Pay attention for how you live your live and how you relate to others. The blind are leading the blind... and both will fall into the ditch. If you are still no certain of yourself and still look for others for approval, attention and scooby sneaks you are leading somebody else's life. Sooner or later you'll die, so confront your mortality. Act now. Tomorow never exists. Be assertive, don't be afraid to stand for your rights. Most self-anointed experts or layman will give you 'advice'... sometimes that 'advice' benefits their intentions.¹ Don't wait for others to do anything for you. Do not depend on other people. Be self-reliant. You have been warned. ¹That includes that very forum... and my own thread. Trust no one, only your guts.