogg813 Newbie

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    Holy hell. Sounds crazy. Lol you know 100% its him?
     
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  3. judif414

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    What would Jesus do?
     
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  4. pixelgrinder

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    What would you be planning to do? Say, hey man, you mugged me 8 years ago, that was fucked up. Or are you thinking about physically confronting him?
     
  5. pewep

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    I could never forget that face dude I'm 99% sure it's him.

    Pixelgrinder - I'm not going to fight him because I don't want to go to jail but honestly I wish he knew what he did to me.
     
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  6. vietjr

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    just tell him you are BHW member now,im sure he will be scare like sh*t
     
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    hire some low life thugs.
     
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  8. professional20

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    Confront him in the most friendliest of manners! Tell him what he did to you, and try to get him to sign up to one of your SEO services in return. If not then tell him to refund you the 43 bucks.
     
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  9. greenmusic

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    Confront him! but go with your boys and make sure he's not carrying a weapon. It's time for him to learn a lesson. Just slap the shit out of him just like he did to you.
     
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  10. pewep

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    Honestly, I really don't know what to do. The guy apparently preaches about changing lives and become a better person these days but I just want him to feel the fear and shame he made me feel. I had buried this so far inside and right when I thought I had forgotten about it, I had to see him.

    I'm not going to physically hurt him but I feel like I want retribution.
     
  11. greenmusic

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    You're Hilarious.....
     
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    Ask for your $43 back
     
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    Tell him how lucky he is to still be alive. Then walk away.

    There is an ancient Chinese saying:

    "Before you embark on your journey of revenge, be sure you dig TWO graves."

    Cheers! - "Wiz"
     
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    Not something you should let go. Think back to all the issues that arose in your life because of what he did. You were a kid and you were crying when it happen. Did he express any sympathy upon seeing that? As for what you should do, I cant tell you but im sure you'll get a lot of ideas from other users. Just think about how great you'll feel afterwards.

    My 2 cents
     
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  15. cheekykent

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    hide your valuables so he doesn't rob you again
     
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  16. Vonais

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    Confront him and teach him IM.
     
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  17. SnakePliskin

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    Walk up behind him, yell "SURPRISE", and rob him back. Then leave a note that says "Your move".
     
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    With some of the threads you create, I find it hard to believe in anything that comes from you... lol
     
  19. Kaistar

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    Shoulda politely introduced yourself to him and his family, explained the situation to them all and thanked him for what he did that day because it made you a stronger person.
    Double win.
    You get to let him know he hasn't 'really' beaten you and you let his family know what a prick this guy really is.

    'Like A Boss'...
     
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  20. MafiaBoss

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    If you don't want to hurt him, just show/teach him, that although he robbed you and hurt you, but the world is still full of good people.

    if he have some humanity left in him, he will truely feel sorry for himself.

    this type of thing really effect a person instead of beating him, i agree with you.

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    But if he robbed from me, i prefer to beat the shit out of him.
     
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